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Depression And Moving Forward

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By crazybeanrider



Facts And Symptoms Of Depression

There are people that never experience what depression is. Then there are those that have been touched in ways so intensely they welcome medication and hospitalization. Not everyone tries to recognize depression. Snapping out of it is not the response for feeling better.

Understanding, and compassion are welcomed from those that do not comprehend what it signifies to be depressed. Knowledge and dispersing depression information will help those that are afflicted and need help.

I am bipolar and grappled with severe depressions in my lifetime. Depression is a debilitating entire body illness that can be temporary or permanent. Depression may be caused by a chemical imbalance, genetic factors, psychological predisposition, physical factors, and environmental stresses. It also can run in families. Depression is also more probable to occur in people who are easily effected by stress.

Symptoms include:

→Sadness
→Loss of interest
→Feelings of guilt →Worthlessness
→Feelings of uselessness
→Trouble focusing or concentrating
→Changes in appetite
→Suicidal thoughts

In my worst depressions I have felt so despondent I did not want to go on existing. It is a battle just to survive. No one in their lifetime should have to ever feel that kind of depression. But it is tragic people actually feel this way. Also the saddest part of this is we cannot just get over it. It persists until we do something about it.

It is hard to establish my depressions because I have bipolar, although I do recognize I am triggered by stress. Hence when I start to have a lot of stress I need to begin taking steps to eliminate it or do something to deal with it before it drives me to spiral into a deeper depression.

Some cycles I can do this but not consistently. The best advise I can give is to pursue a professional therapist. Discuss things and let them give you advice. Group therapy is also an option to consider. Being around people that comprehend what you are going through can be very supportive. And lastly taking prescribed medication can be helpful.

Depression is like being in a dark hole that you cannot escape. It immobilizes you, you stay in bed for days contemplating your death . Your emotions overwhelm you. You caress sadness 24 hours a day, it is unrelenting. You shun your friends and family. You avoid all human connections. Your hygiene habits go unnoticed, they are the last thing your concerned about. Staying in bed sleeping, is all you want to do. You understand you should get up and do something, however you cannot.

Facts About Depression

→Depression afflicts more than 17.5 million people.
→Clinical depression ranks among the most serious health concerns in the United States.
→Major depression is the leading cause of disability in the U.S. for ages 15-44.
→Two thirds people suffering depression goes untreated.
→Women suffer depression twice as much as men.
→At least 15% of depressed people will commit suicide.
→Depression effects people of all races, incomes, ages, and ethnic and religious backgrounds.


Depressin Is Treatable
Depressin Is Treatable

Treatments And Tips

There are treatments available for depression if you seek them out. There are antidepressant medications and psychotherapy. Reaching out is one of the most important things you can do to begin healing from severe depression.  But it isn't always easy to do,  especially when your depressed, because your motivation is gone, and you are filled with hopelessness and see no point in bothering to do anything to help yourself.

Finding the strength to seek out help is crucial. There is always help,  you do not need to suffer alone.  Let friends and family know what your going through.  On-line support groups, message boards,  and social networking sites offer a wealth of support.


Places to seek help:

http://www.nami.org/
http://www.dbsalliance.org/
http://www.mentalhealth.samhsa.gov/
http://www.nmha.org/

Suicide Hotline

http://suicidehotlines.com/
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Simple Tasks To Help You Maintain


When you are depressed try setting 3-5 goals a day. Write them out in a journal or an index card. Try to accomplish at least one goal a day. The next day try to finish 2. And so on.


→Make your bed
→Take a nice long shower
→Put on clean clothes
→Answer your E-Mail
→Do some housework
→Exercise for at least 15 minutes
→Play some online computer games
→Do a Crossword puzzle
→Write write write
→Take photographs
→Listen to music


Being proactive instead of not doing anything will make your depression worse.  You won't always get it right,  you can only try.  Being an advocate in your own mental health issues is something we must do to combat stigma and gain social acceptance in our own lives,  to achieve wellness and hope for ourselves.

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thanglynn07  says:
2 months ago

Thank you for touching basis on this issue. It is a lot harder for some of us to cope with. Maybe we had given up on being happy, and dwelling a bit too long in our misery. The first step to recovery is accepting...and moving forward. But it is a constant battle. Mentally and physically...Thanks for the great tips!

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crazybeanrider  says:
2 months ago

Your welcome thanglynn. I am happy you enjoyed my article. It is hard to find the light when your depressed. To make yourself find a way to move, to crawl out of it somehow.

Your comment is right on.

Boo :D

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OneStopWriteShop  says:
5 weeks ago

Hi, and thank you for visiting my hub earlier! Love the cat photo btw. I'd like to invite you to my website (actually) I have other motives, after reading your writing. I'm on the prowl so to speak. Looking for writers to submit to our Poetry & Prose Anthology-- the issues must be something important or relevant to their home town, i.e. a natural disaster, employment, etc... I don't want my post to sound like an ad or spam, so feel free to omit it if you need to. Would you like to submit a poem, essay or short story -- about depression, OCD or other? I see you have a lot written on the topic, it is an important topic.

If we can get more writers to really open up about their personal experience, and then maybe, more young people when diagnosed won't feel so stigmatized by it. My son has bi-polar and refuses to acknowledge that there is any type of "problem." As an educator and mom, I find it most difficult to convince him that he does have a medical problem. So I had to leave it alone, and hope that one day (and I hope soon), he will make his own decision (a good one and get some type of treatment).

Thank you so much for posting so many blogs. It may take me literally weeks to go through them all, but time is all we have so I plan on spending it, reading a lot!

I won't list my website here in the comment post. (that would be spammy of me, he-he. You can find it by going to my profile page here, where it does look like an ad, lol.

Good luck.

PS. You’re a very good creative writer. You should be writing a query letter, and gathering up all your material on depression/ put it into chapters, and publish a book. I know an editor who only charges 1/page and only 90cents a page when.... more info if you want to email me. I tend to go over board in commenting. Oh heck, I just like to write.

PSS. Some pain medications make a person feel very depressed; I’m trying to spread the word about Tramadol out there. It is being so over used by doctors and it counter acts the effects of most depression meds. If you could add something about it on one of your blogs, (if you want) I'd be exceptionally grateful! -- Katina Woodruff, Newark, Ohio

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crazybeanrider  says:
5 weeks ago

Thank you so much for your impressive comments. I am definitely going to check out your Website and see hopefully I'll find something to improve my writing. I have been very lax lately because of my mood swings,I have to write when I can,b/c sometimes I just cannot.

I never really thought I could write a book, and make it make sense. I thank you for the idea and encouragement. Of course I'd like to hear more. I'll write you from your Website.

I will have to look into the Tramadol. I take it for a back injury and never thought it might be causing some interference. I don't take anti-depressants. But I am still going to do some research. Thank you for the heads up.

I don't think your comment was to long. Very informative.

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