A Man Will Cheat On A Perfect Woman
Granted no woman is perfect. Nobody is perfect. But if there was a perfect woman, there would be a regular dude to cheat on that perfect woman. Why would a regular dude cheat on a perfect woman you would ask? Because he can. It doesn't mean that he doesn't worship the ground that this perfect woman walks on. It simply means that even after a perfectly delicious meal you'll always have room for dessert. You will see me use food as a metaphors, because food can be erotic. Food is an addiction just like any other drug. Sex can be an addiction as well and just like any addiction, you can never have enough no matter how good it is.
Why do Men cheat? Because they can and because we won't hold them accountable for what they do. Men will only do what you will allow them to do. Men don't care who they cheat with as long as she's giving it up. So it's not about the woman he's cheating on. It's all about getting sex from somebody who's willing to give it to them. If they're giving it away they have no problem receiving it. Just because he cheats it doesn't mean that he does not love you. It just means that he was willing to get something for free and not think of the consequences. It's sad to look at it like that but it's true. If you think about it when you've been cheated on the man usually cheated with someone that wasn't better looking than you. She didn't have a better job than you. Her body wasn't in any better shape than yours. She didn't cook better than you. She didn't even have her own place. She was just a random. It's because he didn't cheat for looks and all of that other stuff. He cheated because it was there for the taking. Has anybody ever offered you a plate of your favorite food and it didn't matter if you were on a diet or not, you still ate that food. Why? Because it was offered to you. I know somebody may look at this and be like, "Oh you don't know what you're talking about." If you look deeper you will see that it's so ridiculously true. Men simply have bigger appetites than women when it comes to sex, similar to how it is with food. A man can out eat any woman on any day. It doesn't mean that he's greedy or just an overeater, that's just who a man is. So when a man cheats on a woman it doesn't mean that he's not being fulfilled sexually at home, he just has a bigger appetite for more. I have talked to a lot of women who have gone through relationships where they have been cheated on. Beautiful women, women who feel that they have given their men everything he ever asked for, needed and wanted in the bedroom, but he still went out and cheated. You can find the most beautiful woman in the world chances are she's been cheated on before. You can find the most freakiest women in the world chances are she's been cheated on. You can find the most beautiful, freakiest, sexiest woman in the world chances are she's been cheated on a lot. No not all men are like this don't get me wrong. Just the greedy over indulgers, who go out and cheat on their mate simply because they cannot control their cravings. Although this may seem a little weird to even think about it's true and if you think about it, it's just like any other craving that a person may have. There are just some people who can control those urges and some that can't.
I remember getting cheated on and it was the worst thing that I had ever went through at that time. It was horrible. I felt like I was the ugliest woman in the world. I felt like my self-esteem was depleted all at once. I felt as though he never loved me if he cheated on me. I could not believe the audacity of this man to cheat on me and then come home and lay beside me as if he did nothing wrong. And I guess in his mind he didn't do anything wrong. He just went out for an extra serving. After I fed him this fool must have still been hungry. His decision to cheat had nothing to do with me. So you know what I did. I went and got me a man who can control his appetite. Having a man that can control his appetite means having a man who is mature enough to know when he's full.
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