How to recover from a broken relationship?


Breaking up is never fun. It involves a lot of discomfort, anxiety, stress and self pity. Most often, it is accompanied by pain and hurt. To some people, it may even result to undesirable actions as a result of rejection and the lost of a loved one. It is never easy to move on especially on the first few days, weeks and months. The transition period is the most difficult to tackle as the person goes on with his/her life from being double to single again. There will be a lot of sleepless nights, contemplating, reminiscing and tears shed especially for women trying to figure out where the relationship went wrong and why it ended so badly.

So what exactly should the person do in order to recover from a broken relationship? Here are some ways that can probably help out to make you whole again as person, heal that broken heart and enjoy life once more.

1. Acknowledge the hurt and the pain you are feeling right now. As what they say facing your fears will make you strong.

2. Acceptance of the truth. Stop the denial stage and accept the truth that the relationship is over.

3. See the break up in a positive way. Look at it as a new beginning for new opportunities to come your way. A new relationship to establish with a better person to come in your life in the coming days.

4. Do a self evaluation. Spend time to know yourself more. What exactly you want to achieve in your life?

5. Focus on improving yourself especially on those areas where you lack and aim for a better YOU. Improve on all those weak points to become an interesting and lovable person that you are.

6. Forgive yourself and your ex-partner. Free yourself of all anger, guilt, and resentment so that there will be room in your heart to love again.

7. Love yourself more. If during the past relationship, you love yourself less because you are so focus on pleasing your ex-partner. This time do yourself a favour and pamper yourself with good things.

8. Take time to explore new adventures and new challenges. Do things that you have never done before when you have your ex-partner. Don’t be afraid to try on new things.

9. Find yourself a good friend. Someone you can hang out with. Ready to listen and help you get back on track with your life. Someone who can offer you a good encouragement and positive motivation.

10. Stop dwelling on the past relationship. Keep away all things that reminded you of your ex-partner. Stop all communication line. Stop going to places where you and your ex-partner go.

11. Make a decision to change. A decision to begin a new life. A decision to begin a new YOU...

12. Spend time on prayers. Lay down all burdens, pain and hurt before God. Remember that His grace will help you through. He heals the broken hearted.

13. Have a positive mind set. Remember it is not the end of the world and there are plenty of fishes to catch in the ocean. Open your eyes, your mind and your heart to others. You might be surprise of what you will discover along the way.

14. Keep yourself busy all the time. Do not leave room to think of the painful break-up. Find yourself a positive diversion. It can either be work, hobby or favourite past time that you want to do or probably get a vacation holiday for a change of environment and to give yourself a break.

15. Invest on yourself. Spend time and money on personal make-over, new clothes, sports activity and relaxation.

Life is too short and precious to make a season of mourning be a lifetime of mourning for you. Get up and be a VICTOR and not a victim! Don’t let this bad circumstance keep you down and take you away from what God has intended to enjoy!

Comments 4 comments

peter 3 years ago

i am peter ,i must say a big thanks to Dr Okhaigbe for bringing back my ex lover who has left me for the pass 2years ,i have been to several spell caster all i hear is that don't worry your problem will be solved and nothing is happening until i met this great spell caster Dr Okhaigbe who promise me 4days to get my lover back and i never believe him because of what i have seen from other, after 3days later i got back my lover begging me to forgive her from that very moment i recommend the great Dr Okhaigbe answer the best spell caster who is reliable and trusted to be with. contact him via: okhaigbespelltemple@gmail.com


A VERY STRONG AND POWERFUL TESTIMONY ON MY EX 3 years ago

Hello To The World At Large,

I am Miss Wacks.,From united states of America.I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS JOHN YIYI ORACLE TEMPLE.My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is : johnyiyi@rocketmail.com ,This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost ok..Thanks

Regards,

Miss Wacks.


TESTIMONY ON MY EX 3 years ago

My name is Judith, I almost took my life because of my ex who left me and stop picking my calls. He said do not trust me anymore, I tried to convince him, but he will not believe me until we had a fight and broke up for 8months, after then I realize I can not live without him because of the love I have for him. I tried everything possible to get him back, but non worked for me, some fake spell casters scammed me and went away with my money until I came across this man called John Yi Yi, he cast a spell for me and behold my ex came back after three days, begging me for forgiveness, I was so surprised that spell caster like kabaka still exist. If anyone here needs some help, with all sincerity, contact John Yi Yi via his email:johnyiyi@rocketmail.com.


cecilia 4 years ago

My boyfriend and I were happy as far as I could tell and I never thought that we would break up. When his cousin died in a tragic car accident he went back to us for a week to be with his family. I could not go because I was in the middle of entertaining out of town clients for work. He did not seem to be upset that I could not go so I let him be. The next thing that I know, he reconnected with an old friend from high school that he had a crush on years ago and they started to have an affair! I had no clue what was going on until a month after he came back from us .He proceeded to see both her and I until I caught him testing her one night. I confronted him and he told me the truth about what happened. We broke up and went our separate ways. Neither of us fought for our relationship. I was angry and decided not to be upset about it and just keep it moving. Then after about a month of not speaking to him I became sad. I wanted him to tell me that he wanted to be with me and not her. I contacted Dr.Ancient from ANCIENT BENIN SHRINE for a love spell and he totally helped me! he was able to get him to miss me to where he wanted to get back together again. He had a lot of regrets and felt bad for not fighting to keep me and for cheating in general. He values our relationship so much more now and we are together now! You can also get your lover back with the help of Dr. Ancient contact him through lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com

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