Teenage Files - A to Z Teen Guide

This is an A - Z guide, that I wrote for my younger siblings. Feel free to share any part of it with anyone who might find it interesting.

Appearance –Always look nice. People tend to judge you from meeting you the first time. Not only that, it’s just nice to have a very good dress sense and please no micro – mini skirts. You can look gorgeous without revealing your "bits and bobs". As for guys, pull your trousers to your waist.

 

Borrowing– Whatever you borrow, do give it back as it does not belong to you and some friends could take offence when this happens.

 

Cook – learn to cook as one day you will leave home and it will be a waste of money buying “Take Aways” every day.  Also, you do not know the hygiene conditions under which the food was prepared.

 

Drugs – Don’t be tempted to give it a  try. Don’t even sniff it!

 

Envy – Please don’t be envious of what others have. Your time will come.  Whatever, you may be tempted to be envious of, when yours comes (be it a car or job) it would even be better.  So don’t be envious or you will wake up looking green one day.

 

Forgive – Forget Arguments.  Don’t sleep on any argument you’ve had with a friend. Try to end it, there and then.  Otherwise, you’ll keep on pondering over it and it starts eating away at you. The more you keep on reliving the disagreement, negative feelings emerge – not healthy!! If you learn this habit now, people’s bad attitudes will not phase you later in life.

 

God – Keep your Faith.  Continue to believe in God and when you feel down, this is what will keep you strong and help you overcome problems.

 

Health – If any part of your body is not feeling right, don’t ignore the symptoms hoping it would go away. Make sure you talk to mum/dad or visit a Doctor, so it doesn’t get worse.

Illegal – Do not get involved in any illegal activities. There are a lot of teens in prisons. Age doesn’t come into being sentenced. Stay Clean and keep a good reputation.

Jotter – As a student, always jot down a lot of notes in class. Don’t assume you will remember everything the Lecturer has said. It makes revision easier.

Karma – Treat people as you would like to be treated. “What goes around, comes around” It’s a natural law in life, that you reap what you sow.

Laugh – Laughter is good medicine for the heart. Have a good sense of Humour. Notice how I make you laugh until you can’t take it anymore. It’s a nice feeling isn’t it? I’m not saying, go round tickling everyone but be light-hearted. Take life easy and smile often.

Men/Women (relationships) – Wish I had whole day to talk to you about this. You are young. So for now, I would say don’t just believe everything you are told. Always ask a lot of questions and later on see if the answers check out. I’m not saying everyone lies, but from experience people tend to bend the truth a bit. So, be cautious.

Nighttime – As much as possible, make sure you are home before 12 Midnight and that’s if you are not alone. It’s never a good thing to be out at night, unless there is a good reason for it.

Open Doors – To my young gentleman – Open doors for ladies. If you get into the habit, it will stick with you and that’s one of the qualities of a gentleman. My lovely sister, when this happens, give a quick smile and say “thanks” – don’t just whizz past like a Queen Bee.

Pray – Pray for yourself and others daily. Always commit your day into God’s hands.

Quietness - This is important to have first thing in the morning and at night.(15 – 30 mins) Think about the goals you have in your life, how are you achieving them? What action do you have to take to move you closer to your goal? Write the details in a Journal, reflect on it. Most times when your mind is quiet, answers to questions you’ve been asking yourself come naturally or you’ll have new ideas.

Respectful – Always be respectful to people around you. Both young and old.

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Sensitive – Be sensitive to people around you. If someone is sick, ask about their welfare, see if there is anything you can do to help. E.g shopping, cooking or just spending time with them to cheer them up. I went to a conference years ago and our table in the restaurant wasn’t attended to on time. Eventually, we were told our waitress Fainted. The first thing, one of the people in my group said was, “what about our food?”. That’s what I call – Insensitive!

Truth- Be sincere, always tell the Truth, otherwise it’s only a matter of time before you get caught out and it will be embarrassing. It could also make people lose confidence in you.

Untidy – Try to tidy your room and the house at least once a week. Put everything in its rightful place. Books, dvd’s, cd’s, clothes, shoes and all those chocolate wrappers under the bed.

Visit – Visit friends or have them over. Have fun. Don’t isolate yourself. I don’t want you to be lonely and become “ Billy, no mates”.

Weight – Don’t be pressured into being a certain weight. However, do ensure you eat well and have a healthy diet.

xXx – Sex Files – Honestly, as a young Teen. It’s best you abstain. There is a time for everything.

