Trust
Trust is essential in our lives
Trust
Relationships will not flourish if Trust is lost. Trust is nessessary in building relationships. Everyone needs to trust in somebody. To connect. Without Trust we would feel lost, alone, unloved and insecure. .everybody seeks and needs to be Trusted.
Trust makes us feel loved. Trust makes us feel cared for. Trust creates a bond and that bond begins from the time we are in our mothers womb. Trust makes us feel protected and loved. Trust is essential in our lives. This is where closeness and dependance on another human being begins.
How is Trust compromized? The major cause of Trust being compromized is feeling betrayed/hurt, abandoned or misunderstood.
So how do you build back trust after it has be compromized. Once compromized that feeling of being safe and secure wavers. You no longer feel as loved and cared for as you did. The bond has been shaken.. that bond still remains or we would'nt feel hurt by it.
Once you establish a bond it's there to stay. Even it it has been compromized it still remains. Think of the bond you have with your Mother and Father or your sister and brother. Things may not be perfect but you still have that bond. You may have had your indifferances but that bond was never broken. It was compromized. You can't lose that bond. That bond will always be there.
Where there is love there is Hope. Loving someone means there is hope.
Love is the willingness to want to forgive one another. Without willingness to forgive both parties will suffer. Blame and anger add friction therfore prolonging the importance of what we are trying to accomplish. Both people involved need to be humble and seek after whats most important. Not caving into what the other has done wrong but opening up our hearts with sincerity and Love which aids in establishing back that Trust.
Nothing can be resolved with closed hearts or a closed minds. Shutting ouselves off from the world. Shutting ouselves off from eachother. Trust can't be built alone. We need to work together to accomplish it. Trust cannot be built unless we are willing to build it. Remember, no one is perfect, we all make mistakes.
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AUTHORThank you susanlang! Trust in what is good and faithful! Blessings sister!!!
Trust is so needed as you say, and even after 25 years with my husband Mark, we both know the power of trust. Another good hub!
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heart touching
Timehealsall,
This is a very good hub! You have well stated the important necessity of TRUST! It is most crucial in formulating healthy relationships!
Yes, as Nobody says: "We are to imitate Jesus in the way He loves. I know that once hurt it is hard to trust but it is possible, otherwise Jesus would not have replied to Peter's question, "How many time should I forgive my brother? Up to seven times?" Jesus said, "Up to seven times seventy times." That is asking us to take risk."
Thank you for sharing.
Blessings
You are absolutly right no body. Thru God ALL things are possible. He will help us become stronger and wiser. Things won't seem so difficult when we trust in Jesus. Prayer changes things thru having faith in Jesus Christ that all things work together for his Glory. We can't do it alone. Always your sister, Time
Avoiding possible pain from others can be a full time job. There is no way that we will not be hurt from time to time from even people that we love. Unconditional love and forgiveness is modeled by Jesus toward us. We are to imitate Jesus in the way He loves. I know that once hurt it is hard to trust but it is possible, otherwise Jesus would not have replied to Peter's question, "How many time should I forgive my brother? Up to seven times?" Jesus said, "Up to seven times seventy times." That is asking us to take risk. To love and forgive our brothers and those that have hurt us. It is not easy but it is possible through our Lord Jesus. Lean on God and count on Him to enable you to forgive and learn to trust again. Our brothers will fall but we love them with Jesus' love that never fails. Always your brother, no body.
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