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How To Maximize Your Money – Horror Stories and Hail Marys

Updated on November 14, 2012

The Great Depression, 1929

Depression era photo, from Business Week(c).
Depression era photo, from Business Week(c).

Healthy Money Management

This presentation will address two items:

1) Having no money and

2) Saving money in ineffective ways.

Before you can maximize your buying power and investment return, you must obtain an amount of money. Unfortunately, although some people work, they never see a penny of their wages. While some of us complain that we are unable to purchase the largest wall mounted flat screen TV at our local electronics store, these victims are unable to purchase food. In a recession, any of us might fall into the latter category.

Incredible? It is.

The following examples are from real life and illustrate scenarios that you might never have thought possible.

Working Teens

Many teenagers work for spending money, to pay for car insurance, or to save for college. However, some teens are forced to work by parents, who confiscate their full paychecks and use the money for their own purposes. Until the youth is age 18 in my state, this is a legal action for guardians to take. I can provide three recent examples of this. 

The first involves a 16-year-old female high school junior that was put to work over 20 hours per week by her upper middle class parents. Her paychecks made the family car payment and she was permitted to have none of the money. Her parents picked up her checks from the department store that employed her, but she was permitted to take her driver's license test with the auto and drive it to school on special occasions, such as her band concerts. She had planned to do a mission trip to Spain after high school and thought her parents were saving money from her checks to send her. Shocked that she had no money after high school except for that year's income tax refund, she attended an inexpensive and local 2-year Bible college, working her way through. Then she married a rich young man, wedded in Hawaii, and moved away from home. Similarly, her younger sister married just out of high school. Her younger brother became an alcoholic and wandered from bar job to bar job. None of these youth learned to manage money, because they were not given the opportunity to do so.  


The second example is another female high school junior, whose parents both worked and also received some $30 a day each for 5 foster children (approximately an additional $4500/month). The young woman was forced to care for the elementary school aged foster children in the mornings, after school and on weekends without payment or an allowance. She dropped out of school in her senior year, left home and moved in with a friend, and was hired full-time in a delicatessen, where she worked and saved all the money that she could. She earned a GED certificate and went away to college. Her one blood sibling, a brother, became a bully and an abuser before he was 10 years old.

Looking for work in the 1930s.
Looking for work in the 1930s.

Slave Labor

The third example is one that is present in a small percentage of yearly after-school programs and summer work schemes for at-risk youth. it is not the norm, but it exists and harms youth, families, and our nation's overall economy.

The youth affected are devastated by the result and are often unable to hold a job later. Stipends and wages are paid to these disadvantaged youth for attending high quality work-and-learn programs, work readiness training, real job skills training, and paid internships, able to receive high school credits, and cash bonuses for good attendance and grades, winning writing contests, etc. Some programs award a full laptop or desktop computer system and other excellent and useful prizes.

However, a few gaurdians show up at school on payday each month and take the stipend/wages checks for themselves. Since the wages in certain programs are also termed stipends, these are not taxable. Though the money is meant to purchase food, clothing, supplies, and other needs of the youth and family, the money is spent by these few gaurdians for pleasure. Some programs have circumvented this problem by placing some of these funds in a dividends- or interest-earning trust payable only to the youth at age 18.

One situation I witnessed was that of a woman in a high paying job, with the addition of $30 daily for fostering three teen boys in addition to raising her own teen daughter. Mom drove a new orange Corvette to the programming office monthly and collected the checks. The kids benefited from a free school breakfast and lunch program, but rarely had dinner. One of the boys was expelled and placed in the local detention center. The other three youth were not able to work, because they could not learn interview skills. The daughter was irregularly groomed and during interview instruction, either burst into hysterics or repeated only one phrase: “I want to be on “ telebizion.”

The Financial Literacy training provided to this family by a local bank had no opportunity to be applied in their lives at that time.

In the Adult World

Adults need to have benefited from financial literacy training through their parents, in high school, on the job, or in a community program. However, they can still obtain that education – free of charge. Hospitals, banks, community centers, and schools offer free classes in Financial Literacy in many towns and cities in America (see the next Hub in this series, link at the bottom of this page). In addition, an officer of one's local bank will gladly spend time with customers for this purpose in an ongoing relationship Thus, adults can seek training or visit their local bank for help.

