Men And Women Who Are GoldDiggers

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TellTale Signs Of A GoldDigger

There are tell-tale signs of a golddigger. They have a certain look and demure about themselves that many cannot see. Both men and women will spend hours tanning, primping and shopping for that particular look that attracts the lost souls who are looking for love. The golddiggers are smartly dressed, beautiful or handsome , young and sexy.

Women tend to dress a little more risque' to grab their Daddy Warbucks attention and the Gentleman tend to work on that body even harder, to give that older woman some eye candy to look at.

Women tend to chose the older man with a little paunch or balding head who is a bit older then they are , normally 10 years or more. The older man tends to want an arm trophy for his friends to google and awe over.

Men tend to chose the older woman with the hard body and sassy chic look. It provides status to them and it also makes the older woman much more attractive having a young one on her arm. Women do not tend to want them on their arm as a trophy, but a companion in the bedroom that can keep up with the sex drive.

Both male and female choose to tell you what you are looking to hear, not what you honestly should be hearing. They will place you on a pedestal and make you believe that you are the Queen of Sheba or the King of England for that matter. They will stimulate your mind and ask questions that would make your toes tingle and your heart race. They will prey upon your weakness and not your strengths in order to have their needs fulfilled.

The golddigger will have their nails and heels dug into you so deep, you will not know if you are coming or going, you will think that you are in love by the words and actions that they use, not realizing that they are looking for a sugar daddy or mama to satisfy there every need. I have seen this happen to a handful of friends and I have seen the choices that they make, both male and female as they have never gone in with their eyes wide open, but they certainly have gone in blinded by the light. In the end the relationships either fail as there really wasn't anything in common and she takes him for all he has or he the young stud that was laying next you finds that he wants to have a child you cannot bear or choose not to, and so he packs his things and runs, and leaves you speechless believing that all of it was love and it was just a mere act of gold digging.

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Golddiggers They Are Out There

 Goldiggers, they are out there men and women who prey day after day upon helpless vicitms who are merely looking for a solid relationship, someone who can make them laugh, make them cry and feel emotion. They don't care what you look like , just so long as you can fulfill their needs and line their pockets with gold. Many of us knows someone male or female who is exactly like that, at least I do. I have a couple of friends who wil not be with a man unless he has a six figure income or higher. Both of course are married to their men, but the stories are just the same. "I am not in love with X , however he does provide for me and the kids." Money is quite important to them, as they feel it is a man's job to take care of them and allocate them an allowance. They have housekeepers and cooks and their day is spent giving orders, going to get their hair and nails done, and making certain that Suzy and Johnny are picked up after school.

On the flip side here is a young MR. Z who sees that Jill has a nice little nest egg put away for a rainy day. Jill is looking for someone to keep up with her libido and bumps into Mr. Z who is like the energizer rabbit, he can keep on going. She brags about Mr. Z and what he can do for her in the bedroom. He can lick you up and down blah, blah, blah so can someone else your age. While Mr. Z Is busy scamming Jill , she believes he loves her. Golddiggers do not know what love truly is, the simply enjoy basking in the glory of the fat bank account and they will tell anybody what they want to hear for an almighty buck!

Tell them the bank is closed and see what happens, they are the first to file for a divorce and take you for every last penny. If you are dating they want to blast your name to the entire world about what a horrible and inhumane person you really are. I have seen many of my friends go through this male and female and it certainly is not a pretty sight. I couldn't imagine living my life as they do, but to be able to step back and look inside their world , I find it interesting but chaotic and would not wish that upon anyone.

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R. Blue profile image

R. Blue 7 years ago from Right here

AE...you looking for a sugar daddy.....or a young stud muffin????...Just trying to see where I can fit in here :-)


2C's 7 years ago

Hey. look at me. I'm a double for Daddy Warbucks I've been told, but I ain't rich. and don't go for golddiggers and they are out there. thaks for a cool hub AE


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gwendymom 7 years ago from Oklahoma

I'm wondering what caused you to write this.Is everything ok?

