Proud to be British, proud to be Irish.

A historic day in Anglo-Irish relations.

I'm one of those happy people who have never had a problem acknowledging both my Britishness and my Irishness. Born into a British middle class family in Belfast, Northern Ireland, I owe much to the British system. Their health system, their social security and their education grants when I was growing up. I don't believe in biting the hand that fed me, and they fed me well, despite the fact that, in adulthood, I became astutely aware that their government had also allowed me to be disenfranchised as a political animal. I never enjoyed the benefit of being able to vote for a potential government-forming party, because the mainstream British political parties refused to set up constituency offices in Northern Ireland. Consequently, the government to whom I was beholden, were also the government who created me as a second class citizen.

There's no question that the Nationalist population of the north had cause to protest the denial of their Irish identity, but it should be noted that in many ways, the Unionist tradition had an even greater sense of betrayal, seeing their own government leave them out on a political limb.

Well, so much for my Britishness, but on so many levels, I have always believed myself privileged to be born on the island of Ireland. The people of this island, be they from Belfast, Derry, Dublin or Cork, have a warmth and a friendliness that is unmatched in my experience of other countries and peoples. Their sense of hospitality is legendary, and their pride in their country is paramount, regardless of which side of the political and cultural divide upon which they stand. I've been living in Galway for the best part of ten years now, and I don't feel like a stranger or a foreigner. I feel like I've moved in with the friendly neighbours who have always lived beside me, and with whom I've always shared so much common ground.

I've also become a student of Irish history, something that I had never really taken much interest in during my school days. And the more I read, and the more I learn, the more I understand why it is difficult for the older generations to leave their past behind and to look to a better future. I can't and won't apologise for my Britishness. I had no control over the circumstances of my birth. Nor would I expect any peaceful Irish citizen to feel any guilt for the actions of those who used the wrong and the callous methods of making their political points. But the time has come when we all need to keep history at a distance, and build a new and a better way to celebrate the things that we have in common.

Today, in my opinion, was a major step in that direction. Two amazing women came together with the good of two nations in their hearts, two nations as friends and neighbours. That Mary McAleese, a Northern Ireland Catholic, has been a driving force behind this historical moment, is a tribute to the stature of the woman. She has, perhaps, succeeded, where politics and terrorism have failed. She has awakened Ireland to the reality that Britain is a neighbour worth having, and with whom we can work, for the good of both nations.

And Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II, has brought a new dignity to the British throne. Some cynics might see it all as a clever piece of political rhetoric, but I believe there was a deep sincerity in the manner in which the Queen has conducted herself on this official tour. There was never a chance that there would be an out and out apology for the British contribution to Ireland's traumatic past.... no more than the IRA will ever apologise for the deaths that their terrorism brought upon so many innocent people. However, her laying of a wreath in the garden of remembrance, her visit to Croke Park, and most significantly, the wonderful speech that she made, acknowledging errors of the past, were all gestures that must be looked upon as a wish on the part of Britain to become good and respectful neighbours. Did any of us imagine a day would ever come when the British monarch would begin an address on Irish soil, with a greeting in the Irish language? Next thing you know, Dr Paisley will become an honorary member of the GAA!!!

So today, I feel very proud of the Queen, and equally proud of the Irish President, but even more proud of Ireland as a nation for the manner in which they have responded to the visit. With dignity and pride. With a willingness to embrace the possibilities presented by such an historic event.

There will always be those who continue to follow a darker agenda, but hopefully, as we build more and more bridges of friendship and cooperation, those numbers will diminish, and we will be able to celebrate peace and goodwill. There's a long way to go, but this was no tiny step in the process... it was a major leap towards a better day.

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SteveMacken 5 years ago from Galway, Ireland.

Here, here...

Up and useful.


THAT Mary Ann 5 years ago

Great to read this. Frankly, those who insist on perpetuating "the troubles" need to understand that their cause has waning support, at best, beyond their own skins. Almost every group-- the Irish, people of India, Native Americans, blacks, women and many more-- have someone who "did them wrong" along the way. Sometimes those wrongs continue. But the answers lie in advocacy, diplomacy and ongoing appeals to reasonable people to stop behaving badly, not in violence or even blockheadedness. The Queen has eaten enough crow by now, it seems to me...her detractors need to give it a rest.


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Angie Jardine 5 years ago from Cornwall, land of the eternally youthful mind ...

Beautifully put, PK.

I have Irish blood too, though rather more in the past than you, and I just hope that the Queen's visit helps to build bridges for peace. Life is too fleeting to spend it in fear and misery again.

Voted beautiful and up.


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Thatguypk 5 years ago Author

Thank you ladies.


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Nell Rose 5 years ago from England

Hi, speaking as and English person, I think that we over here forget sometimes that it is not always every Irish or every British that hate each other. I also think that, including me, we have always been a bit in the dark as to why these troubles started. I think a lot of it is that we as a people tend to say, well if the different faiths in Ireland never started to fight between them then we wouldn't have gone over there to try and stop it, so as you say, there was a lot more to it than that, and hopefully now we can go forward and treat each other with respect. My friend comes from Tipperary, (I keep telling her its a long way!! lol) and she has filled me in on it a bit, but she was surprised to find that it was actually King James of Scotland who actually went to Northern Ireland back in the 17 Century and started all the Hoo Ha! past is past, and now we are in the 21st century we all have to try and put it behind us, I am so glad there are people who believe this too in Ireland, sadly there will always be ones who want to cause trouble as we have seen on the news over the last couple of days, with all the terrorism in the world these people starting it again should just stop and think, cheers nell


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christopheranton 5 years ago from Gillingham Kent. United Kingdom

The visit of Her Majesty to Ireland provides an ideal opportunity for people to put the past behind them, and move forward to a better future, which I sincerely hope they all do.

The Queen, as she always does, "played a blinder". President McAleese, likewise.

Lets hope the extremists get the message.


Ernie Francis 5 years ago

Well said Peter. Very eloquent.

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