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WHY BLOGGER QUEEN LESLIE SIEGEL MESSED UP ON FACEBOOK, CAN IT BE FIXED?
Blogger Queen Gets Bitten in the Arse Over Posts!
Busted Leslie Siegel Blogger Queen, They were On To you!
"I was Just Joking Mom, Sis, Brothers, can't you understand?
Once A Great Blogger, Leslie Siegel made crude, stupid mistakes on Facebook, Yes, It Can Be Fixed!
Everyone thought right away, "how mean I was, crude and cluttered with a multi-personality following of friends (all fake profiles created by me). Everyone makes posting mistakes, but I took it to the hilt! Even the most expert media hounds will slip. But if Facebook Friends consistently misinterpret my posts and photos, it's more likely I am not communicating clearly on social media. I Wasn't.
Yes, I admit it, I'm guilty, I've atoned, but I did leave myself open, and put my Size 9 foot straight into my open mouth, thus the photos in this article represent? (echoing were the biting posts of others, even more meaner than I could imagine writing) "Someone get my shotgun" read one post on SIegel's high school Facebook site. Isn't that enough! "Someone get a rope!" Oy vey.
So I needed help communicating. Sometimes this means talking privately to FB friends who can interpret my posts to the 'offended' and tell them exactly what I meant (whoops, too late), but this type of person can be difficult to find. A better bet may be hiring a Social Media Life Coach, if there is such a thing (there should be) who focuses on communication skills to get me posting what I mean in a way that my Facebook friends can understand.
Another clue to "failure on Facebook" is a simple word "Turnover"! Why do people keep unfriending me, walking away quietly in a blocked huff? I've already started taking a fresh look at my own posting and saw flaws, but honesty. So, does the rest apply? Have I thought it out? Is the Photo damning to family or offensive? Am I pissing off ANYONE, even though I'm set at PUBLIC mode? And lastly, there's always the 'delete' button, which I started using with vigor.
Yes, I admit it, I used negative feedback to get others to react and respond negatively by posting punishing posts, or the poster who is the bearer of bad news. But now that I've been shown 'the light' I feel myself thinking before posting. Or even writing an article like this one.
Now, how to fix it? I have to go outside of the friends I know and meet new ones then apply all this I just wrote about here. Again throw myself on my family's path and plead temporary insanity, doubt brothers will ever speak to me again, but maybe there's hope. God told me to have more hope and faith in OTHERS. You have enough in me, he said! Trust others to forgive! They will!
TAKE HEART FACEBOOK FRIENDS AND FAMILY THAT ARE STILL STICKING WITH ME! CHANGE IN ME IS MORE CLOSER ON THE HORIZON AND CAN ALREADY BE SEEN! YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!