That is a very dangerous phrase. Another one that is dangerous is "I DESERVE.." Being lonely makes us feel like we are in need of something that someone else can give. That is a deceptive feeling, because actually the OPPOSITE is true. Go do something NICE for someone else for FREE. Bake some cookies and invite a neighbor over to help eat them... or something. See if that makes any difference. You deserve to not be lonely! Go for it!... by the way... "GO-FOR-IT" is the 3rd most dangerous phrase i know of. So be carefull who you invite over for cookies.