Definitely go to downtown San Diego, Broadway and Third St to be exact. This area is called the Gas Lamp district. You will be welcomed by restaurants, a friendly, safe atmosphere and a great nightlife. In the morning, you can take a trip to Point Loma, or visit the USS midway. Overall a great way to spend your 50th Birthday.
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