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A Homeschooler's Tale: My Experiences as a Homeschooled Kid

Updated on October 3, 2011

Curious about alternatives to public education?


There is a question often agonized over by parents of young chidren, or the parents of those kids that just plain aren't thriving in the public school system for one reason or another.That question is often "should I homeschool?". While I can't answer this fundamental question for you I can offer my own insight as someone who was homeschooled and also spent time in the public school system. There are two main concerns I hear regarding homeschooling...whether a kid gets enough social interaction, and whether they get a quality education from qualified teachers. Here's how it worked out for me...

The Early Days of My Education

I can still remember when my sister (one year my senior) started school. We both got our very own desks obtained by our parents from an auction for old school equipment but I was still "too young" to start school so I was given a coloring book or book to read (I learned to read at the tender age of three) while my sister got to learn how to do fun things with numbers on the chalk board. I wanted to be part of that too! Finally Mom bought me a book with simple addition and subtraction problems in it and taught me how to figure out the answers using an abucus or a pile of beans.

The next year...I'm old enough to have class too! My mother believes very strongly in the importance of the English language and the first three years of school my sister and I shared were dedicated primarily to grammar, vocabulary, and the end of those three years we each tested at college-level in English.

I was a very difficult child from the start; my ADHD diagnosis would have likely had me on Ritalin and stuck in a special ed class or held back in public school, but my mom was bound and determined to keep me off drugs despite the additional challenges that presented. Every ten minutes I would be standing by my desk dancing from foot to foot again...she signed our classes to us (and is now a sign language interpreter) so we could learn another useful language at the same time and I had the annoying tendency of looking at the ceiling when I decided I didn't want to listen anymore. Instead of punishing me Mom would send me to run around the outside of the house nine times and if I as good allowed me to do my homework perched on the straw stack in the back long as my work got done we could choose our learning environment.

We took full advantage of having a local homeschooler's group...this group met every month to discuss activities everyone could do, teaching tips, and arrange classes with professionals in a given field. Before I even hit fifth grade I had the benefit of learning astronomy and science from a college professor with over 25 years of teaching behind him, a first hand look at nursing, had taken advanced CPR courses and was certified by the Red Cross, I could do advanced algebra taught to us by a parent who majored in mathematics, and part of our P.E. was going skiing every other Tuesday during the cold season.

The year of my ninth birthday I was allowed to enroll in 4-H and immediately signed up for twelve projects...entomology, sewing, dogs, shooting sports, cooking, rabbits, and hogs amongst others...which kept me quite busy and allowed me to meet many new friends. Additionally, my mom decided it was time for us to branch out into some things she couldn't teach us...namely, music and sports. Our first private teacher gave us voice lessons, taught us to read music, and taught us the basics of playing the piano. When she'd taught us all she knew we went to a new teacher...a concert pianist well-known in this area...who has us playing advanced classical music within months. At this point Mom let us choose an instrument apiece to learn and I chose one I'd always wanted to be able to play...the violin. She scraped together her meager resources and bought me a brand new instrument and enrolled me in the youth orchestra with a teacher who plays in the Billings Symphony Orchestra for a living.

Additionally, I played soccer through the recreation department, took swimming lessons, and even had ballet lessons (my sister wanted to do it and dragged me along...surprisingly I'm now glad to know it). We were both active in a girl's church group called Missionettes, specifically a program called STARS which lasts for four years and teaches proper Christian conduct for young ladies. Overall, we definitely weren't fact there was rarely a day that we didn't have someplace to go out of the house.

Education Takes a Turn

Right before I started 8th grade we moved to a new town and left Dad behind. Mom had to go to work two full time jobs and there was nothing for us but to go to public school. Though we attended the highest-ranking school in the state (and one of the top small schools in the country) my days were filled with sheer boredom...many of the lessons taught were ones we'd learned years before and had advanced far beyond that point, I stopped turning in my homework and my grades fell (that is, until I needed good grades to go on a school trip, then I had all As within two weeks), I even had a concerned teacher call my mother to tell her that I never used my calculator and she didn‘t think that was normal (well heck, I could see the abacus working in my head!). My saving grace that year was a history teacher who recognized my boredom and offered to let me turn in reports on historical fiction books of her choice for extra credit as long as I kept my grades up and didn't have any missing homework assignments...I finished her class with 150% with over a dozen novels reported on. Electives also provided a bit of a diversion for me, I'd never learned much of art (plenty of handcrafts, but no pencil-to-paper art) and classes like desktop publishing, horticulture, and melodrama kept my attention tolerably well.

By Sophomore year I'd finally found some diversions to make the boring classes tolerable (and even started finding a few new nuggets of information after almost three years of wasted public school time) in the form of extra activities...I became an officer in FFA and quickly made my way on to the varsity Academic Challenge team and continued swimming, soccer, and lifting weights at the YMCA. I can say that I definitely wasn't sad to see my high school career end (even though my teachers were pretty neat people, but they were crippled by the parameters set by the public school system) because it freed my time back up to learn something other than how to pass the next standardized test.

