Tips and Advice for Tourists in New York City

Learn how to survive New York City as a tourist

Visiting New York City for the first time can be overwhelming and confusing. Manhattan, especially, is big, noisy and crowded. Details of daily life — from transportation to buying lunch to finding restrooms — just don't work the same way as they do elsewhere in the country.

Here a few practical tips for NYC tourists to make a visit to the city as stress free as possible.

Times Square / E. A. Wright 2009
Times Square / E. A. Wright 2009
New York City parking sign / E. A. Wright 2009
New York City parking sign / E. A. Wright 2009

Have a plan that doesn't involve a car

Driving into Manhattan is hard to do. Finding parking is harder.

If you do try to drive, you will spend the first half of your trip looking for a parking space, and too much of the rest of your trip worrying if the spot you found was legal.

  • Fines for parking violations started at $35 in the outer boroughs and could hit $180 in Manhattan, as of 2009. (Check carefully, they may have gone up again!)

So, unless you have a friend with a private garage spot to spare, just don't.

Relearn how to be a pedestrian

You must not hog the sidewalk. You must not hog the sidewalk. Repeat that to yourself as you walk.

Sauntering down Broadway in loose groups of three or four may seem like the only way to travel, but this behavior presents an unwelcome obstacle course for locals.

It will mark you as a tourist. It may also bring on a few dirty looks or what may seem like violations of your personal space as others try to push past you.

Redefine "polite"

A heightened awareness of your effects on others will be needed throughout your trip to New York City.

There are dozens of other similar and unspoken rules to pick up.

It can be a bit of an awkward and unpleasant mental adjustment to start calculating how your smallest actions might end up inconveniencing 100 others within 30 seconds. But it is necessary.

Look at it as the ultimate test for treating others as you would like to be treated — a test with no extra credit for sweet smiles or whispered apologies.

Once you realize that the thousands of people you're passing each day are mostly passing this test, New Yorkers start to seem a little less rude.

Dress for street tromping success

Adjust your wardrobe to wandering the New York city streets.

  • If you wear flip flops during your trip, expect someone to step on the backs of them.
  • If you wear pants with hems that drag, the bottom two inches will be filthy by the end of the day. That's a fact of life walking on crowded city streets.
  • And don't plan on sitting down in too many public places while wearing white. Black is the most popular color in the city for a reason.

Dressing up a bit also helps lift you — if only psychologically — above the gritch underfoot.

Carry water

If this is not already clear, people in New York do a lot of walking. As a tourist, you will do even more, both because you will be exploring and because you are more likely to get lost or temporarily turned around, even when you are tired and thirsty.

Also, for those unused to walking around at street level in New York City, note that throats become scratchy and dry quickly from all the exhaust and other fumes in the air.

You will get thirsty, and then you will discover that having to buy several $2 bottles of water from the nearest Duane Reade is not the ideal solution. There are more interesting places to visit in the city.

Know your restrooms

Make a mental note of any and all clean and open public restrooms you pass, and remember how to get back to them.

Don't wander too far beyond the last one you pass. You can't depend on the nearest shop or Starbucks to have a public toilet. Many chain stores that routinely offer restrooms in other cities routinely don't in New York City, and city parks rarely have clean, readily available restrooms.

The cramped bathrooms at Penn Station (a major subway and railroad hub) are scuzzy. So are some of the options at the nearby flagship Macy's.

What this means is that if you are touring for the day, and your itinerary happens to involve a meal at a restaurant with a nice bathroom, don't leave before you have used it.

(Consider this a somewhat-more-complicated corollary to the preceding tip about carrying water.)

Don't depend on your credit or debit cards

While reliance on plastic has become increasingly common and increasingly practical in much of the country, many small yet interesting shops in New York City still run on a cash only basis. No credit cards or debit cards are accepted. This is especially true at many eateries.

Unfortunately, given prices in the city, carrying enough cash for a week's worth of spur-of-the-moment bagel and ice cream stops can quickly become a foolish proposition. Tourists are rightly advised not to carry wads of money in their pockets.

So, strike a balance between cash and plastic, and be aware of where to access an ATM in a pinch without running through several cab fares in bank fees.

Assess your giving strategy

Before entering the city, come up with a plan responding to panhandlers, performance artists and others asking for money. Have a strategy you feel good about and stick to it — whether that means carrying dollar bills for the purpose or steeling yourself for turning many blind eyes. This will save you many moments of uncertainty and angst.

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JamaGenee 7 years ago from Central Oklahoma

You've listed a few more reasons why I'll never visit NYC without a local as an escort! (btw, the majority of public toilets in **London** are squeaky clean and easy to find.) ;D


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E. A. Wright 7 years ago from New York City Author

Visiting New York *is* quite the experience. There are some special places in NYC, so if taking in the world's biggest cities is on your lifetime To Do list, I hope you're able to find the right local escort at some point.


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702Dude 7 years ago from Las Vegas

This was excellent. I'm officially a fan. I was raised globally but seemed to always end up back on the east coast. Specifically NYC & S. Jersey. You hub reminded me, that I will never miss public bathrooms of Manhattan or the parking for that matter. Well done!


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maggs224 7 years ago from Sunny Spain

I have visited New York twice both times we stayed in New Jersey and came into New York by bus. The bus stop was only yards from our hotel so that was very convienient. I was very pleasantly surprised by what I found it was not as frightening as I thought it would be it was much cleaner than I thought it would be and the people were a lot more courteous than I thought they would be. I found your article very interesting and full of useful advice.


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loua 7 years ago from Elsewhere, visiting Earth ~ the segregated community planet

Thanks for the advice, E. A. Wright...


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E. A. Wright 7 years ago from New York City Author

Glad to help.


Russ 7 years ago

It never ceases to amaze me that people actually choose to live in places like this. Give me the country ANY day of the week. Where you can drive (yes, actually drive your own car) for miles and never even pass another on a beautiful summer afternoon. When God made it perfect for this type of activity. Where parking is never a problem. We still have all the stores and most of the selection as those in the city (and if we still really need something different, there is always the internet). I would never trade this for the world. Other than the park, when is the last time anybody in the city has even seen a tree? I can look out my windows and see a thousand of them. Pure heaven!


lcartwrightp 5 years ago

If you would like some advice from a real New Yorker, try a walking tour. I have done a few with a guy named Garry and he knows the inside story on every neighborhood in the city (as far as I can tell). He'll customize a tour for what you are looking for: http://www.manhattanwalkingtour.com/ He'll help you see the city like a real New Yorker.


Stevi 5 years ago

Thanks! this helped a bunchh im visiting NYC this summer with my theater and im so nervous! were from texas so it will be VERY different for us to be around such a huge crowded city! :)


Jay Shemwell 4 years ago

As a New Yorker I say thank you. These subtleties are difficult to explain to a tourist and you did a fantastic job. Another tip I always give people, go to Times Square your first night in NYC and then don't go within 5 blocks of it during the rest of your visit.

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