Yes- Develop the habit of letting your “yeah be yeah” and your “nay be nay”.Your word should be your Bond. Let people to take you for your word.

Zzzzzzz – Have enough sleep – especially weekdays. If you sleep before midnight you will wake up feeling refreshed in the morning. If you sleep late into the night, you will wake up feeling rough and if you don’t, it will certainly catch up with you during the day.

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Pete Maida 7 years ago

That is all good advice. I the open door thing I always felt was a bot of a double standard. Women want to be equal in every respect unless not being equal means being treated better. I have had women get upset because I opened a door claiming it was a sexist act. I say open a door for anyone who happens to be approaching man or woman.


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fierycj 7 years ago from The Fiery Heart of Africa

I love it. Teens nowadays are so out of the way. God help them. When I was a young teen I thought the term 'sleeping' with a woman meant actually lying on the same bed with a woman. Just imagine! Nowadays you see 12 year olds engaging in sexual activity! I hope this hub reaches the teens. Good one, E.


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Mighty Mom 7 years ago from Where Left is Right, CA

Each letter offers a piece of advice that teens might actually listen to. Why? Because you speak in a caring, wise tone without a hint of lecturing! I'm gonna share this with my son and hope he passes it on. Good stuff. MM


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bingskee 7 years ago from Quezon City, Philippines

thank you for this, Lady E. Teens can go overboard. And they always wanted freedom but usually they have the wrong sense of freedom.


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Lady_E 7 years ago from London, UK Author

Thanks Pete, Lol. There is no pleasing some people.

Cheers Fiery, so you were that innocent. Hmmm. Lol.


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Lady_E 7 years ago from London, UK Author

Thanks for your encouraging comments Mighty Mom. Its so touching to know you are sharing it. :)

Cheers Bingskee, I agree with you - especially when they start growing tall and you have to look up at them when talking. Lol. They think they are all grown up.


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DeBorrah K. Ogans 7 years ago

Lady E,

Excellent hub!

These are some great ideas for teenagers. There are too many options for them today. So much so that it is often hard for them to establish healthy boundaries. Again Great A-Z balanced and fun guidelines.

Blessings


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Lady_E 7 years ago from London, UK Author

Thanks badcompany. (I like to call your goodcompany. lol)

Cheers DeBorrah. You are right, lots of options not to talk about Peer Pressure.

Regards, E.


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Money Glitch 6 years ago from Texas

Great hub with a lot of good information for any teenager attempting to find their way into what it takes to have a great future. Easy to understand and very sound advice, Lady E!


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Lady_E 6 years ago from London, UK Author

Thanks Money Glitch. :)


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA

This post was beautiful!!! Thank you!!! The honesty and sensitivity and caring of this post is wonderful, and I will indeed someday share it with a young person very special to me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this gentle wisdom.


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Lady_E 6 years ago from London, UK Author

Cheers Mike.

Lovely to read from you again. You are very encouraging.

Best wishes for 2010.


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amulets 6 years ago from Singapore

That is the best A - Z advice for teenagers. Thanks for sharing with us.

Best wishes for you in 2010.


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Lady_E 6 years ago from London, UK Author

Thanks Amulets - best wishes to you too. :)


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Cheeky Girl 6 years ago from UK and Nerujenia

This is a great collection of advice for teenagers here. Nice to see positive advice for the younger ones.


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Lady_E 6 years ago from London, UK Author

Cheers Cheeky girl.


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RoseAsauresRex 5 years ago from the sunny state of California

very cool


Hemu 5 years ago

I think you forgot about time managemet.

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Alladream74 5 years ago from Oakland, California

A beautiful guide.I will bookmark this for when I teach and need to give students some advice.Thanks


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Lady_E 5 years ago from London, UK Author

Thanks Alladream - Good luck with Teaching.


jay ann 4 years ago

nyz =)......


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Lady_E 4 years ago from London, UK Author

Cheers Jay. Lovely of you to stop by.


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daisydayz 4 years ago from Cardiff

That is a great little hub, I can see how it would help a younger sibling, sadly mine is no longer young! She turned 21 a few weeks ago!


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Lady_E 4 years ago from London, UK Author

@daisydayz - Nice name. Wow... your sister is all grown up now. I hope she enjoyed her birthday and you keep looking out for her. :-)

Thanks for stopping.

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