The Best Travel Toys and Tips for 2 Year Old Children
Traveling with a Two Year Old
Traveling with a two year old child can be challenging, as children of this age are full of energy and do not like sitting for long stretches of time. As difficult as traveling with this age group can be, it is possible to have a good road trip or airplane ride with the proper preparation.
In general, road trips will be easier than flights, since you can stop a car at any moment when a need strikes. Bathroom stops, a run to the pharmacy, and a needed break to run around can be easily arranged in a car. Young children on an airplane are generally confined to their car seats for the almost the entire flight – this is not a huge difficulty if the flight is 2 hours long, but everyone’s nerves will be frayed after a 6 hour flight.
Road Trips with Two Year Olds
Be sure to stock the car with an extra set of clothes that can be easily reached, as accidents will happen on the road! Avoid stopping at unfamiliar restaurants or trying new foods on the road, as toddlers’ stomachs may rebel at trying unusual food. Dealing with an upset tummy with ten hours left in the car is not fun!
We often found it wise to pack a picnic lunch in a cooler, and would stop at a local outdoor playground (if the weather was appropriate). This way, our son could have familiar food from home and run off energy. If the weather was bad, we would stop at a McDonald’s or other child-friendly restaurant with an indoor play place. Map out your trip prior to leaving and plan on stopping for plenty of rest breaks.
The travel toys listed at the end of this article are great for both road and plane trips. Silly putty can be taken in the car (but not on planes, due to TSA rules), and may provide some extra entertainment value in the car or at rest stops.
Child Safety Devices
These safety tattoos allow information to be placed directly onto the child's arm. Some parents complain the writing space is too small, but the tattoos will stay on for the duration of a long trip!
If the idea of using a child "leash" is upsetting, consider using a wireless child-finding device. Inexpensive and effective, the unit worn by the child emits a loud beep when the parent triggers the alert on the transmitter.
Flying with Two Year Olds
In the Airport: Security Screening When You Have a Runner
Going through security screening with a two year old can be a nightmare, especially if you have a “runner.” We have two small boys – one would take off in an instant at the age of two, and the other had a more sedate personality. We found that having slip-on shoes made the screening process easier, as we didn’t have to sit and tie or Velcro everyone’s shoes back on while our “runner” made a break for it.
We also dressed him in overalls, so that we could easily grab a strap if he started to run. We also used a stroller to keep him contained, though we found that he needed to run off energy during our layovers. If we wanted to (safely) let him run off some energy in a major airport, we would often use a child safety leash.
We didn’t use the child-safety leash during our everyday lives, but we would use one in the airport. Our local airport was small enough that he couldn’t really get lost, but traveling through Chicago O’Hare or Los Angeles International was another matter entirely: the crowds and scale of these airports made our son’s safety priority over any perceived “judging” from other parents or adults around us. We had a cute monkey-style backpack where the tail formed a leash, and used this to keep him safe in these environments.
It is a good idea to include contact information on your child. Some parents will place a piece of masking tape inside the child’s shirt with the child’s name, parent’s cell phone number, and other information in the event a child becomes separated during travel. There is a company that manufactures “safety tattoos” (temporary “stickers”) for use on travel days.
Some airports have designated play places for children. If you are flying to an airport with a play center, find it and let your child play there as long as possible during a layover. After flying numerous places with two small boys, I believe the creators of these play-places deserve some sort of glamorous prize – the play areas can be sanity savers in the middle of a hectic travel day.
Earplanes Relieve Pressure
Ear Pressure and Little Ears
Small children can sometimes experience ear pain with the pressure changes involved with take-off and landing in an aircraft. There are a few techniques that will help the smallest travelers clear their little ears:
- Take a sippy cup on board. Make sure the cup is filled with juice, water, or milk for take-off. Sucking on a sippy cup and swallowing the juice will provide the counter-pressure necessary to “pop” the ears, relieving the pressure. If your child still uses a pacifier, bring it and use it.
- Lollipops are another excellent choice – sucking on a lollipop will help clear the ears, as it induces swallowing.
- If your child has a head-cold, contact their pediatrician prior to flying. Our older son once had a cold, and I took him to the pediatrician the day before we flew. As it turns out, his ears were filled with fluid. He prescribed a decongestant to clear out our little one’s ears prior to the flight – without the medication, our son may have ruptured an eardrum during take-off. Fortunately, the pediatrician’s care and the decongestant worked to make the flight safe and enjoyable for everyone.
- Earplanes are another alternative, if your toddler will tolerate earplugs. Earplanes are earplugs that regulate and equalize pressure during take-off and landing, and will prevent painful pressure swings in the ears.
The CARES Travel Harness
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Taking a Car Seat on the Plane
There are many options flying with toddlers: the parents can opt to take an FAA approved car seat on board, or the parents can opt to forgo the car seat on the plane and sit the child in a regular airplane seat.
It is safer to use an FAA approved car seat, as the child will be secured during any unexpected turbulence.
Besides safety, there is another point to consider with taking a car seat on board: two year old children are quite active, and are often impulsive. This means that a two year old in a regular airline seat belt may constantly slide under it, climb over it, and try to bounce on their seat for a great portion of the flight. The five point harness provided by a car seat keeps the child securely in their seat, which will make your job as “entertainer” easier, and will make the other passengers happier.
