"Why do women have to dig through the trash to find their treasure"

It's sad but women have to literally go through the trash of men, before they can find their treasure of men. All women do look for their Mr. Right or their Knight in shining armor, but women got through a lot of headaches, heart breaks; in and out of relationships that doesn't last. The truth is most women isn't comfortable with being in and out of relationships that doesn't seem to be going any where.

Women hate with a passion, meeting new men and getting into new relationships; to be honest they dread it, like catching a severe cold. When we think we have met the man of our dream, we go into the relationship thinking our search is now over. After we meet who we think, is the man of our dream. We stop looking for Mr. compatible because we think we found him. Months later down the road, we come to the realization that it's not him after all.

We find out this bit of information, after we have given our selves to him and become one with him. Now to find out, it's not him that our heart and soul still yearns for, after all. I'm pretty sure that there are men that probably go through these same changes as well. There are men and women that are abstaining from sexual intercourse; because they're tired of being with different people, with every relationship, it means a new sexual partner in your bed.

When I say that women dig through the trash, I mean that the women is going through man after man looking for Mr. Righ, when most of the time they end up with Mr. Wrong again. When we sift through the trash, we're getting someone elses left overs. Women want to stop this vicious cycle of meeting and sleeping around but they think if they don't, they might miss out on some great treasure.

Most women want genuine love in a committed relationship, they don't want a fly by night relationship. women want a decent man that is going to love and respect them and treat them like a queen. After women have gone through so much trash, the women gets tired of smelling the stinch in their nostrils, and the nasty left over debris that's left behind.

I guess the men go through their trash too, but the difference is, there's a lot of men that want to play with their trash and that's fine, if you want to wallow in the mud with the pigs. Men don't care, because most of them are just looking for fun and games and don't want committed relationships. Women or different, they want more out of a serious relationship.

A committed relationship is very important to most women, because they want more than a roll in the hay. So, women if you have to dig through the trash to get to your treasure, don't give up, because if you get the man of your dream, it was all worth it. Once you have found your diamond in the rough, you know he's going to love and cherish only you. Well, it seems that digging through the trash was worth it , even though you got a little dirty; but you came out with a priceless treasure you'll have the rest of your days.

Benny Faye Douglass