As a father of 8 who is married for the 2nd time I have discovered a lot about myself and the people around me. I have a Masters degree and I am a U.S. Navy veteran, I have literally seen the world. I know a lot of people, all of which come to me for advice of all kinds, relationship issues, teen issues parenting and about anything else you can think of. I pride myself on being able to be unbiased and honest with the person seeking advice. That is why I started this hub. My male friends think I am trading sides by giving away tips on how to control your man. I don't see it that way, I believe that once men and women understand each other better, there will be a lot more happier couples.