Having Autism isn't easy. It makes life very difficult not only for you but the people around you who don't understand you. Learning is difficult and fitting in is almost impossible. But at least you can say that you aren't boring. You have things that make you unique and no one can call you bland.
Contrary to what anybody tells you, love cannot survive without trust and intimacy. If you can't trust your partner, then it isn't real love. If you and your partner can't be close with each other physically and emotionally, then it isn't real love. Without trust and intimacy there is nothing.
Being transgender is a lifelong journey that doesn't end when you finish transitioning. Not everyone has to alter their appearances if they're transgender, but in most cases trans people will still be disrespected even after changing their appearance. But we all have to stick together.