I know a few goldiggers. Of course they aren't nice people and I have never befriended any of them but in a small town you tend to bump into them here and there and they are always so fake. It makes me sick to my stomach.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

R.Blue : I don't need a sugar daddy I have one lololololo :D truthfully I have friends like this and visiting on of them a couple of weeks a go mademe decide that it was time for me to tell what I felt. :)

C.C.. You could be Daddy Warbucks but we won't tell how much you are really woth...lolololo :D


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goldentoad 7 years ago from Free and running....

Thats a great song, and so true.


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

Yeah, I know some gold diggers. They can be nice people if it's not your gold they're digging for!


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Gwendy: I visited friends in the last couple of weeks, yes they are golddigers and one of my friends is older and was taken advantage of. I have had it with those who haven't any morals or respect for themselves. Me personally I am quite contented and happy and it certainly isn't nor was it ever gold-digging. :)


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gwendymom 7 years ago from Oklahoma

I was worried about you, thought maybe something had happened. glad to know you are ok. Wish things were better for your friends though.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

GT: It is true isn't it ??? :D

CindyVine: You've got that right..lolololol :)


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

One of my good friends here is everything you describe in your hub, but lately her selfishness has been pissing me off! Maybe it's because I know I'm leaving here in the next couple of months that my rose colored glasses have started to come off


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Christoph Reilly 7 years ago from St. Louis

I'm a gold digger. I've lived in the Califonia hills since the gold rush and I've been a gold digger ever since. I dig in my mine and I pan in the river, and I don't see what's wrong with being a gold digger. I like a perty nuggat with a nice shape, and a little on the heavy side, if you please. When I get what I'm looking for, I go to town just showin' that purty nuggat to all the fellas and you can just see them all jealous, and they all want a little piece of my nuggat. I can't...what's that? That's not the kind of gold dinnin' you's talkin' about? Oh. Nevermind.


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

What do you do with the nuggets after you've found em, Christoph?


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Cindy, My friend teed me off, she has more then most women could only dream of and she tells me she can't stand her husband and is doing for the kids, the friggin idiot is even having an affair. I really cannot deal with her snobby attitiude and I hope that her bubble gets burst. He is a really nice man and he loves her to deathm whatever she wants she gets, but I guess since she has it she feels she needs more..It is sad.....:(


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eovery 7 years ago from MIddle of the Boondocks of Iowa

I was waiting for the song, and yep, there it is.

Nice Hub....My wife married me for my money, I had a whole six g's at the time, and we were in college.

Keep on Hubbing.


TheSandman 7 years ago

Interesting Hub AE, I'm not balding, don't a stomach paunch, and no gold, guess I lose out all the way around LOL


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countrywomen 7 years ago from Washington, USA

Your lines "Men tend to chose the older woman with the hard body and sassy chic look. It provides status to them and it also makes the older woman much more attractive having a young one on her arm" makes some sense when I wonder about the Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher pair. Good thought provoking hub :D


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Christoph: I never knew....lolololo

eovery, I hope that was a good thing ...lololol

Sandman, You are so silly you are a golden perso so watch out..lololol :D:D:D:D:D:


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spryte 7 years ago from Arizona, USA

I used to be a fool's golddigger. Unfortunately the man always had a lot less money than he appeared to think he had...but that never stopped him from spending it. I have since mended my ways.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Spryte, That is news that is great to hear and a lesson learned..:)


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Don Simkovich 7 years ago from Pasadena, CA

Hmm, I wonder if I'll ever be considered material for a Gold Digger? Would I take that as a compliment?


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

AE, that's what's peeing me off about my gold digger friend. her partner is a nice guy, quite a bit older than her, good looking along the Richard gere lines, he takes care of her, indulges her every whim, but he does hit the bottle and it's been getting worse of late. Why? Because she spends all day in class chatting to online boyfriends, not teaching the kids, and setting up dates and banging the living shit out of all the men she can. Meanwhile, her hunky hubby is left at home with his bottle. What started to piss me off, was when she started using me as an excuse. She's going to Shanghai with me for the weekend. Bloody woman!


jjrubio 7 years ago

I LOVED IT!!! and the Song....WOO HOO Jamie Fox can sing...

