Mother's Ghostly Visit to her Eldest Daughter

Mother's Apparition

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Definition of Ghost

According to google, the definition of a 'ghost' is an apparition of a dead person that is believed to appear or become manifest to the living, typically as a nebulous image.


Apparition of Mother

I heard a loud shriek coming from the upper living room and ran to see what was going on. My twin sister was on face book and yelled for me to come see something our older sister just posted. "Get your cheats on for this Linda," Laura proclaimed. "You wont believe it until you see it." I could see tears welling up in her eyes and knew it was something big.

Throughout the years since mom and dad's passing, each sibling has had their share of heavenly visits. Each contact is unique to the relationship between mom, dad and their adult child. The latest such incident happened to my older sister this past weekend. She was standing at her balcony window when she noticed a wispy figure hovering above the lake. She captured the ethereal image which I've uploaded here. She knew it was an angelic sighting but after closer inspection realized it looked just like our mother. It didn't surprise her to know mom would make an appearance at this critical time in her life. She was struggling with addiction, just as my mother did when she was alive. Mom knew her eldest daughter needed her and made an appearance. Love definitely has no boundaries; even when we've gone to the other side.

Why I believe mother and father have appeared to me and my siblings

I believe my mother and father have shown themselves to me and my siblings because of our traumatic childhood. Our childhood wasn't always an easy one. I am one of five siblings, with my twin sister and I being the youngest of the brood. I have been told, that although mom and dad were heavy drinkers before we arrived, it became increasingly severe after we were born. Life at our house became very unsafe and chaotic as their alcoholism took over.

Sadly, by the time I was nine years old, I lost my mom to this insidious disease. She was only thirty nine years old. Losing a mother so young was one of the hardest things I've ever experienced. Dad continued to drink after her death, despite pleas from his kids to stop. After several years and going through treatment five times, dad was able to stop drinking for the remainder of his life.








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Spirit Whisperer profile image

Spirit Whisperer 4 years ago from Isle of Man

It was sad to hear that your parents were unable to stop drinking before it took your mother. It is also very inspirational to hear how your father overcame this powerful addiction. It is heart warming to hear how your mother has never left you all. Thank you.


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breakfastpop 4 years ago

I think you are lucky to have had this visit.It's so strange, but I never believed in any of this until I had my own special experience involving my parents. I can't explain it, I just accept it.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Hi Spirit Whisperer and thank you so much for reading my latest visit from mom. She has come to all of us in different ways. I know at this point in my life that she had a terrible disease that took over her life and she did not intend to leave her five kids. I had to work through all the feelings about it through the years. It wasn't about mom not loving us, it was the disease that had a hold on her.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Hi breakfastpop-Ya, it's hard to fathom a visit from the other side unless it's happened to you. All I know, is that mom and dad's visits are very healing for all of us. I've written about a couple on Hubpages but plan to write more of them. I think their comforting stories and can give hope to people that have lost their loved ones and feel like it means a complete disconnect from them.


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homesteadbound 4 years ago from Texas

Alcoholism had a major hold on my father as well. It never released him. Lung cancer finally took him years ago. This is an interesting read.


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Seeker7 4 years ago from Fife, Scotland

Wow! MT you have written some awesome hubs in your time but this has to be one of my favourites! The photograph is stunning and the colour wonderful! You can clearly see an outline of a figure.

I didn't realise that you and your siblings had lost your Mum so early in life and that she was such a young age. I think she is just trying to show you guys that she is still around and looking after you all!

An awesome hub + voted up!!!


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Hi homesteadbound-I am really sorry to hear that your dad struggled with this disease too. It really tears up families and impacts you for the rest of your life. Thanks so much for coming by and reading my story.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Hi Seeker-I am really honored by your kind words about my writing and hubs. That really means a lot to me. I just like to share my life experiences with people in hopes they can take something from it. Mom and Dad are still definitely watching over their kiddos. It's very comforting for all of us.


