Really, Your EX?

Magazines, e-articles, booklets, cover stories...........I see it many, many places........

I will call no one out for ridicule or debasement.

It is everywhere that I turn, women's magazines, e-articles, chat rooms, forums........

HOW TO GET YOUR EX BACK

Men should treat women with respect.........women should give men a place that they are allowed a place to tell 'man jokes', to voice discontent, to relieve their pressures........a separate voice, unheard of by the wives. We all have steam to blow off.

Women should have the same privacy.............I get these things.........I embrace them.

Sometimes, I like my girl talk, and I allow my hubby his man time........it's cool........we will meet again on the homefront.

I do not understand, why the masses, would give so much importance to reconciling with an " ex".........a has been, a discarded........one who hurt us or disappointed us before. WHY is this person, worthy?

Sure, I understand, that it can happen, a couple is so hurt, they think it is easier to quit than to forge on...........I am not stupid.

I am talking about the MASSES of people, articles, dedicated to rewinning an ex-flame. WHY?

Tell me young women and men, is it so much scarier to move forward, that you would choose to make due? With all of the people out there, is there not a better partner for you than the one who has already hurt you? This person has already failed to "get you"... They have already FAILED partnership 101.

Again, I am not asking a couple devoted to saving a family.......I already understand your interests.........

I am asking those young people, unmarried, without children, without joined finances, without a home mortage, without legal bonds.........those couples of only man and woman..........what the hey, is SO great about your EX that you dedicate the next few  months or years to retrieving them?    The relationship has already failed.

Are you afraid to be alone?

Is it because of the threat of AIDS?

Is the world just too big?

Pull me into your thinking.........make me understand.......teach me........show me the world that my daughters live in.

I just do not yet 'get it'.