Anyways- you are so right about this subject...GREAT HUB CHICA!!


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

Am not sure why no songs and videos appear on any computer I'm on over here. maybe Chairman Mao is on duty.


jjrubio 7 years ago

you don't see the Kanye West w/ Jamie Fox "GOLD DIGGER" Video?


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Countrywomen: Thanks mmm,.... That is right Demi and Ashton but I believe he wasn't a gold digger he was really in love and they are still together. :)

Don: You are material for a gold digger and are quite handsome , so yes take it is a compliment. :)

Cindy, Those kind of friends annoy me too and I am cutting mine off as she is a pain in my ass. Oh you by the way you can't get youtube videos because they were banned , I read that somewhere on the internet.:)

jj: I love Jamie Foxx too!!! I love the song and I do have to say I believe he actually made that song, if Kanye would have picked anyone else it wouldn't have worked. :)


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

sigh, life in a Communist country...


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

It appears to be a little nuts and I believe many of us have forgotten that is is communistic and we happen to be buddies with them. I wonder why we are not buddies with Cuba???? lolololololo :)


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

Because in the end money talks, and China is bailing out America and they can produce cheap low quality junk that Cuba can't and america wants lol


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

Isn't that the truth and I to think we are supposed to be against communism, mmmmm interesting isn't it.:)


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countrywomen 7 years ago from Washington, USA

I didn't mean either Ashton or Demi were gold diggers. When I read your lines it reminded me of them. Coming from a culture where men have to be equal or more in age it did surprise me when I first read about the difference in there ages(in a reverse way and not the usual way where man may even be much older than the woman). I guess now we are living in a age where physical age is just a number. I really admire every couple who are in love and wish even there pair lots of happiness.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

CountryWomen: I understand what you are saying, and physical love is now just a number, It used to be different but people are very open minded about relationships now days. I wish they could all be in love, but for many it isn't happen and it is for convenience. But we should toast to those who are....:)


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BDazzler 7 years ago from Gulf Coast, USA

Another sign of a Gold digger, when you realize you've spent more money on a single date than you spent for your first car (yeah, seriously...)


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VioletSun 7 years ago from Oregon/ Name: Marie

Its true, there will always be gold diggers; when sis had a boutique in NY a few years ago, a younger man who was a medical doc, but who lost his license, had been checking her out for weeks before he entered her shop and introduced himself; sis found out he was a gigolo, and he was not even embarrassed to admit it! He openly told her he had been in a long term affair with a very wealthy, older woman who gave him material comfort and he gave her an "afterglow", and he asked her what was wrong with this? The thing is sis is not wealthy, she isn an entrepreneur who was trying to hold that shop up, but she dresses very classy, so he thought had made a conquest. She told him to leave her alone.


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cobraski 7 years ago from Maryland

Sweet hub! The video is a great finisher.


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countrywomen 7 years ago from Washington, USA

VioletSun- That guys background reminded me of the "Dirty Dancing" movie guy :D


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

BDazzler: I believe you and that is a lot of money to spend...:)

VioletSun: That is horrible and for him to be honest was shocking!!! It was all about the benjamins , the men are just as bad as the women.

Cobraski: I am glad that you liked it and also enjoyed the music!!!I love that song..:)


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RKHenry 7 years ago from Your neighborhood museum

I love your new profile picture.  Excellent!

I have a few buddies you like to hit the M.I.L.F.S once in a wild.  I use to have a friend name R.J. that scammed/loved women for their money.  He'd check out obituaries and move right on in.


Leta S 7 years ago

Hi, Aevans-

oooh, RK, what an icky boy...

