Should I Raise My Child Christian?
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Being a Christian parent you may be debating on whether you want to raise your child to be Christians.
The more logical answer is yes. Go ahead. Take your child to church and practice Christianity in your home.
But, I wouldn't force your children into Christianity.
There are a few different reasons as to why you may be asking yourself how you should raise your child in terms of religion.
- You're a new parent who came onto religion and Christianity later in life.
- You're already a parent and have come to religion and Christianity with older children.
- You were raised Christian and hated it as a child, but still remained Christian throughout your life.
- Your spouse is Christian and you're not.
I've seen parents force religion onto their children, and I've seen children react two different ways.
- The child will readily accept the teachings and practice them.
- The child will boycott, so to speak, and refuse what's being taught.
If you force your child to do something that he would rather not do, then you may be working in the opposite direction. Your child may chose another religion to practice, become agnostic, or become atheist.
With anyone, you want to be very careful how you approach religion and Christianity, especially with children.
With younger children, you can bring them up in a religious house, but when you, as an adult make a personal change while the child is older, you want to be careful how you go about the change.
Remember that if you force your older child to go to church and participate with discussion and family prayer, you risk causing your child to grow to hate God and religion. It all depends on your child and his personality.
So, to the question "should you raise your child Christian," that's a decision that only you can decide.
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Oh yeah right krizar - that will be the Christian values of hate and war as represented by the Crusades, the Civial War in Englahd, North Ireland and numerous others!
According to the Word, you cannot force anyone to believe in something. To force a child to live as a Christian, does not make that child a Christian. It takes a personal belief in God to become a Christian.
I would suggest that the child be raised to know what it actually means to be a Christian. I thought it good that you showed more than one side of the situation. Very well written hub.
I believe there is no wrong in trying to inculcate good beliefs in children .But, we should not develop bias or intolerence towords any other religion or race. on the other hand, we must go on saying that, every religion has something good in that.
much to my surprise I find myself agreeing with you SirDent - that's what happened to me- I was raised Christian but never forced to make a commitment which I didn't believe in . I think one of the reasons that people fall for cults and radical pentocostal sects is because they have no idea what a rational religion is and it certainly isnt a 1 size fits all answer to all your problems in life!
Simple and clear. Faith based issues are matters of love not force. You can teach and pray for your child, but it is up the them. Well done article.






krizar says:
5 months ago
Your child and children,respectively, must be raised as Catholics/Christians, if they want to embed the Western Civilisation values. If not, you can move to Islamic countries and (accordingly) have a great time with your child and Allah there.