Try To Be Positively Negative

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By William F. Torpey


Former U.S. Sen. Barry Goldwater
Former U.S. Sen. Barry Goldwater
Carl Bernstein and Bob Woodward 1973
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As the old song goes, "You've got to accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative and watch out for Mr. In Between."

Sounds good -- not the song (a great one) but the philosophy expressed in it.

But, there's a significant difference between being positive and being downright Pollyanna.

With apologies to former U.S. Sen. Barry Goldwater: Extremism in defense of liberty, or any other cause, is a vice -- and that includes being positive in the extreme.

People who make an effort to correct obvious problems are often considered to be negative -- especially by those whose ox is being gored.

So-called "whistleblowers" frequently are subjected to criticism for their sincere efforts to make right what often are serious wrongs. It's not uncommon for people to react by asking, "Why don't they just keep quiet and not stir up trouble?"

This is true even when the whistleblowers are referring to their co-workers or management in nuclear power plants where sloppy procedures and mismanagement could lead to disasters of astronomical proportions.

Having a positive attitude, when it's appropriate, is fine. But it can be taken to extremes. If you were in an office on the 30th floor of the Empire State Building and were informed of a significant fire elsewhere in the building, wouldn't it be wiser to find your way out as quickly as possible rather than to say, "Oh, I'm sure they'll put it out before it becomes more serious?"

Ignoring the obvious because it is negative or uncomfortable may be even worse: Indecision -- Mr. In Between -- should be avoided at all costs.

The truth is that, if we want improvements in our lives and in society, we must first understand where we are before we can arrive at where we want to be. It's important that we set aside the rose-colored glasses long enough to put the facts in perspective.

Newspaper people have long understood that a little cynicism is a healthy thing. If we are to get to the truth, the negative must always precede the positive -- or there won't be a positive.

Could we ever investigate official wrongdoing without first acknowledging that there may be culpability among our leaders?

How far could (Bob) Woodward and (Carl) Bernstein have gotten if they had taken the kind of "positive" outlook that says a president of the United States would never approve of such reckless and criminal actions as took place in the Watergate affair?

Norman Vincent Peale understood the power of positive thinking, and it is certainly true that keeping one's eye on the target can be powerful and effective when applied judiciously.

We should be positive when being positive is helpful and appropriate, but not when accentuating the positive ignores the negative -- and the cause we're trying to promote.

If there's trouble in a nuclear plant, or in the Pentagon, the White House or anywhere else, the thing to do is to acknowledge it and go about doing everything possible to correct it.

I wrote this column as a "My View" for The Hour newspaper of Norwalk, Conn., on Aug. 23, 1997. I now write my views on a wide variety of topics on HubPages. You can, too. It's easy, and free! Get paid for writing about what you love, or whatever interests you!. HubPages makes the technical part easy. Make friends and get help on its active forum. Take a quick tour to see how easy it is to get started today Click Here -- To view my HubPages Profile Click Here


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Bonnie Ramsey profile image

Bonnie Ramsey  says:
2 years ago

Hi, William!

I agree with not ignoring the negative. If we ignore it, we will not learn from it. I am one of the people who teaches positive thinking but I also teach learning from the negatives and there is no way to do that if you totally ignore it. Great hub!

Bonnie

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pjdscott  says:
2 years ago

Beautifully balanced writing as usual, William! I agree - a large dose of cynicism is a healthy thing when applied in the correct manner. History tells us that - you cited several examples.

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William F. Torpey  says:
2 years ago

Thank you very much for the positive comments, Bonnie Ramsey and pjdscott. Nothing negative there!

stephhicks68 profile image

stephhicks68  says:
2 years ago

Yes - I agree. State the negative, if it will be helpful and useful! Most definitely. You can't ignore it, because it will not go away! :-)

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Rhym O'Reison  says:
2 years ago

Indiscision could be prompted by fear of men. Fear of rejection, ridicule, retaliation. Sometimes we have to stand up for what is right (positive) even if it means showing up the wrongs. Thanks for the thought-provoking hub.

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William F. Torpey  says:
2 years ago

Thanks for the nice comment, stephhicks68.

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G-Ma Johnson  says:
2 years ago

yes it is all so easy to write..and to agree..and to want things to work..but it is even harder to accomplish these things...we all see things in our own minds way..we all think we see it best....or at least totally understand the way it could be..should be...but it is not an easy task to be negative and positive and do it all peacefully..without the hurt or rebuttals or believing...I still say THE Ten Commandments Rule...G-Ma :o) hugs

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William F. Torpey  says:
2 years ago

Rhym O'Reison, It's true that fear of ridicule and retaliation is a potent factor in many people's reluctance to speak out against wrongdoing or tyranny. It's sure a lot more comfortable to go along with the crowd, to be a "yes" man (or woman.)

G-Ma Johnson, it's never easy to make waves while others a sailing along comfortably. The Commandments all begin with "Thou Shalt Not" which I contend is a negative construction designed to bring about positive behavior.

Thank you both for your insightful comments.

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donnaleemason  says:
2 years ago

It's a great hub. Masterfully written and true.

Donna

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William F. Torpey  says:
2 years ago

I appreciate your kind words, Donna, and I'm glad you like it.

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compu-smart  says:
2 years ago

Another nuggot of great words William..You have given me lots to think about.!

good job!.

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William F. Torpey  says:
2 years ago

Thank you, compu-srmart. I wish I had your computer smarts!

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