Helping Men In Lingerie: Your Comments Count
A great deal of the men who read these articles are quite comfortable with the fact that they like to wear women's lingerie, and a great deal of those men make comments and share tips and secrets, and that's really great. I'm betting that most men who wear lingerie who leave comments here with their experiences with wearing women's lingerie, good or bad, don't really stop to think about what those comments do.
Believe it or not, you commenters are very helpful in aiding other men who want to wear women's lingerie come to terms with it. Being a female, I can write from my perspective and be encouraging about the subject of men in panties and bras and what not, but there is much to be gained when men with experience in the field add their voices to the mix.
Some men who like to wear women's panties never realize that there are other men out there who feel the same way. I would even go so far as to say that before the inception and widespread use of the Internet, many men spent lifetimes in isolation, thinking that they were freaks for wanting to put on a bra. Nowadays it is easy to use a search engine and very quickly find communities and articles on the subject.
In spite of this fact, it can still be pretty difficult for a man to come to terms with his desire to wear lingerie. Men are subjected to some pretty heavy expectations associated with their gender. They are expected to be strong, and brave, to run into burning buildings when needed, and to be able to hunt and kill their own game. Men should be martial arts experts, and be ready with a witty riposte when evil terrorists tie them up and lower them slowly into a vat of acid. Being a man living up to society's expectations of manliness a la Hollywood especially is almost impossible.
For a man to want to wear women's lingerie breaks all the molds that society has imposed on men. There has yet to be an action hero who wore a pink satin thong whilst blasting through evil doers with an oversized penile replacement gun.
Of course, real people are not two dimensional characters, but still, for a man, the realization that he wants to wear a pair of panties, or some stockings, or some other item of lingerie can be quite a blow to his masculine identity. It can often lead to him trying to reject the desires, which, of course, only makes them stronger. In extreme cases it can even lead to a kind of self loathing, which is sad, because there is no need for it. There are plenty of strong, honorable, masculine and entirely heterosexual men who enjoy wearing women's lingerie.
Some men who wear lingerie also go on to wear dresses and shoes and things of that nature, but many men don't. For many men the fascination begins and ends with panties or bras or stockings, whatever their penchant is. So keep sharing your stories guys, because hearing that other men are happily married and living full and normal lives as well as occasionally wearing lingerie can make all the difference for those struggling with their lingerie desires.