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I am a single mom of four that has spent a lifetime asking what if?  The Sweet gravestone is not meant to be disrespectful to the Sweet family, just honor what it represents to each of us.  People may say 'life is sweet' or 'how sweet it is'  In my case, I ask myself what is sweet in my life, and relish it each day.  As a survivor of a car accident where I spent three months in a trauma ward, I was able to ponder these questions, should I not be able to leave the hospital standing up, whether it be in wheelchair, gurney, or by funeral procession.  This life is now meant to shine light on the balance of all extremes.  This mission is to be a force of change in a place where resistance is unacceptable.  Let's think, dialogue, exCHANGE, shall we?