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Life Abroad

Updated on July 17, 2011
Roxas Boulivard, Manila
Roxas Boulivard, Manila

Let me start by quoting what one of the facebook users have posted "Happiness does not come from seeking new landscapes, but from having new eyes on the same life you’ve always been living".

Living abroad creates different atmosphere in our lives. For some it could be the most rewarding moments financially and emotionally. But for some it could be the nightmare and given a chance to rollback the past, I am sure they will wish that such experience of life abroad will not happen to them. Sounds awful isn't it?


NAIA terminal
NAIA terminal

Why do people still preferred to work and live abroad? Because our common goal is to seek a greener pasture, to earn money in a hope to give a better future for our family. We trade in homesickness and loveones separation in exchange for better opportunities which our home country cannot give. As an example, Filipino seamen are always suffering the dangers of angry waves, storms, pirates, sleepless nights and boredom yet they endure all the hardships to support their loveones.

Do you have any idea how many Filipinos are working and living abroad? There are about 11 million Filipinos abroad which totaled to 11% of Philippines population. In the Middle East, there are about 2 million Filipinos of which more than a million resides in Saudi Arabia between 1 to 1.5 million) as of 2009.

However not everybody have the same experience of going abroad. There are plenty of sad and happy experiences. The process of going abroad alone is so painful. We heard of those individuals who sold their properties but end up illegally recruited by fake recruiters, others opted to TNT scheme, and some women resorting to made-to-order bride to speed up their migration. Some are lucky enough to find a good employment and a good employer but some are not.

Desert Camels
Desert Camels

The first thing that may welcome you abroad is the culture shocks. You will find the things you used to do may not be applicable in the host country. Loneliness is the no.1 challenge in living abroad, especially in Middle East so called closed countries. You cannot just do what you used to do back home. Boredom may sometimes results to insanity. Thank you to internet technology. Right now it’s not really so difficult because of the advancement of information technology wherein you can easily chat and talk to your loveones via internet. Being alone or bachelor, you are force to wash your own clothes, cook for yourselves and when sick, you cannot just call anybody for help. Only few people were able to manage to bring their family and stay together.

Kingdom Tower
Kingdom Tower

In some places, there's a lot of discrimination. You need to adjust to environment and take the new challenges. A foreign worker may need to upgrade or enhance his skills in order to compete and retain his job, be equipped with new technologies to cope up with the changing world and workplace demands and expectations.

At worse, some overseas contract worker became a victim of sexual abuses, maltreatment, unpaid salaries, and labor malpractices. They become stranded or distressed OFWs waiting to be repatriated. There are those who are willing to go back home but they are financially unfortunate and could not even buy their own plane ticket. They want to go home but they cannot simply go home.

Abroad, you'll learn to cross out the days of your calendar. Who among you are not excited to go vacation? Of course everybody is excited. And those who went vacation after spending all his money will come back to host country empty handed. The thing is OFW have not learned from their experience. Normally the hard earned money goes to nowhere. Almost hundred percent is remitted to loveones to be used for comfortable living and no percentage is set aside to investment. Only few have learned the value of savings and investment. Realizing that even the family has very little or no savings at all, the poor contract worker has no choice but to return abroad. The promise of finishing only 2 years contract become 3, 4, and 5 so forth and so on, vacation and return and the cycle continues endlessly. So sad, they will only stop working abroad and go home only when they are very very old and sometimes already stricken by sickness or either paralyze or in a box.

Life abroad is full of challenges, test and trials. It could be emotionally devastating if you are not prepare and not strong enough. Some people decided to go abroad because they think that dollars will make them happy. Earning dollars is not a guaranty to happiness. There is no way to happiness, happiness is the way. Happiness does not come from seeking new landscapes, but from having new eyes on the same life you’ve always been living. The way to be happy is to be happy in every circumstance no matter what your condition is. Be happy and thankful for what you have. It could be enjoy wherever you are, home country or abroad.


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      sam 

      6 years ago

      i am from india. just college graduate class of 2012. i have a job affer in thailand but slalary is less.

      can't able to make decision. what to do ?

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      livingabroad 

      6 years ago from Wales, UK

      Very interesting and different aspect about living and working abroad from my own experiences! It's always good to read that other people can find it very difficult to adapt to another place, the way of living the foreign culture and all the feelings you get when you are away from your family. I'll be interested to see some of your other hub's! Voted up. :)

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      no-name!!! 

      6 years ago

      what will be the good work in abroad to earn a lot of money for my future and also to my family?

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      Carl Madison 

      8 years ago

      Culture shock is something everyone needs to prepare for before studying abroad. Additionally, everyone needs to prepare for reverse culture shock when coming back home.

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      filipino abroad 

      8 years ago

      The bloating of underemployment and unemployment rate in the Philipines long before the decades is the obvious reason why there are Filipinos preferred in working abroad. Life abroad is not that easy. It may bring you a brighter future but you are always emotionally distress of longing for your love ones. And the high risk of going abroad is whether the place will offer you success or failure.

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      mgibas 

      8 years ago from Philippines

      Thanks Benedict for sharing your thoughts. You have just given a very strong point when you said that going abroad must jump start overseas worker to a better future. They should rethink how they are managing their hard-earned moneys and maximized this temporary opportunity for a brighter future.

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      Benedict 

      8 years ago

      Overseas workers are heroes, and I do believe on what you have stated. Many of us are going abroad for survivals sake. It’s a very dangerous world out there, but the risk is nothing compared being jobless is our own country…Work abroad is just an opportunity given to us to get started for a better future.

      Nice write up

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