Have You Been Caught Wearing Women's Lingerie?
Being caught wearing women's lingerie is a major concern for many men who like to wear lingerie, but don't want others to know about it.
Whilst some purists might scream about being proud of your lingerie wearing habits and not giving a damn about what anyone things, realistically what a man wears under his clothes is no more the world's business than any other intimate decision he makes. Also, whilst we can be very progressive about the idea of men wearing lingerie, it is true to say that there are many parts of the world where these attitudes have yet to trickle down.
Sometimes it is undeniably better not to be caught wearing women's lingerie. But it's not always obvious as to whether you've been caught in lingerie or not. Not every person who catches you will let you know that you've been caught. It's not that they won't tell anyone about it, no, they'll tell people, just not you. Before you know it, your lingerie wearing has secretly become public information.
So, how can you tell you've been caught?
Something might feel different between you and a coworker or friend. It's hard to put your finger on it, but all of a sudden, things just aren't the same. Maybe they're having a hard time making eye contact, or perhaps they're mumbling and making excuses to not spend time with you. Granted, most friends worth having wouldn't behave this way, but most of us tend to end up with at least one or two friends not worth having at some point in our lives.
The information turns up on the bathroom wall. It's so third grade, but it happens. Juicy secrets and gossip have a life of their own, and sooner or later, some aspiring Picasso is going to want to record the secrets of your lingerie in a public place for posterity.
Some people giggle for no reason when talking to you. Blushing, giggling, acting as if they're five years old. It's out of character for the CEO of your company, and your lingerie might just be the reason why.
Now of course, there's no point getting too paranoid about the above indicators. They could be a sign that you've unwittingly been caught out in lingerie, or they could be a sign that something else is going on. The only real way to tell if you've been caught out is to ask someone who already knows, or to simply wait the rumor storm out (if there is one).
Have any stories of times you were caught out in lingerie but didn't know it? Share them here!