Writing your own "Burn Notice"
A Bit of Explanation
'Burn Notice' is a television serial in which a spy, Michael Weston, is given a burn notice; meaning he is discharged.
Just like that.
I am using the term in referrence to people who get themselves fired; whether from a job, a club, a relationship.
People who do something or a set of things, or have an attitude, which means no one wants them around.
This behaviour I call writing their 'Burn Notice'
One of the easiest professions to examine for those who write their own 'Burn Notice' is acting. Actors seem to fall prey to a set of fantasies greater than the last role they played.
An Actor doesn't seem 'to get' that the public watch the program because they love the character he is playing.
The public may not be able to tell the difference between the actor and the character, but the actor, who is playing the role is supposed to 'get' that people may not care about him as he is but care about the character that he portrays.
This leads to a funny kind of insanity in which the actor doesn't just confuse himself with the character he plays, but behaves in such a manner as if he thinks he is irreplacable.
Kookie; lend me your Comb
Edd Byrnes was an actor who appeared in a TV show called 77 Sunset Strip.
He played a character called 'Kookie' and was very popular.
The star of the show was Efrem Zimbalist, who placed a private investigator. Kookie was a parking valet.
Teens related to him, as he was always combing his greasy pompadour hair and spoke the slang of the late 1950s.
A song was made; "Kookie, Kookie--Lend Me Your Comb", which reached #4 on Billboard. Byrnes received 15,000 fan letters a week.
Byrnes walked off the show in the second season demanding a bigger part and bigger pay. The producers eventually agreed but put on restrictions to limit his appearances. Because of this Byrnes was forced to turn down film roles in Ocean's Eleven (1960), Rio Bravo (1959), North to Alaska (1960) and The Longest Day (1962).
Because of this, the only way to 'escape' he had to buy out his television contract but it was too late.
Had he not been so demanding, had he understood people didn't care about Edd, they liked Kookie, maybe he'd have gone on to be a major star. Instead of someone most people never heard of.
Harry Hamlin had bounced around for a number of years, appearing in nothing much. Then he stared in the series L.A. Law in 1986.
His character was very popular, and then in 1987 he decided to leave the series and go on the Big Screen. This was wholly unsuccessful. Since then, he has appeared in B movies and direct to video features.
His popularity went to his head. Being voted one of the 50 Sexiest Men alive pushed him over the brink.
So, not realising that the public liked the character, not him, he lost the character. The show continued on the air. Without him.
Gary Dourdan was cast in the original CSI which debuted on October 6, 2000. He played analyst Warrick Brown.
It was good role, as the character was quite complex.
The public loved him. Then, in 2008 came the contract negotiations.
Since he was so important, he could make demands. As aresult his contract was not renewed and Mr. Important was leaving the show.
To make sure he never came back, his character was killed at the episode's end.
What happened to the guy behind the character? The real person?
In July 2011 after crashing his car, Dourdan was arrested but charges were dropped for drug possession but remained for possession of drug paraphernalia.
In November 2011, he was arrested for felony battery after allegedly breaking his girlfriend's nose and placed on five years probation.
He was also ordered to attend 52 weeks of domestic violence counselling and to stay away from the victim for five years. Owing to his history of drug problems, he was also ordered to undergo drug counselling.
He filed for bankruptcy in August 2012, owing roughly $1.7 million to creditors.
What Does This Have To Do With....
The three 'case studies' expose one common thread, despite the elapsation of time.
Here are three men, hired to play a role. They are not the character. They are playing a role. The public buys the role. They love the character. The actor behind the character wants more money.
Either gets it, but is barred from other appearances, so has no career, or he doesn't get it, and is dropped from the show, and has no career.
How did this happen?
This is What...
When you don't realise how people see you, really see you, it leads to extreme errors.
One may be taken as a joke, but think she is respected. One might only be a 'tool' and as long as there is need of the tool, he has a place. If the 'tool' complains, an air tight contract might cement the tool in the 'tool box' while real opportunities pass by.
Think of Edd Byrne who could have been...and never was or will be.
A person could be hired for a position because of a momentary need. If s/he thinks s/he is so important that the business can't run without him/her, well, think of Gary Dourdan who went from icon to convict.