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How To Reach The Happiness

Updated on January 15, 2010

I think everyone want to life happy. We all life once in this beautiful world.  We will happy when we are success. Do everyone felt success in their life? Sometimes we don’t know what is the success means. It’s hard to be success. Do our life colorful or flat like the other day? Do we have good activity that make us happy?  when we're happy, we'll have a new spirit. The last question. Do we happy right now? Who could answer this question.  Absolutely right, our self could answer this question.

Some people spend a lot of money to be happy. Do we need a lot of money to get happiness. I’ll share to all of you about  “how to reach happiness” it 100% free, no cost and no money.  The freshness in life is the key to happiness. Here’s some tips for you.

With Relation

  • Play cards with family, makes the connection between family member getting warm. Other game is monopoly. This game can be played around four person, it’s enough for mom, dad and two kids.
  • Play “looking the treasure”, we can hide stuff and the family member should find this stuff. It can played in the back yard or inside the house. When Easter comes is the best time for playing hide eggs. We all be happy when all the family member together find something and I think it full of laugh and cheer.
  • Cooking for the family. As we know that mom has the important role in family. She always cooking delicious food for family. How if sometimes Dad change the role and he cook for the family. It can be done in holiday. Dad don't have to cook the complete recipes like mom did. But simple cooking like barbeque. Don’t worry with the taste, I think they like to eat that food. If you have time please watch the Rachel Ray show, there are many simple recipes there.

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Doing some goodness

  • Always smiling, smiling to every one is the simple goodness. God give us the beautiful lips and teeth for free, better show the gratitude of God by smiling. I think others will respect to us.  Really wonderful when among us always smile and show the happiness to others.
  • Serve the others, We can help others when they really need our help. We can show attention to others , give a little help to our co work.  The perfect happiness is help others.
  • Said “Thank you”, it become difficult when we don’t practiced it regularly. It look simple . but behind this word, wow ….there is a strong magnet to keep well our connection to other people.
  • Be friendly and always praise others, we can’t  life without others because our destiny as a human being. I believe we can get a lot of friend by doing this. 
  • Send a cards to others, we can send greeting card for birthday, Christmas, Valentine day. We can express our feeling inside the card. And all the word represent us. So, we don’t said it directly to others. Just find the best word and choose the beautiful words.

Enjoy your self

  • Rearrange the furniture so we can get a new  situation. The new atmosphere create a new spirit. We felt happiness than before.  Add the new elements for your room. it look more colorful.
  • Singing, by singing make us happy. Music is an alternative to release some stress after the hard work, chasing the deadline. We can give a little time for us to sing. It can be done at home by karaoke machine or singing with piano or guitar. We can involve other family members.
  • Laugh, laugh and laugh, we can laugh by watch the comedy movie.  Make some joke with friend. As we know the benefit of laugh for health. We will happy after laugh.
  • Enjoying the smell of cakes which made at home. This could raise the appetite in eating.
  •  Enjoying a glass of fresh lemon juice.  We can drink it while watching tv or relax on the garden.
  • Warm the body under the sunshine in the morning. It good for our health and it make us relax.
  • Listening the favorite music.  What is  your favorite music? Try to listen the favorite music is the best part of our life. It could reducing stress and make us relax.  Turn on the CD, MP3 player and close your eyes when listening the music.

  • Reading book or magazine. Find the light reading that doesn’t make you think while reading it.

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  • Looking the stars, we can see the beautiful of the stars in the sky at night. We can feel how great the creation of God. Various of stars can form beautiful shape. When you lucky you can see the shooting star. Don’t forget to make a wish.
  • Walking while enjoying the beautiful of nature. Something green makes us feel more fresh. We can walking in the park, looking around the green grass and the beautiful of flower.
  • Cycling while feeling the breeze. Cycling is is nice activity, beside it free from pollution. We can see beautiful scenery while riding the bike. We can feel the wind blow our face and all the body. Feel the energy of nature while cycling.
  • Gardening, this hobby not only for mom but dad can also involve in plant the flower. Planting an organic plant is getting trend right now. We can feel happy by taking care the plant and get the money by selling those plant.
  • Picking fruits or flower. The result of gardening activity is get the beautiful flower or the fresh fruit. After picking the flower we can arrange those flowers into beautiful bouquets. And we can taste the fresh of fruit by making a fresh juice.
  • Flying a kite. We can doing it in the yard with our kids. We can feel a kite flying over the sky. This is contain great philosophy. Represent freedom in life.
  • Picnic with friends or family in the park. We can spread a carpet, eating snack or fresh juice with them.
  • Feeding the birds and watching them play. We can see many birds in the park. We can involve children in feeding the birds.
  • See the sun rise or sunset. That is a wonderful moment. We can doing this with our couple. There is a philosophy behind this nature phenomenon. life is continues to revolve. When we sad could turn around to be happy. After darkness came light.

