Woman Marrying Feminine Men
I am interested find out other women’s views on the topic. First of I would like to give you a bit of background about my self. I consider my self to be a successful, confident woman with pretty standard upbringing and lifestyle. I live in London and have a good social network of friends which includes business women, new mums and generally people of mixed age groups from both sexes. Over the course of the past 8 years, I have had couple of relationships which can be classed as relatively long term but otherwise, the rest haven been dates rather then actual relationships.
I have been with my current partner for almost 4 years and it was shortly before meeting him I found my self to be more attracted to men who are more feminine. I have always had a good mixtures of friends from both sexes and have been just as comfortable around both. I discovered that I seem to be more in tune with guys who are feminine in nature and also in appearance. I like the delicateness and the submissiveness. This doesn’t mean to say I don’t like masculinity. I discovered a real affinity for feminine guys and as I am getting to an age where I want to settle down, I am finding my natural instincts pushing me in this direction.
When I met my partner, I had just some out of a long term relationship. At first we were simply goods friends and it remained this way for over a year. During the time I have known him, he has leant more and more towards feminine side of his personality and I have encouraged this to the point he dresses from time to time. On a day to day bases, it more a question of wearing female jeans, tops and light make-up and oh he has a real love for nail polish so is always doing his nails. He looks more androgens then female most of the time on but from once in a while, he dresses fully when we go out. I have always loved the fact we can both go shopping and look at same things for both of us and even though he is ever so slightly bigger built then me, we can sometimes share clothes. We are never going to reach a pint of him dressing fully time as a female and I don’t think he can really be classed as a Crossdresser in the traditional sense of the word. With him, its more about the feminine side of personality coming out and I encouraged him explore more. He has a love from stylish female clothes like most of us. Most of my friends know and love his feminine side and it’s no big deal but very occasionally we do come across people who disapprove or think he is gay.
We are now thinking of getting married and this is likely to be next year. We haven’t yet decided on what kind of wedding but I would love to incorporate some feminine side of his personality to his wedding attire. Unfortunately, both of us dressed as brides won’t go well with everyone and I also don’t want to make an even bigger dream of the wedding day but one of my friends did suggest having a private small ceremony later with him in a dress so this is one consideration. I would like to get other women’s opinion on feminine men and also would appreciate suggestion what he should ware.
Have any of you girls out there in a similar relationship with feminine guys and can you appreciate men who are feminine?