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Want to Feel Sexy?

Updated on April 15, 2012
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Take care of your body.

Every woman wants to feel sexy. We want to feel loved and cherished. One step to feeling sexy is to take care of yourself. Taking care of yourself physically makes you like yourself more and makes you more confident. A good diet and workout program can really boost your endorphins as well as giving you a more desirable physique. Also, when you eat well and workout you get more in tune with your body and feel naturally sexier and more centered. Take special care of your skin. Moisturize your face and body. You will feel like a goddess.

Indulge & compliment yourself.

Some women think a boyfriend can make them feel sexy. That can work too if you have the right guy who does that for you by giving you compliments and being really into you, but if you don't have that you can be your own "boyfriend" and make yourself feel that way. Give yourself compliments when you look in the mirror. Pay special attention to things you like about yourself. The way your hair falls, your smile, your curves. Appreciate yourself. It works. If you do that you won't feel the need for somebody else telling you those things. Go and buy yourself some roses or have your own date night with yourself. Try a bubble bath with some comforting music and wine. Go for a spa day or get a facial. This will empower you as well as make you feel sexy by appreciating yourself.

Dress like a goddess.

Wear feminine clothes. Buy some lingerie. You will be surprised how some lacy under things can make you feel like a goddess. Lace, satin, and silk are such delicate fabrics that scream sexiness and will have that same affect on you too. Get some dresses too. The little black dress is a must have, buy some maxi dresses for the summer, or a lacy dress. Also treat yourself to a long classy dress. Put it on at a special event. It will make you feel like a celebrity and boost your sexiness factor. I bought this Calvin Klein black long one shoulder gown for a wedding and it made me feel great. I had so much fun getting all dressed up that night. It raised my confidence through the roof. Nothing makes you feel more girly and pretty than getting all done up and paying attention to all the details as you go along.

Believe in yourself.

Believing that you are sexy will make you sexy. Confidence and the way you see yourself is key. Even if you don't feel that way. Fake it and soon you will. Try a new hairstyle or look to this new way of being. It will help. Look at actresses that you think are sexy and do what they do with your own flair. Don't copy someone to the point where it's not you anymore. Being you at heart is the sexiest thing.


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    • carolinemd21 profile image

      Caroline Marie 5 years ago

      @ Hi Mathira thanks for reading!

      @ Hi Natasha thanks for reading!

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      Natasha 5 years ago from Hawaii

      I totally agree - when you take care of yourself, it shows and it's a huge confidence booster!

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      mathira 5 years ago from chennai

      Completely agree with you carolinemd21.

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      shelly_ramasocky 5 years ago

      thanks! lol ;)

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      Caroline Marie 5 years ago

      Awesome it looks great Shelly. Love your Build a Better Butt article! LOL.

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      Caroline Marie 6 years ago

      Thanks Shelly! No I don't mind go ahead. Thank you for reading!

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      shelly_ramasocky 6 years ago

      This is a great Hub!!!! Mind if I link it!?

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      Caroline Marie 6 years ago

      Marlena I totally agree! Thanks for stopping by and reading. :)

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      Marlena Oechsner 6 years ago from Wisconsin

      Excellent hub! Your first point is perhaps the most profound: take care of your body. No matter what you wear or what others say, you will never feel sexy if you don't feel happy in your own skin. So take care of yourself on multiple levels: skin, hair, overall general appearance. If you don't like one thing about yourself, it's going to show in other areas. Plus, loving your body and taking care of yourself IS sexy. :)