How To Instantly Tell If She Is Attracted To You --- A Simple Trick!


A beautiful, sultry woman walks into Starbucks and catches your eye. Wow she is attractive! But does she feel the same way about you? Wouldn't it be nice if there were a way to tap into her unconscious mind and see. Well there is a simple, effective trick to see if she is, at the very least, subconsciously attracted to you.

Okay here it is, short and sweet: Yawn!

And make sure she sees you do it. Make it dramatic. Stretch those arms above your head and make a little noise as you let that yawn rip.

Now watch if she yawns. If she does, she is subconsciously into you! She is showing empathy for your tired soul. As an emotional contagion, you can use your yawn to see if there is an unconscious emotional attachment.

Yawning is a primal social bonding process that still works, even today, at Starbucks, as you sit in front of your keyboard with writers block, trying to figure out what people want to read about on hubpages.

Ok, so I just made this yawning theory up right now. I was just trying to think of something to write about. But now I realize, I have stumbled across an incredible, undiscovered method of subconscious, attraction detection. I am going to be rich! Nobody has talked or studied my theory yet----maybe I shouldn’t publish until I have a trademark……..nahhh---I’m desperate to get some readers.

Give it a shot---I really think this one works----and if not---it doesn't hurt to go talk to that beautiful lady anyway. Because that is how you really find love. You show the object of your desire your great personality by talking to her. Women love confidence! Yup, just talk to her and make her realize what an interesting person you are.

By the way did you yawn when you read this article?

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Kosmo 4 years ago from California

I read many years ago that to make yourself more attractive to a person, you should do what they do - run your hands through your hair, as he or she is doing or strike a particular pose. Yawning might work too, of course - as long as you don't have bad breath. So your theory seems a good one. Later!

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PaulStaley1 4 years ago from With the wind---(or against it) Author

Ahhh yes, makes sense if she mimics my movements----still at Starbucks and still single---and about to beat my chest---here goes nothing---

keith 4 years ago

I yawned!

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PaulStaley1 4 years ago from With the wind---(or against it) Author

Hey there Keith! Maybe you can dive into my heart and weld it back together---

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wonderful1 4 years ago from Southern California

Wow, really? I should try that. Although, I've probably already done it several times without being conscious of it. Thanks for that tip.

By the way, howdy, neighbor. :)

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PaulStaley1 4 years ago from With the wind---(or against it) Author

Why hello there too neighbor----you sure have some nice hubs over there in wonderful1 land---thanks for reading!

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wonderful1 4 years ago from Southern California

Well hello there, fellow San Diegan.... here's to enjoying the hot weather coming up this weekend!

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PaulStaley1 4 years ago from With the wind---(or against it) Author

Yes---that's what I hear---unfortunately I am jumping on a bus and heading down to La Paz in Baja---to pick up my broken down motobike---the unfortunate part is the 23 hour bus ride when I could be enjoying one of our fine beaches---Also I wanted to mention that I read your hub on the 10 hot guys-----wait ill go over there and leave a comment--- :)

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GingerBell 4 years ago

LOL it's unbelievable how you men come up with such ridiculous ways of attracting a woman. Yawning? I did when I read this though hahaha.

FYI no woman will find you attractive if you yawn. In fact they will find you repulsive.

Funny hub though. Rated it up!

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Jay Rando 4 years ago from England

Funny and unique post, it does indeed show how close the person is to you even if they don't know you. I read about it somewhere a while ago. Gotta try it sometime :P thankyou for the read!

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leanneswackyworld 4 years ago from Clifton Beach, Cairns, Queensland, Australia

Lol found this quite funny! Gave me my laugh for the day! :)

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PaulStaley1 4 years ago from With the wind---(or against it) Author

Glad you guys enjoyed----I think I need to do some more scientific research on the subject--I think I have something here--also I was thinking---this yawning only works at the first meeting----you sure don't want to keep her yawning!!!!

Wanderer 4 years ago

Paul, this is known as the "mirroring" affect. The belief is that when a person is attracted or interested in another, they will unconsciously mirror the other person’s actions. Yawning is an unorthodox way of testing out this theory but I do give you kudos for uniqueness. The most common test that you can do (instead of yawning) is to take a sip of whatever it is you are drinking. See if the other person does the same. Wait a few seconds and do it again. If the other person once again also takes a sip of their drink then they are unconsciously mirroring your actions. Hence they are most likely showing that they are into you. Then again maybe they are “onto” you instead of “into” you and are just screwing with your head.

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PaulStaley1 4 years ago from With the wind---(or against it) Author

Hmmm thanks for commenting Wanderer---I think a yawn is slightly different then this mirroring affect. As a yawn is truly contagious. Only Humans and chimpanzees are known to do this. But my theory is that a yawn is even more contagious to a person that has unconsciously noticed you (found you attractive). So my scientific experiment to prove my theory would include a group study of people who are universally considered attractive and then see if their yawns are more contagious then other peoples yawns-----he he---But I will be using the mirroring affect as well----hope it works in Mexico because that's where I am---

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PaulStaley1 4 years ago from With the wind---(or against it) Author

Universally attractive -----come on Paul----that is a silly phrase---

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Mistressoflove 4 years ago from Rhode Island

Very interesting and funny. I actually did yawn when I saw the picture. HAHAHA. Cool, I am going to try this out. I also found Wanderers comment interesting too. I will try out these mirror actions because I love mirrors. (giggles) Very nice hub though Paul. ;)

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corascollection 4 years ago

Loved this hub, and reading through the comments was even more entertaining, great topic!

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Claudia Tello 4 years ago from Mexico

I didn´t yawn but I smiled :). This could work both ways!!!! I am learning that I am too intimidating to talk to so I might have to be the one taking the first step. Maybe even go for it even if he doesn´t..... let us pray (PLEASE GOD!) I do find some attractive young lad next time I go for a coffee.

Good luck in your road trip through Mexico by the way, I hope you have a fantastic time here.

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Techicated 4 years ago from New York State

So If I yawn and all the women and men yawn in the store too, does it mean they all are into me? Haha. Just kidding. But good theory. You never know.

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