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pmccray 4 years ago from Utah

I think apparitions are a Godsend, a guardian angel if you will. Maybe your mum was trying to do in death what she was unable to do in life, protect you and your siblings.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

I agree pmccray. Mom was too sick to protect us in life and now I think it's her mission to make sure all is well and we know she's around. I am a huge believer in guardian angels :-)Thanks for taking time out to read my story.


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always exploring 4 years ago from Southern Illinois

I'm so sorry Linda. Alcoholism is such a horrible disease that's touched many families, including mine. I would love to have the experience of seeing a love one again, such as the vision your Sister captured on camera. I am a believer in Angels. I'm sure this brought much joy to you and your family..I am happy for you..Cheers


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Thanks for your comforting words Ruby-It feels really good. There are many families struggling with this evil disease of alcoholism. Isn't this picture amazing of the apparition? The more my sister looked at it and other family members, the more we saw it looked like our mom. It has brought us all much comfort. I had tears of joy in my eyes when I heard of this and saw the picture. Thanks for sharing our happiness :-)


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einron 4 years ago from Toronto, Ontario, CANADA

I prayed and asked God to show me a sign that my mother was saved after she died. Six months later, she appeared to me in a dream dressed in a white long robe and she reached out her hand to touch me and then the dream was gone. God had answered my prayer. Prayers are often answered.

Thank you Lord.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Dear Einron. Thank you so much for sharing your experience about your mother. I have goosebumps and a big smile on my face. Isn't it amazing the comfort you get from a visit like this. It is truly an honor and I am glad your mother answered your prayer. God Bless :-)


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catgypsy 4 years ago from the South

I have had experiences and heard others. Thanks for sharing this. You touch me deeply in that you are so open about your life.


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Deborah Brooks 4 years ago from Brownsville,TX

Oh My you hit a nerve.. since my mom past in July. she has come to me calling my name three times..

Great hub..

Be blessed

Debbie


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molometer 4 years ago

Hi Linda,

These things are unusual indeed and unless you experience it yourself it is difficult to grasp.

There are many things we cannot explain.

Nice that your sister had a visit.

The Irish believe that if you are visited by a spirit, they are returning to say sorry, for anything they may have done in life? Weird hey!

Voted up


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Dear catgypsy. Thanks for your warm comment here. It took me a while to open up on Hubpages but the longer I wrote, the more I needed to purge. I love writing and I always hope that my life experiences can touch and help someone. Your nice comment means a lot to me :-)


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Oh Debbie-thanks for sharing your experience about your mom. Our loved ones may leave physically but they want us to know they are still with us in a different way. I am so sorry for your loss but I'm glad your mom is letting you know she is watching over you. God Bless Debbie


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Molometer-I got major goosebumps when you told me about the Irish belief. I do think mom wants to not only say sorry to her kids for leaving but also she is more able to protect us now that she is no longer in her physical body which was addicted to alcohol. She just couldn't be the mom I know she wanted to be. Through the years I have come to forgive and understand that mom loved us and it was the addiction, not that she didn't love us. Thanks for sharing the Irish belief. It gives me comfort.


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Just Ask Susan 4 years ago from Ontario, Canada

I've always wanted this to happen to me. To have my Dad come and pay me a visit somehow but it's never happened. I did have a dream one time that my mother was in. When my Grandmother died, my Dad saw her one night at the foot of his bed and she said to him "Make sure that you take good care of Susan."

Thank you for sharing this with us. I think it's wonderful.


stessily 4 years ago

MT, Absolutely fascinating! That's a beautiful photo with an amazing color, which must be one of the colors of love.

I hope that you share more of these experiences.

Kind regards, Stessily


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Susan-How moving that your grandmother came back to say to take good care of you. That is so touching :-) My twin sister saw my mom at the foot of her bed in a white flowing gown soon after she passed away. I continued to sleep during this visit, so I think the visit was meant for Laura. It is very comforting when a loved one lets you know their around. I realize it's a blessing that not everyone gets.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Thanks Stessily-My sister told me that she actually colored the photo so she could see it more clearly and it did in fact make the figure, easier to see. She didn't edit anything else in the photo, just the color. I couldn't believe it when I saw it. I just started crying and had the holy goose bumps. It was very comforting for not only my sister Shelly but all of us kids.