It's kind of weird here around Sedona. I've seen some pretty strange things--that trophy wife or girlfriend thing does exist. And it is SOOO scary. I just can't imagine being a woman like that with a guy who has no sex appeal (but money, of course) and who looks worse than one's dad. The women just must feel so desperate or something.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

R.K. : Are you serious? That is disgusting scouring the obits, shame on him, thanks for the comment on the pic. :0

Lita, I couldn't do it either I like how we compliment each other and not stand out in a crowd. After dealing with my friend and my tother friend who is a Cougar and saw the flip side, to me enough was enough I had to write about it, as it is reality and they are everywhere looking for MAMA AND DADDY Warbucks!!! lolololol :)


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raiderfan 7 years ago from Arizona

I hate golddigggers


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

raiderfan: I second that emotion and I have friends who are like that. :(


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Mighty Mom 7 years ago from Where Left is Right, CA

I've been told that "they" say it's as easy to fall in love with someone rich as it is with someone poor. Well, I've never been able to do it! And of course the golddiggers in question aren't in it for love either. It must be horrible to be really rich. Would you ever trust that someone was interested in you for you vs. for your bank account? Guess poverty has its priveleges after all:-).

Personally, I can't imagine anything more pathetic than being in a loveless marriage. But the personality type of the golddigger pretty much prohibits them from being capable of real love. Sad.

Question: Was Goldilocks a golddigger?


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

MM: How funny was goldilocks a golddigger, I am going to leave that question to someone who can enlighten us... It is sad that people live there lives that way.:(


2C's 7 years ago

Golilocks was only lost


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

I knew someone would answer the question...lololo


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DarleneMarie 7 years ago from USA

LOL, this is sooo true.  You can usually recognize the gold-diggers by the way they dress.  They almost always outwardly appear to be high-maintenance!  Nice Hub!


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ocbill 7 years ago from hopefully somewhere peaceful and nice

good insightful hub. I knew a woman like that.


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JamaGenee 7 years ago from Central Oklahoma

In certain cultures, what Americans call "gold digging" is merely "making a good marriage". Love is rarely part of the arrangement. Over here, it's just plain sad. Sad that a woman focuses on acquiring only status and money, even though she can't take either with her when she leaves this world. But even sadder is that the "target" (of either gender) has so little self-respect that they fall for people like that, and then wonder how it happened.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

DarleneMarie: I agree and unfortunately I know some of them.

Ocbill: Aren't they naughty? But I believe there are some nice ones' too.:)

JamaGenee: It is so sad, so very sad and I believe self-respect is necessary for survival in any relationship. :)


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MotherHubber 7 years ago from Southern California

I love that Kanye song! It was my mobile phone ring tone for a long time :) I won't say why!


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blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

Bugger the gold I say, bugger the fancy houses,bugger the fancy cars, fair dinkum. It's got to be love....immerse yourself in love's intoxicating perfume and u got all riches u need. I mean fair suck of the saveloy, life is too short to go digging for gold, the only thing I am digging for at the moment,is worms for my compost heap.xoxoxoxoxoxox


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blondepoet 7 years ago from australia

Have a happy Easter AE.x0x0x0xx0


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

BP: Love is a many splendored thing and Happy Easter to You too!!!:)


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Single Mama 7 years ago

Gold Diggers need a job! I don't see how women can date old wrinkly men...Uh, no offense, anyone. I keep hearing that Kanye song on the radio.


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

SM: I keep hearing it too!!! I love that song and that is why I also placed it in the hub.:)


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thelesleyshow 7 years ago from US

So true! I can't stand a gold digger. It's just a "nicer" word for HOE as far as I am concerned...Can I say HOE? I used to work at a company where the women used to hit on (sometimes sleep with) the married owner just to get things. They'd get everything from cash bonuses to company cars! It's disgusting. Chasing the almighty dollar!

Great hub! You rocked a subject like always! Thumbs way up!!


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AEvans 7 years ago from SomeWhere Out There Author

thelesleyshow: Yes you can say hoe, I have seen worse and I couldn't agree with you more. :)


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okmom23 5 years ago from Midwest, U.S.A.

My ex married a true goldigger six months to the day after our divorce was final. Good hub!

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