Trust is essential in our lives
Relationships will not flourish if Trust is lost. Trust is nessessary in building relationships. Everyone needs to trust in somebody. To connect. Without Trust we would feel lost, alone, unloved and insecure. .everybody seeks and needs to be Trusted.
Trust makes us feel loved. Trust makes us feel cared for. Trust creates a bond and that bond begins from the time we are in our mothers womb. Trust makes us feel protected and loved. Trust is essential in our lives. This is where closeness and dependance on another human being begins.
How is Trust compromized? The major cause of Trust being compromized is feeling betrayed/hurt, abandoned or misunderstood.
So how do you build back trust after it has be compromized. Once compromized that feeling of being safe and secure wavers. You no longer feel as loved and cared for as you did. The bond has been shaken.. that bond still remains or we would'nt feel hurt by it.
Once you establish a bond it's there to stay. Even it it has been compromized it still remains. Think of the bond you have with your Mother and Father or your sister and brother. Things may not be perfect but you still have that bond. You may have had your indifferances but that bond was never broken. It was compromized. You can't lose that bond. That bond will always be there.
Where there is love there is Hope. Loving someone means there is hope.
Love is the willingness to want to forgive one another. Without willingness to forgive both parties will suffer. Blame and anger add friction therfore prolonging the importance of what we are trying to accomplish. Both people involved need to be humble and seek after whats most important. Not caving into what the other has done wrong but opening up our hearts with sincerity and Love which aids in establishing back that Trust.
Nothing can be resolved with closed hearts or a closed minds. Shutting ouselves off from the world. Shutting ouselves off from eachother. Trust can't be built alone. We need to work together to accomplish it. Trust cannot be built unless we are willing to build it. Remember, no one is perfect, we all make mistakes.