Bringing a car seat on board does present challenges, however, as the child safety seat will often bring the child closer in proximity to the aisle in front of you. We had an experience when traveling with our two year old where he kicked the seat in front of us constantly, since his little feet were resting against the seat-back. The woman in front of him was quite enraged, and we struggled to come up with a solution (reasoning with a 2 year old is seldom productive). In the end, we simply took his shoes off. It made the drumming of little feet less annoying, though didn’t stop the behavior entirely. Fortunately, he fell asleep shortly after take off.
Lugging a car seat through an airport (in addition to the luggage and stroller) can be quite a chore. There is another option available, called the CARES child restraint system. This set of belts creates an FAA approved five-point harness for use on airplanes. The system is easy to tote around, since it consists of a few belts. This option is a wonderful alternative for families who would like to travel without the added hassle of carrying a large chid safety seat through the airport. Do remember, however, that a car seat will still be required if you intend to use a car at your final destination. Car seats can be rented from car rental facilities, if needed.
Changing Diapers in Tiny Airplane Bathrooms
While some children are toilet trained at the age of two, the majority are still in diapers. If you are planning to fly, it would be a good idea to post-pone toilet training until after the trip is over: with current security regulations, there is a great deal of time in-flight where a child cannot get up to go to the bathroom. For this reason, we always put our two year olds in pull-ups when flying, even after they were toilet trained. We frequently flew betweenNew York andLos Angeles, and the length of the flight almost guaranteed an accident.
Of course, changing a toddler’s diaper on an airplane presents its own challenges. The airplane bathrooms are minuscule, and the “changing table” provided in most airplane lavatories is suitable for the tiniest of infants – not 30 pound toddlers. Wet diapers are easy to change while the child is standing, but dirty diapers can cause difficult moments for both the parent and child in flight.
Depending on the size of the child and airplane bathroom, we often simply laid the child on the closed toilet and did the diaper change on top of the toilet – the surface area was slightly larger than the changing table provided by the airline. We always brought extra plastic bags to contain the smelly diaper after the changing was done. The diaper would be sealed inside the plastic bag, and then discarded into the garbage.
The Best Travel Toys for 2 Year Olds
The very best travel “toy” we have used is our personal DVD player. For a two year old child, watching a favorite video can be very soothing on board a plane or in a car. We would sometimes bring a new movie, but our two year olds generally preferred to watch their old favorites, over and over again. For parents that own a tablet computer, there are many apps that keep little ones entertained on long trips!
Hippo Travel Game
The Best Travel Game: Hungry Hungry Hippos
One of our favorite toys for car or plane trips was a Hungry, Hungry Hippo travel game. The little balls are completely contained in the dome, so no pieces can get lost. Our younger son would spend quite a lot of time making the hippos “eat” the little balls.
This travel game offers two things that 2 year old children like: buttons to press and making things disappear. There are two hippos in the travel version of the game, so a sibling or parent could theoretically play a "real" game with the toy, but our children preferred playing with this toy on their own.
Little People Play Sets
Fisher Price Little People Playsets
We also found that Fisher Price Little People made excellent travel toys at this age, particularly the sets that came with a small vehicle and person. We would package a few of these toys into our sons’ backpacks, and bring them out one at a time. They are small enough to fit on an airplane tray, and playing with the little people in the cars kept our little guys entertained.
These small sets are quite inexpensive: we have found sets at our local Big Lots retailer for under $10, and each set includes a vehicle and a person. For car trips, we often carry a small plastic bin filled with various Little People and vehicles - our son will play with them in his car seat.
The Aquadoodle Travel Kit
Aquadoodles are mess-free and can be used repeatedly once the drawing pad dries.
Travel Art Supplies with 2 Year Olds
Keep art supplies to a minimum. Two year olds love art, but dozens of crayons can get scattered in an instant. We found the best solution was to invest in some Crayola stampers and a sketch pad, along with a few bright markers. Color Wonder makes some great kits, too, and these won’t leave any stains on little fingers. Painter’s tape is wonderful – kids can rip it and stick it to paper, and the tape comes off easily the trip is over. Aquadoodle makes great travel kits, too – the water-filled pens make scenes come to life over and over again – and the books can be reused indefinitely. If you are flying, be sure to fill the Aquadoodle pen up after going through airport security.
Toy cameras are a favorite of 2 year olds. They can pretend to take pictures of things they see on their trip, and any toy that involves buttons is guaranteed to be a hit among this age set. On road trips, you can point to interesting things along the interstate and tell the child to “take a picture” of cows, buildings, and other objects.
Books and Puzzles
Lift-the-flap style books and big, foam puzzles are another option for 2 year old travelers. Sturdy lift-the-flap style books will keep little ones occupied for a long time, especially if the books contain a large number of flaps to lift. The dollar store sells foam mats that interlock, often in favorite character designs. Our two year olds liked putting these together on airplanes or in the car, and the “puzzles” were simple enough for any two year old to put together.
Keep the Final Destination in Mind!
Whether you travel by car or plane, traveling with a two year old will be easier with these tips. Keep the final destination in mind: no matter how difficult (and long) the actual day of travel is, you will eventually get to where your destination!