Each one of us has had a piece of taste of how it feels when life just seems not to be working for you at all; be it finances, relationship you name it.

You have to agree with me that this is worse when it comes to men. Life has never been fair to us, now you know. The truth of the matter is all women are born beautiful and gorgeous. Dating has never been a "fair" game. To me, fairness is an idea that we create in our heads that is there just to torture us.

Here are some of the reasons why life is unfair with relation to men and dating:-

• Some men are taller, others are shorter - women tend to prefer the taller guys. How unfair to the shorter ones.

• Like I mentioned earlier that women are born beautiful I lied, it is a only a small portion of women alive today have the perfect body like the one in magazines and it is therefore difficult for every man to have such a beautiful woman. How unfair.

• Many men go their entire life without ever having sex. How unfair

• Some men know the secrets of creating that magical emotion that is called ATTRACTION inside of women even though they are not rich, handsome, tall etc. and end up having the beautiful and young women. How unfair.

The point am trying to make here is that life is NOT FAIR and so is dating. Sometimes a woman may respond positively sometimes totally strangely.

A technique you use may work for you today and fail tomorrow. You may also feel great and confident today and sometimes you won't.

Now most people do not like the idea that life is not fair and so is dating. They get angry if things do not go their way; they over-emphasize on things that happened to them and maybe responses they got from women and generally act as if life should be any different.

This is INSANE.

The day I realized this...that life is not fair and never will it be, I learnt a profound truth: if life was "fair" you probably would not be able to do anything to change your personal success. You would get what everyone else is getting. The mere fact you can change any part of your life, dating included and the best part is that you can only get better and better makes me glad that life is great that way.

You can improve so much that you are actually at a better place when it comes to women and dating. I think and may be some will agree with me that people are generally lazy, too lazy to invest some time in something that they may be great at.

So take a commitment that you are going to TAKE ACTION on that part of your life that you feel that you need to improve and you are going to stay on track until you achieve the level you desire.