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    • prasetio30 profile image

      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Amber Allen for coming to this hub. Of course I do. I don't want money to reach happiness. Happiness come from our heart. And money can't buy my heart.

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      Amber Allen 8 years ago

      Hi praetio30

      An interesting and informative hub. You have shown that you don't need to spend lots of money to be happy. Well done!


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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Red_dragon for stopping by. You have wonderful life and keep it up, my friend. I think you are one of the happiest person in the world. Thanks for share your thought.

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      Red_Dragon 8 years ago

      I think everyone has a different level of happiness. For me happiness would probably be my love for Tech and my family. I try to tell jokes everyday to get people to laugh and i seem to do a good job at it. Great job, its good to see everyone else is unique.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Bhawna Sharma, Madam kahleranderson and Pamela for give your time to visit this hub.

      For Bhawna Sharma, searching by doing is the best performance in life. We can observe what we had done before. And from daily activities we know something make us happy. Don't for get with small idea, it brought happiness for us.

      For Madam kahleranderson, I think you had done right with your husband. And as a parents you have to pray for your child. I think you had success raising your child. And this is the big happiness as a parents. I think you still doing your hobby and doing nice activity to make you busy. I also pray for you. Life must go on Madam.....

      For Pamela, trust me anyone also feel the happiness when you share your smiling to others. Keep on smiling, Cheers....

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      Pamela N Red 8 years ago from Oklahoma

      Great tips, Praseo30. I have noticed that if I just smile while going throughout my day other people smile back and it makes me feel happier.

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      v_kahleranderson 8 years ago from San Jose, California

      Happiness, for me, is my family. My husband and I have always tried being there for them, making them first, sacrificing for them (tirelessly), even now that they are adults. Our third and last child is getting married soon, and I am sad that she is leaving (I greatly felt the leaving of each one!). But, at the same time, I am VERY glad that she has found her happiness, for this fills my heart.

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      Bhawna Sharma 8 years ago from Mumbai, India

      I never knew this aspect of your personality. You have pointed toward very minute things that we don't give much importance is general, e.g., watching stars, flying kite, rearranging furniture. You have great observation power and a strong feeling extracting pleasure from day-to-day work.

      It's a very lovely hub.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      I am glad you liked this hub. I hope you'll find the real happiness. I think your hobby in cycling is one of the happiness. Good luck, my friend!

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      Micky Dee 8 years ago

      I should take your advice more. Thanks

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Dame Scribe and Hello for visiting this hub.

      For Dame Scribe, I appreciate your effort to give and helping people. I support you 100%. Never hope reward after help others, God always know that.

      For Hello, You absolutely right. This idea appear while I am sitting in terrace and feel the fresh air and the green grass in front of me. This is also the happiness for me.

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      Hello, hello, 8 years ago from London, UK

      It is amazing when you sit and think about it how little and mostly simple thing it takes to make you feel happy. Thanks for a great hub.

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      Dame Scribe 8 years ago from Canada

      The lack of kindness towards others breaks my heart but makes my own efforts to give, all that much more stronger and bringing happiness to others is rewarding in itself. Great article! :)

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      thanks Darlene and Carolina Muscle for coming to this hub. Sometimes hard to get the happiness. But you can get it without think a lot. Just doing easy activity and we can do it without spending much money. You can explore many activity or we can find great idea which it could make you happy. I hope you'll find the right way.

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      carolina muscle 8 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina

      Thanks for some great ideas!

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      Darlene Sabella 8 years ago from Hello, my name is Toast and Jam, I live in the forest with my dog named Sam ...

      Thank you for sharing this, sometimes it is really hard to happy, I love your thoughts and you are a really nice person. I am pleased to be writing on the same site with you. You see the truth, behind the cosmic joke.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Christine for visiting this hub. I hope you can find the happiness in your life...amen.

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      christinecook 8 years ago

      great hub and wonderful insights to a happy life. congratulations

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Don for supporting this hub. I am glad you like this hub. And what's make me flattered and proud in write this hub, you had proof it by your self. That's the point. The best suggestion about "how to" is we had practiced it and it work for us. I give my big appreciation for you.

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      dusanotes 8 years ago from Windermere, FL

      Thanks, Prasetio, you accomplished a great Hub out of some very valuable hints you have given us. All of your ideas are A-1 super. I have tried virtually all of them and they work, to that I'll testify. Have a great day. Don White

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks breakfastpop, Veronica, and Pete. I think all of you have experience in life. And feel the happy and the sorrow in life. And I believe you know and understand the capacity of happiness trough the way of life. There are up and down and as human its usual. The key is how to maintain the heart and brought this life in happiness. I agree with you is the best!

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      Pete Maida 8 years ago

      Giving is the greatest joy.

    • Veronica Allen profile image

      Veronica Allen 8 years ago from Georgia

      Often times, it's the most simplest of things that brings us happiness and joy.

    • breakfastpop profile image

      breakfastpop 8 years ago

      Great advice for living a fulfilling and happy life.


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