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Kindness is still Around

Updated on June 3, 2013
Awww Thank You...
Awww Thank You... | Source

I took a long needed vacation this year and I was both shocked as well as very surprised. People never seem to change in the daily routine we become used to. Sometimes forgetting others do pay attention to what is happening around them, are and can be very thoughtful and kind.

Although since I am now in my 70's (well actually 73...shhhh) I do realize many younger people hold doors open, offer to reach something for me in stores, ask if they can help and it always makes my heart skip a beat. Older folks are also very thoughtful, and it makes me try harder to be as kind.

I sometimes get so into my own short comings, and aches and pains I forget to look around and have compassion for others. I do offer a smile, a hello and wait patiently for others who are slower then I am, but it always perks me up when someone speaks kindly and offers help. I promise myself to extend these acts of kindness more often.

On my trip last month, which was the first in 8 years, (as I was busy caring for my now deceased Mother), I experienced many helpful, understanding, kind people. I prepared for the trip by contacting my two credit card companies and explaining I would be traveling in four different states and gave them the dates I would be leaving as well as returning...this was suggested to me by a friend. So me and my Poodle "Little Bear", took off driving to California.

Things went well, but the day I arrived at my sisters house I received a cell phone call from one of my credit card companies. They told me they believed someone had made un-authorized charges and questioned me about them. There were 16-17 internet charges, that began after a gas fill up in Oregon. I do not have a laptop, or smart phone and was not on any computer, since I was busy driving. They of course took care of everything, issued me a new card and had it delivered to my sisters house in two days. I did make a police report, but they told me it was nearly impossible to catch these thief's, I being from Washington, it happening in Oregon and reported in California made for a lot of problems. He told me the world is not the same as it used to be, sadly the Credit card company would get the best results and even using cash isn't safe anymore.

Bubba abd Bear getting used to each other.
Bubba abd Bear getting used to each other. | Source

My sister and I each have small dogs, I was surprised how many Motels are "Pet Friendly", and many stores (w/o food) allowed them inside. It made the trip more fun. My dog and I had a lot of time together and we both learned about traveling by car for a long distance. It seemed to me the rooms were really very clean and comfortable.

Also the town she lives in had many wonderful spots for our dogs to run, and on every Tuesday between 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. they have a special for Seniors at the local car wash. It cost only $4.00 and when you take your receipt inside they give you a free loaf of fresh wonderful bread of your choice. You are also allowed to vacuum out your car at no extra charge. I was very impressed with this offer of kindness for Seniors. Also a gas station was nearby. I actually went there twice during my visit... I wish my small town did this...maybe I can suggest it ?

It was good to be home and I have a better feeling for people as I run around doing my errands, getting away was wonderful and I know God is always taking care of me...I just hope I can be a kinder more thoughtful old woman in His Honor...

Be Kind...Be Gentle...Be Loving...Be Honest...Follow your heart... Hugs G-Ma :O)


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    • G-Ma Johnson profile imageAUTHOR

      Merle Ann Johnson 

      5 years ago from NW in the land of the Free

      VioletSun ..No I sure didn't...though I guess it could have, but the Creditcard company was right on it...Thanks for commenting my dear...:O) Hugs G-Ma

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      5 years ago from Oregon/ Name: Marie

      Kindness definitely makes daily living and a vacation more enjoyable. Looks like you didn't let the credit card issue spoil your trip.

    • G-Ma Johnson profile imageAUTHOR

      Merle Ann Johnson 

      5 years ago from NW in the land of the Free

      moonlake..also glad to hear you rescued this dog..what kind? I lve my poodle...and thanks for taking time to cmment...:O) Hugs G-Ma

    • G-Ma Johnson profile imageAUTHOR

      Merle Ann Johnson 

      5 years ago from NW in the land of the Free

      Jackie Lynnley ...Thanks for commenting and yes it was a good trip...:O) Hugs -Ma

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      5 years ago from America

      You seem to have had a nice trip. Well the credit card thing wasn't any fun. It's nice to know that so many places let small dogs in. We just got a small dog that came here from California. I guess California has many, many stray small dogs running around. Rescue here brought back about 25 of them and we got one of them. Enjoyed reading about your trip and voted up.

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      Jackie Lynnley 

      5 years ago from The Beautiful South

      You sure don't sound old to me. Glad you had a good vacation minus the credit card trouble. Good thing you did get in touch with them I would say.

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      Feline Prophet 

      5 years ago

      Glad you had a lovely vacation and met some wonderful people! I believe that people respond to the kind of person you are...and you obviously radiate the right kind of energy! :)


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