I'd have to agree with mitra. Everyone is alittle superficial and they also care about what other's think of them. Couples typically mirror one other. How often do you see a fat, out of shape, 300 lbs man with a 100 lbs, smokin' hot woman... without any money involved? For us husky guys, no - we don't really mind a few extra pounds because the women we are with typically have a few extra pounds. But I bet if you ask a guy who works at A&F (and isn't gay), he wants a girl with a frame like Megan Fox. Bottomline, no guy PERIOD wants to be with a woman who weights more than him.