Where I Am Now

High school is behind me and I am now the mother of a beautiful two-year-old boy who is constantly testing his limits and trying to learn everything at once. Sadly, I'm back in the town I grew up in (one with a much poorer school than the high school I attended) and nearly every adult graduate of this school I meet is barely literate and has absolutely no interest in learning. Yes, there are exceptions...I know some very intelligent people who've learned well despite the educational opportunities they were presented with...but those exceptions are just that, exceptions. Getting a good education shouldn't be an anomaly, it should be something everyone gets.

My keenest desire now is to be able to homeschool my son and any siblings he ends up with so that maybe he can know the love of learning that I do. My mom focused as much as possible on teaching us how to teach ourselves and let us select subjects to study that interested us...we took a field trip with our Granny once that ended at the Grand Canyon, my sister and I each chose a Southwestern Native American tribe that we studied through the ruins and museums we visited on the way to our destination, also in 3rd grade my mom recognized my passion for sled dogs and let me study the careers of two world-class mushers (both of whom I had the pleasure of meeting a couple of years ago while working as a sled dog handler) keep us interested and show us that learning doesn't have to be tedious.

Of course everyone's homeschooling experiences will vary depending on the opportunities available locally and the amount of creativity and time you devote to your child's education. I've had my IQ tested and was well into the "genius" range...but if I'd been consigned to public school for the duration of my education I would likely have been in special classes and would have been lucky to graduate. Yes, I am a firm believer in the effectiveness of homeschooling and wholeheartedly encourage anyone that has the proper time resources and the desire to homeschool their child.

I owe much of my entreprenaurial success to my early education at home
I owe much of my entreprenaurial success to my early education at home


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    • edmondpogi profile image


      8 years ago

      great article.

    • Beth Ann Reed profile image

      Beth Ann Reed 

      8 years ago

      You are a model success story for homeschooling!! Your mom did alot of right things as I'm sure you will do. I have homeschooled my 2 daughters 15 and 18 and we are many varied interests and activities as you did that keep us going. Blessings and thank you!

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      Moon Daisy 

      8 years ago from London

      I love this hub. Your experiences of being home-schooled are really inspirational. Thanks for sharing them with us.

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      Rebecca Mikulin 

      9 years ago from Sheridan, Wyoming

      Thank you everyone :). I couldn't help but notice just how many arguments are out there for or against homeschooling, but it does always seem to be from either a theoretical standpoint, from the view of someone who would like to try, or parents who once homeschooled. Today, I'm a full-time writer and people often think that, given my communication skills, I must have a bachelor's or master's degree...yet I attribute it all to the focus given to language arts early in my education, especially since I have yet to go to college.

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      9 years ago

      Excellent Hub. All too often the home school discussion revolves around the parent/teacher, plans, curriculum choices, and education philosophies. Seldom are the voices of the home schooled kids heard. Thanks for sharing your experience.

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      9 years ago

      That's an excellent point how children that are too bright for mainstream school are not having their needs met.

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      Carolyn Augustine 

      9 years ago from Iowa

      This was a wonderful personal experience hub. You are an inspiration. Homeschooling often seems to affect the homeschooled child's sense of purpose and with less structured classroom time focused on standardized testing, it sounds like you really found not only one, but several passions. That is what any parent should be seeking for their children. I'm glad you found it this way.

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      11 years ago from DC Metro Area

      What an awesome testimony to the educational power of homeschooling! I found myself reading every word of your hub with anticipation as to your experience! As I mentioned on the thread in the forums, I was homeschooled for only one year, but I got ahead in math and English because of it. I would venture to guess that I'd be further along educationally now if I had continued homeschooling. However, I think social skills are very important, too, and I probably would not have gotten them had I continued. (This was just my experience- not saying it's like that for all homeschoolers). Unfortunately in today's world it's a lot less about "what" you know and a lot more about "who" you know.

    • imasailorgirl profile image


      11 years ago from Aboard Boudicca (a sailboat)

      I think it's great to find a hub about a person's experiences being homeschooled. I unschool/homeschool my daughters and hope they look back on it fondly.

    • SparklingJewel profile image


      11 years ago from upper midwest

      Hi wychic,

      Great article. It is wonderful to hear of another good homeschooling success. Good fortune to you for your future work...whatever it(all the many things you do!) is.

      I homeschooled my last two children in the 90s. Many varied experiences, but like you they turned out great, too. I wrote a short hub on it recently, if you are interested.



    • renegadeoffunk profile image


      11 years ago from Tokyo


      I commented on that homeschooling thread in the forums and found your hub. I really want to thank you for sharing your experience. I am a 23 year old writer/teacher living in Tokyo, and I have studied education and philosophy a great deal. I was not homeschooled but I wish I had been; my experience was much like yours, in that I was eternally bored and often thwarted in pursuing my genuine interests. I am positively against public education and generally a libertarian about most political subjects.

      In any event, I rarely get to meet or hear from people who actually were homeschooled. So I guess, thanks for existing is all I really need to say. Good luck with your child.



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