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I Love You Comes Before Sleeping With Each Other
True Love is hard to find but it is out there. In today's times most people associate love with sex. While sex is between two people that love each other most people call it love right away.
There is a difference between lust and love. Lust is when you are after someone's body. You will dump them if they won't sleep with you. You will also dump them after they sleep with you because they gave you what you wanted.
Love is when all you want to do is be with that person. You put their needs before your own. You don't pressure them to do anything they do not want to do. Taking things slow is what leads to great love.
People who truly love each other sleep with each other after they tell each other how they feel. They don't just jump in the sack within a month. There is no time limit. If someone waits until after they sleep with you to say I love you than they are just after sex. You know when you love someone and when you do you will do anything to be with that person, even if it means waiting.