"The Top five Things women want out of a relationship"
90"The top five things a women want out of a relationship
Five things a women want out of a relationship. 1.Honesty 2.Love 3. understanding 4.Respect 5.commitment.
Being a women involved in pass relationships, there were many things; that was important to me in a relationship . I will start out by saying that honesty tops the chart, with me, honesty was and has been the number one thing ; that I look for in a man. I believe if a man can be honest with me and tell me the truth, that means, he's trustworthy.
Love comes next, I want my man to love me for the women that I am ,whether, I'm big ,little, black or white; I want his undying love and I will give him the same in return. I realize that the whole dating system works on looks mostly and that is a wrong idea ; because if you 're going only by looks alone, you're in big trouble. People are so superficial and materialistic; until finding what you're looking for in a mate, is like looking for a needle in a hay stack.
I wanted a mate that 's going to be committed to me and to us, you find so many people that want to play with you as a mate and play with mary,Jane, and Sue; they don't want a commitment because they want be able to play the game with all the women players as before. We all want to be in a relationship, where we know our man or women is with us 100% in our relationship.
Having understanding is important in a relationship, and that because we all go through life's changes, and we need someone in our corner; that's going to try and understand what we're going through and be there for us; no matter what. It's important to stand by your man or women in the midst of a crisis, it let's us know that you 're genuinely loved by that person; because he or she hasn't left you high and dry, yet.
Respect ,is another very important part of a relationship, I have always told my girls to make sure, the guy loves and respects his mother and sisters; if he passes that test, then you know he going to give you the same love and respect that he has for the other women in his life. But if you're with a guy and he's treating his mother and sisters like dirt; then you know what he's going to do for you.
You want your man to trust you to behave, when he or she isn't around; you want the kind of trust that say, my man or my women is in another world; but we know for a fact that everything is all right because we love and trust each other. It doesn't matter that we're a zillion miles a part, our trust will keep us cool. With trust it's, it's like respect, we have give it in order to receive it.
Make positively sure, that your man or your women have all of these qualities and more, in order to have a chance at a good relationship. I want you to remember the most important thing of all, in finding your Mr. or Ms. Right; don't let what you see on the outside, trick you into believing that there isn't anything worthwhile on the inside, because to be brutally honest , it's only what's on the inside that counts anyway. make sure you don't chose the package with the beautiful wrapping on the outside and get an ugly duckling inside.
As you know some people can be so graciously beautiful on the outside, but if, we look within we find a horrible nightmare inside;so lets not be vain. if you find a diamond in the rough, clean it and polish it up, and see the brilliance of it's shine for you.
Benny Faye Douglass
The top five things women want in a realationship"
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You said creativeone59! We just want those five simple things. If we get them and give them, then everything will work out in good times and bad times.
You are so right and written such a good hub. It is hard or impossible to find out before hand your man or woman has got that. Thank you for your hub.
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Great HUB! Simple and insightfull.
Thanks C.J I "m a women and I know what's important to us women. Thank you so much for your comment and you feedback. creativeone59
AMEN and AMEN!!! Excellent article.
Agree! Agree! Agree! Agree! Agree! great hub creativeone. Love the pic of you and your husband. =)
Agree! Agree! Agree! Agree! Agree! great hub creativeone. Love the pic of you and your husband. =)
I love the last sentence of this hub! GREAT JOB!
Great article! And, I want chocolate-covered strawberies, too!
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Thanks my wife will be glad I took the time to read this one your writing is great.
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That's sooo... True! :)
I would say this is pretty much true. I always laugh when I read articles telling men what women want. Hot bods, big romantic weekends, big spending, mystery, and so forth won't do anything for most women if the stuff you mention is lacking.
Thank you Mulberry1, thank you for your comment and feedback, if you can't find a guy with all of these quality, keep looking, don't settle for anything less. creativeone59
Wow, great article...one can say that this is also what men look for in women, if it's a long term relation of course!
I agree with you 100%, man would be crazy not to want the same in a women. Thank you for your comment and feedback.Godspeed. creativeone59
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I agree with all you say, creativeone... You offer the 5 (or 6) things you want, but how about chemistry, that unspoken thing that ties two together and won't easily - if your points are also in place - rupture no matter how heated the disagreements. It's that recognition of the other as someone significantly unique in themselves and with you that is rare, priceless. In your opinion, and to all of you, how does the intuitive "knowing" of other fit in?
You are correct, chemistry is important, but I believe if you are blessed to have these five things everything else will fall into place. Thank you so much Danerobb for your comment and your much appreciated feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59
Very nice hub post. Anything to help people in any relationship is valuable to me but most people have the most problems with the romantic relationships so kudos to you for helping.
Thank you for your kindly comments and feedback ,it's well appreciated. creativeone59
This is such a nice hub. I agree that all these things are important, but they dont just happen. You have to work at them every day. And its improtant to make sure you say "I love you" and show it and mean it. Thanks for sharing this.
