I am one to maintain eye contact. A close friend has a mole near her nose and I hardly notice it.
However, I have never considered a mole a beauty mark. I have always wondered why Cindy Crawford never got that mole removed from her face. I find it very distracting.
A few months ago I noticed a mole on my left cheek. It was not raised, nor dark, but I went to the dermatologist and had it removed immediately. I was personally not comfortable with it, even though it was hardly noticeable. However, I noticed it every day when I brushed my teeth and put on make-up. For myself, it was in the way.
Whether or not an individual has a mole removed from his/her face is their own personal decision, and I respect that.
Blessings, Sparklea :)