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Eye Contact level in Attraction

Updated on March 30, 2024
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Eye contact is important when in communication and if you are attracted to someone.

Eye attraction

Two people staring at each other a few feet away, he from one end and she on the other end of the walkway.

His wife watches on and finds it odd to see her husband staring with a smile at this woman and does not say a word.

Hours later, the wife mentions this incident to her husband expecting him to explain that stare and smile he had with the other woman.

Unfortunately, the wife did not get an honest answer.

He did not admit that he stared and smiled at the other woman nor did he feel it was wrong of him to do that. The moment he had with this woman affected his wife’s thoughts. Her husband held his gaze on this woman and she did the same.

What do you think of this incident?

Did he have a special moment there or did he just smile and stare at her as in a flirting gesture?

Do you think eye contact always means there is an attraction?

The eyes are the windows to our souls!

This powerful connection shows what we feel for each other and for others too. You communicate with eye contact unless you are shy, and then you will turn away from the person you speaking to.

If someone is lying to you there is no eye contact.

Did this man show an interest in this woman while holding a stare and smiling at her?

This was an automated response to something that happened at the moment. Eye contact does not always mean attraction, it can mean anything from a negative to a positive thought when looking at another person of the opposite gender.

What does it mean to stare at someone?

You stare at someone meaning you are attracted to that person but don’t know how to admit it. Don’t get too comfortable with his stares, it can also be that he is weird or creepy. Sometimes staring at people makes the moment feel scary or uncomfortable.

For example;

It is rude to stare at some stranger’s body.

Eye contact with someone in a confident way allows you to see the person and communicate with that person on an eye-eye level.

There are weird people who would stare at your body from top to bottom and from all sides too.

What is it to have Furtive Glances?

Are you attracted to someone, but shy to admit it?

Another way of looking at it is, that one could be thinking of you as someone they know from their past. People stare at each other for a few seconds, then look away.

That is Furtive Glances and you would get these glances from someone who has a little interest in you like an attraction. When two people are caught in the moment on eye-level contact: it shows a close experience that means intimacy.

The Total Avoidance Eye Contact

  • You are nervous from a case of social anxiety.
  • The individual staring at you gazes in the opposite direction to avoid you noticing his stares and that he is attracted to you.
  • It shows you have a crush, but secretly.
  • There is that shy manner that puts them off from a continuous stare at you.
  • It is inappropriate to mention you have a crush on someone you spend a lot of time with.
  • Eye contact is a powerful act between two people be they loved ones or strangers.
  • You stare at someone for a few seconds and hold that stare until one of you pulls away.

It is to reconnect with someone you have a special closeness with, is that right?

When you find your husband staring with a smile at another woman who shares the same stare and smile that is something else to think about.

What do you know of Eye contact and attraction?

  • You try to seduce someone with your eyes and through body language.
  • Eye contact can create a relationship you never knew could happen to you.
  • It is preferred to look into someone’s eyes with no dark shades in that way you get their clear connection.
  • I have noticed that when someone is hesitant to talk to me they look away.
  • Reading someone’s body language is easier than reading one's mind.

What is Unconscious eye contact?

  • Unconscious eye contact is what you do all the time.
  • You stare at people from one to the next not realizing you are actually staring at each of them.
  • Something you do while sitting in the park or in the shopping mall and staring at people in crowds or people walking on the street.
  • It is not like you are paying attention to these people just your eyes wandering around people.

What is it to have Intentional eye contact?

  • When two people make an impression on each other, one of them will smile at you or stare at you.
  • To look at someone's intent is to be interested in that person.
  • However, being interested in that person is not always the case when having intentional eye contact with someone.
  • It could mean that the other person just looked at you and for no reason.

Did you know of The glance-and-a-half eye contact?

  • A stare that you would notice if you were keen to notice this type of stare.
  • In this eye contact the stare is for a longer period and is broken but will stare at you more than he should have.
  • This stare is when one has a lot on their mind and stares at someone to see if they can communicate with you on a different level.

Ever heard of Double Glance?

I know this from experience and it goes like this I had someone stare at me and maintain eye contact. At that time, I wasn’t married and didn’t complain about him staring at me, instead receive it warmly.

Later I realized the person who stared at me did not remember how many times he did that, but he had an interest in me. The man I married Double glanced at me and that is what got us together.

What is Intentional no-eye contact?

Ever stared at someone who has no interest in you staring at them?

The thing is, he wants to be left alone and does not want you to look at him. It is his way of letting you know he has no interest in you. In this

In the unintentional no-eye-contact situation he has not seen you because of his focus on someone else and you did not get his attention.

Gazing at someone

  • You gaze at someone and this could be a conscious or an unconscious gaze that lasts for a few seconds.
  • In some cases, especially when you do not have an interest in that person, it shows you are weird or creepy.
  • It holds eye contact showing a sign of attraction.
  • A way that is used to seduce partners.

What is Gaze aversion?

  • Two people whose eyes meet and drift away show an unknown staring.
  • This type of stare shows the other you do not want them or have rejected them.
  • An eye contact that allows for nervousness and is shy to talk to you.
  • Behaviour that shows a contact level of pretences to have an interest in that person.

In Gaze Aversion one gets to avoid communication on a specific topic.

You Gaze and Smile

Someone gazing at you and smiling at you means that person is attracted to you. A straightforward eye contact. I have seen this smile from one married person to another.

What is Dreamboat eye contact?

  • Dreamboat eye contact is from a man who is in love with you.
  • That eye contact that is gleaming, and intimate.
  • After you have spent your first night together would get this type of eye contact on your relationship anniversary or your birthday.
  • It has a time limit stare so be alert for this one.

One would keep on staring at you for this eye contact called Seductive eye contact.

The one who stares at you and smiles at you and is a forward smile. It means he wants you but in a sexual way.

Ever heard of the Crazies?

A crazy stare is a stare that will haunt you forever. When someone gives you this type of stare you would need a court order to get this person away from you.

It shows you this person is not a romantic that person shows weaknesses, and negativity, and is desperate to have you but for holding onto you as a possession.

A cry for help is more like it from this type of eye contact.

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