My Very First and Lasting Memory

brother and sister
brother and sister

My father had been previously married, and had a son, who, because my dad was in the service, was being raised by our grandmother in OK.

He was four years older than me, which made my first memory at the age of two. I recall my mom asking me if I would like a brother, and apparently I said yes :)

The time came for my brother to come home and I remember going to pick him up. He came to us on a bus (I think). It was winter, I was dressed in my snowsuit, and when he got off the bus, he walked to the car. He was on crutches at the time. I was so excited I barely let him get settled in the back seat and I was climbing all over him giving him big hugs. My mom said I had to be careful not to hurt his leg.

We grew up in the 50s/60s. The time came when my brother joined the service. I was a freshman in high school, and remember being very upset that he was going away. I wrote to him and sent him my homemade chocolate chip cookies. These are very pleasant memories :)

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Kim Cantrell 8 years ago from Deep In The Pages of a Book

That is a beautiful memory! How many of us can wish for a brother/sister and get one that's *older*?? lol Thanks for sharing!

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trish1048 8 years ago Author

Hi Kim,

It worked out great! When I became of 'dating' age, I had a lot of choices LOL,,,

Thanks for stopping by


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G-Ma Johnson 8 years ago from NW in the land of the Free

Is good to hear of pleasant memories from our childhood. I have many also with being the eldest of 4 girls hee hee...G-Ma :o) hugs

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Just_Rodney 8 years ago from Johannesberg South Africa, The Gold Mine City

Thanks for sharing that memory with us all.

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trish1048 8 years ago Author

Hi G-Ma,

Yes it is nice. I have a lot of fond memories from my childhood. My mom made being a kid fun :)

Hi Just_Rodney,

Thanks for your comment

Thank you both for stopping by,


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VioletSun 8 years ago from Oregon/ Name: Marie

This is so sweet, kinda made my eyes wet. LOL! I actually could see the image of a little girl beaming at the thought of having an older brother and baking cookies as a teenager for her bro while in the service. The story became alive in my mind. :) 

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trish1048 8 years ago Author


Awww, thanks so much for your thoughts. Didn't mean to bring tears to your eyes :)

The scene is as vivid today as it was when it happened. Just had a thought, I should ask him, because I never did, if he was as happy to get a sister LOL,,,

Thanks for stopping by,


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myownworld 6 years ago from uk

listening to the Elvis song as I read....beautiful...! There's nothing more special than the memories we make of the times spent with I can completely relate. Thank you once again for sharing... :)

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trish1048 6 years ago Author

Hi myownworld,

My brother and I were fortunate in that our parents took us on vacations to CA, TX and OK to visit family, and a lot of summers were spent at the shore with other family members.

Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

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