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Jackie Lynnley 4 years ago from The Beautiful South

I was sure Mom was in the room with me not long after she died but as it turned out it was the calender on the wall blowing out. I keep remembering and wishing it had been her. It must feel wonderful to feel sure and if it is I know she is saying how sorry she is.


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Nell Rose 4 years ago from England

Hi, it must be wonderful to see something like this that you can say, yes this did happen, I am sorry about your mom too, its so lovely to get a sighting like this, amazing!


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

I so wish you could have had that visit from your mom. It's such a blessing when heavenly visits happen. I do think mom has been watching over us and saying sorry about the drinking. We are all human and have weaknesses but it took a lot of years to work through it. I know she loved us :)


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Aww, thanks so much Nell. I always feel so peaceful when your beautiful picture shows up on one of my hubs. I feel like I'm getting a great big hug from you. :-)


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neeleshkulkarni 4 years ago from new delhi

i have never been visited by someone i know and have lost but yes i have sufficient exposure to the other side and know it exists.

it was her way of saying she is with you.God bless you Linda.

I promise to visit you after i pop off ,I guess I will kind of plead to God, "Hey listen, can i just stop by at Linda's for a moment".I am sure he will let me.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Sounds great neeleshkulkarni-If I pop off first I will do the same pleading.


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DeBorrah K. Ogans 4 years ago

Minnetonka Twin, How nice! This is interesting! The Lord knows just what we need! My Mom has appeared to me in a dream on several occasions looking peaceful, refreshed and happy... I agree with Einron. God does answer prayer! May HIS Peace be with you!


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Thanks DeBorrah and thanks for sharing your story of your mother. It is amazing to get this blessing.


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nighthag 4 years ago from Australia

I am sorry to hear of your pain, losing a mother is always hard and almost unbearable when so young...

I have often dreamt of my grandmother in times when I feel my life is out of control and just seeing her soft knowing smile (even if she has nothing to say) can often be all my heart needs to keep me going


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

I am so glad to hear your grandmother comes to you during difficult times. It is such a blessing to get a visit-Whether it's a dream or a sighting of loved one. Thanks for reading my story nighthag.


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thelyricwriter 4 years ago from West Virginia

I am a believer for sure MT. I have had enough experiences to know there is something after death. I always enjoy hearing other encounters and stories. Makes you wonder. Have a great weekend MT and take care.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Hi lyricwriter-Glad you read my story about mom visiting my sister. As a family we've had many nice visits which brings us all a lot of comfort. Hope your having a great weekend!


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A.A. Zavala 4 years ago from Texas

Such a touching story of suffering and pain in childhood. I agree, your mom is among you at all times. Thank you for sharing.


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Fennelseed 4 years ago from Australia

Your story is so sad, and losing your mother at such a young age must be so difficult for your family. I am sure your mum wants you to know that she is right by your side. I would be sceptical if I hadn't myself experienced visits from a loved one, though my visits were in my dreams, I have doubt that they were my son. Your story adds weight to my beliefs and I thank you and wish you all the best.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Thanks Augustine for reading my story. I find it really therapeutic to write about my difficult past as well as my beautiful current adult life.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Dear Annie-It means a lot that you stopped by my hub about moms visit to my sister. I know you've been through pain and grief of your own and hope my story helps you find comfort in your own visits through dreams. God Bless :-)


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Brett.Tesol 4 years ago from Somewhere in Asia

What a great story and interesting photo. It is always nice to think that loved ones my be watching over us still.

Thanks for SHARING.


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Thelma Alberts 4 years ago from Germany

Wow! It is very interesting to say that your sister has experienced such a ghostly visit from your mother. Awesome! Thanks for sharing.


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Alastar Packer 4 years ago from North Carolina

Linda the first thing I noticed was the face on the lake apparition. I can empathize with you on the alcoholism in the family. What an inspiring gift is occurring for you and your sister. Beautiful, but I'm at a loss for any other words.