I'm surprised no one stated the important one,...great sex, no relationship last if your not sexually compatable. to me that is very important in a relationship
Great hub and one worth considering in any potential relationship. Money, possessions and other "extras" don't make up the gap if these 5 things are missing.
I agree, but you have to start out having honesty to get to the point of working on what ever else is needed. Thank you so much for your comment and your honest feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59
Thank you Tokin'daddy for your input, sex is important, but if you don' have the othe five component, you will have just great sex and nothing else to base it on. I have learned in my life of relationships that sex is great, but when it's all over and done; if you don't have anything else the relationship is done too. I thank you so much for comment and feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59
Thank you Mardi for a correct assessment of the important of the five. Than you for your comment and feedback. you have a blessed day. creativeone59
Wonderful hub. Why do these values seem so hard to find in someone, particularly in a man? If you're lucky, you might get two out of five. I know you shouldn't judge the outside but the attraction usually starts there. Let's be honest if you aren't attracted to someone it's pretty hard to give them a chance. What you see from the outside makes you want to see what's inside.
Anyways, thanks again for this hub. Way to go!!
Thank you Chris Eddy111, you 're right, mostly everyone is so superficial, but I think when you get older you try look beyond the whats on the outside, Because I truly believe it's exactly whats' on the inside that count the most. Thank you your comment and your feedback. Godspeed. creativeone59
A wonderful article.
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nice hub so enjoyed reading it
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Been in that situation one too many times myself, so I know what you're saying. I totally agree with you that HONESTY is the first thing that attracts me to ANYONE in general. You can keep your little secrets because there is only one person you CANNOT lie to..and that's the person in the mirror! (Dalai Lama)And that is true. People need to find someone who is their best friend first, then work on the love, and everything else will fall into place, but you still have to work at it. BOTH parties have to WANT to be in the relationship, othewise, it won't work as well if it's just one-sided.
Thank you for this post---you totally ROCK!
what about sharing good times together? what about sex? what about sharing some laughter?
I like your hub, but I don't think that you can sum up a relationship in "the 5 most important points"...
You are right. Those five things are very important.
But if God is not in the center of all of that,
then I will keep looking for Mr. Right.
Thank you Cr8ve1, thank you so much for your word of wisdom, I completely agree with. you thank you for you comment and feedback. creativeone59
Thanks abs machine, sex is important and sharing good times together, all I'm saying that without these five components it's hard to have a serious and committed relationship. we can have the best sex in the world but if you're are with someone that 's constantly lying about things, your relationship will some end. I am for sex but if you get these five components in your relationship, the sex part of it should take care of it self. Thank you so much for your feedback and comment. Godspeed. creativeone59
You're right Cindyleedavis, God to me goes even without saying, because, if you don't have him in your life nothing will work anyway.Thank you for your kind comment and feedback. creativeone59
Creativeone59, you are spot on, great hub! :-)
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I once heard that three of a womans favorite "animals"(what a women wants from a man) are:
a MINK in the closet, a JAGUAR in the driveway and a TIGER in bed. Your artcle reminds me of this. I think your list is more accurate---but--I am witnessing a lot of young girls are now catering to more pornographic "ideals" men have then in discovering their own beauty and needs.
It is good of you to compile the basic needs we all have....security,home,laughter...etc...even when we don't at first realize WHAT we need. Very good! TToni9/Pauline MoreauNava You may enjoy a couple of marriage poems I've published through Triond called, Marriage Wishes Unrevised and Marriage...You might even enjoy Triond to publish your own stuff....depending on how much you write you can earn money while doing so....Have fun, keep writing! God bless.TToni9/Pauline MoreauNava
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It's so refreshing to hear someone advocate for traditional values. Love, trust, truth, respect, understanding. Yes to all!
Amen, thank you for your comment and your much needed feedback. creativeone59
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Great post! -very clear points. I liked the sections on understanding and respect. I think that feeling of being understood and respected is deep and adds a lot to the other points you make about love, trust...
indeed ma'am! i agree 100 percent! :)...like a quote from the little prince "what is essential is invisible to the eyes" (hopefully i got it right)... this is such a wonderful hub wrapped up in the aura of reality.. thank you very much for sharing! :)
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what a wonderful gift those 5 things would be!Your blessed to have all 5 of them, Your Special!Great Hub!
Thank God for His bless for your life
Thank you esllr, for your comment and feedback, I am blessed but it wasn't always this way. thank you again. creativeone59
Thank you Ayoola Issac, I do thank God every day for his blessings and his love. thank you for comment and feedback. creativeone59
Great hub. You are absolutely right, those 5 things are the glue that hold any relationship together. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for your comments and your support. blessing to you creativeone59
TrudyVan says:
2 months ago
So true, when the trust and respect is gone so is everything else