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cclitgirl 4 years ago from Western NC

Interesting read. Did anything actually happen when your sister saw the apparition? I'm so glad your father was able to overcome alcoholism, too. :)


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TIMETRAVELER2 4 years ago

When my former husband passed away, I used to wish he would come to me just one more time. Instead, he came to his best friend. However, he did come to me later in an extremely real dream where he gave me one last beautiful kiss to say goodbye. Later, a friend of mine "journeyed" me, and I saw him again. I was not sleeping this time. He was beautiful and healthy and stepped into the opening of a cave out of a golden light that bathed him from head to toe. He told me that he was doing fine and that I should not worry about him anymore. Do I believe your story? You bet!


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suzzycue 4 years ago from Ontario, Canada

This is a great sighting of your Mom. I am blessed my parents are both still alive at 83 and are in the motorhome in Florida right now. They are very alive and loving it.You sure had to grow up fast losing your Mom so early. God Bless!


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Hi Brett-I agree-It's really comforting to think that loved ones are watching over us. Thanks a lot for coming by and reading my story.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Hi Thelma and thanks so much for taking the time out to read my story. I sure hope it was mom but it sure feels good to think it could've been. My sister thought it really looked like mom when she uploaded the shot and like mothers are, mom knew my sister had been going through a lot of difficult times lately.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Alastar-Isn't it an amazing picture! My sister did add color to it which brought out more of the face in the shot. Our family was really comforted by this appearance. I really appreciate you coming by and sharing the experience with me.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Hi Cyndi-Nothing happened but the apparition that sis thinks looks like mom, appeared during a transitional time in her life when she really needed mom. I think the appearance was all that was needed to reassure my sister that everything would be ok.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

TIMETRAVELLER-Wow, what wonderful accounts of your husband visiting you and others. Your story about your husband being bathed in white from head to toe is just like what my twin sister saw soon after our mother died. She was in a white gown and glided into our bedroom to let her know that we would be ok. We were only nine when she died, so I believe she felt bad for leaving us so young. Thanks so much for reading my story. I hope it can bring hope and comfort to others that have lost a loved one.


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Suzzy-I couldn't be happier for you having both parents living. Don't take one minute for granted as I am sure you don't. I miss my mom and dad soo much but these visit help ease the pain a bit. Thanks so much for reading my story and taking the time to leave your nice comment.


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epigramman 4 years ago

...well you certainly made my morning (and my day) dear Linda when I came home today after night shift and saw your beautiful friendship card waiting for me and it means a lot to me because I know of you as a person who has gone through so much herself in the last few years and I admire you and look up to you for being a survivor and having such great attitude which serves as an inspiration to those of us who love and cherish your friendship and status here as as esteemed colleague and world class team player.

Yes it is my Canadian thanksgiving weekend so I am eternally grateful for the day of meeting you here at Hubpages as well.

I too, after reading your story here about your dear mum, have ghost stories to tell as well.

Because I live in a cottage which is over 56 years old and the only two other people who have lived here are my mum and dad I would say that I've had at 6 visits from my mum over the last 2 years as she moves things around (my cats didn't do it -lol and neither did I absentmindedly -lol - so who else could it be) like flowers, and plant pots, and 5 gallon water containers, and the 'mouse' on my old desktop computer: it was wrapped tightly around the answering machine -a cat couldn't do that - and I am sure they are aware (my cats) because Little Miss Tiffy is now 18 and was my mum's cat and I often think my mum is inside that cat)

Always so wonderful to hook up with you my 'American Queen' lol

and please keep in touch my dear friend and please say hello to your sister for me , Laura

sending you warm wishes and good energy from lake erie time ontario canada 4:15pm with a cuppa nice tea and some ragtime piano music


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Minnetonka Twin 4 years ago from Minnesota Author

Dear Colin~I am so glad to hear you have received the friendship card from me. You mean soooo much to me and I have always been so grateful for your friendship here. Laura says hi back to you. You naming me 'American Queen' is so sweet Colin. Your friendship is such a blessing to me. Cool to hear you've also had ghostly visits. I believe our loved ones are always with us in different ways. I've had many experiences which gives me peace of mind.

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