However, not all adults have control of their own money. Some spouses or partners in controlling relationships know nothing about the family financial situation and have no access to money or credit cards. This is sometimes true of senior citizens at advanced ages as well, living with family members or even in nursing homes and retirement centers. Just a couple of examples include:

Out of Town Accounts

Be careful of placing your name on another person's – friend, partner, spouse - bank accounts, even if you do not intend to deposit or withdraw funds from them. Be especially reticent in doing so if that person threatens you about it and especially careful of out of town banking accounts. If the other person is able to overdraw the account, followed by leaving town, you will be asked for the money. Further, on the back of any check issued to you can be written “For Deposit Only to Account # ________” and your money can go into that account with your name on it without your knowledge. Be informed and careful about sharing banking and financial accounts with others.

Hiding Money at Home

During a recession, people often hide money around their houses and properties, having lost trust in the banking and investment systems. Individuals that had grandparents who survived The Great Depression may also hide money in any economic era. Some controlling partners/spouses simply hide everything from their families.

It is reasonable to keep some emergency cash at home, but well concealed and in not such a manner as to be forgotten when you need it. Hiding money should also not be used to control another person.

There are a number of scams and other controlling tactics that can be applied to individuals that know little about money and finances. Financial Literacy training in primary and secondary schools can be a first step toward thwarting these things later in life.

A tale like a nightmare version of "The Gift of the Magi"
A tale like a nightmare version of "The Gift of the Magi"
Tiny post-war tract house.
Tiny post-war tract house.

Post-War Paranoia

Buried money.
Buried money.

O Henry Would be Horrified

Here is a case history in a 20th century setting that is a good example of the combination of money, fear, and madness.

An elderly man believed that he had saved money for the greater good.

In order to survive even before the Great Depression, he worked in the family business before school and in a factory after school and weekends. He was able to save enough to attend college and was hired by a good company even during the Depression.

The gentleman's first marriage ended after many years, without children, in divorce. His ex-wife was awarded the house that he had built, along with another that they had owned.

Starting over, the aging fellow later purchased a 600-square-foot frame house (smaller than a one-bedroom apartment today) and hid his finances from his second wife, who had no understanding of mathematics and finance, and little of reading.

For over 35 years, since the divorce from his first wife, the gentleman purchased and sold properties, made profits, invested in lucrative retirement plans, made other good investments, and saved 50% of every paycheck that he earned. He spent little on clothing or food and cut out all entertainment early on. Saving became an obsession.

He did not invest in health insurance for himself, his second wife, or his children; and he never saw a doctor or dentist himself. The family was punished for becoming ill and doubly so for seeing a doctor. He kept four moderately priced automobiles plus two bicycles in order to assure himself of transportation, but would not allow his family use them.

This all resulted in unnecessary expenses in the long-term (health care, transportation, etc.) and to make up for it, he took fictional deductions on income tax returns (and was audited). After many years of what he thought was good saving, he died with over $800,000 in an era when minimum wage was only about $3.00. He had not made anly plans for his burial or for healthcare or income for his widow -- His children had disappeared long ago. The amount of his estate would have been more than enough for his widow, if invested wisely. It was not.

Over half of his money lay in hiding places in his house, unbeknownst to his wife. His wealthy sister came in and took it.

The gentleman's widow, hainvgmoney for the first time in her life, gambled and lost the rest of the estate within two years, was too young to collect widow's benefits, and ended in a legal guardianship and institutionalized in a state facility, because of uncontrollable severe mental disorders (SMDs).

Saving to the detriment of one's own health and the family's wellbeing is not effective money management. Obsessive hording, especially without a plan, is also unwise.

In the case of a sole breadwinner, such oversaving also damages the members of one's family psychologically as well as physically. Overcontrol of money is only one face of abuse that often occurs as an adjunct to verbal and physical abuse, often sexual abuse.

We see in the example above that after nearly 4 decades of inordinate saving, close to a million dollars was wasted in short order. Several people were left severely ill, some missing and likely destitute, an dall of this could have been avoided.

Reasonable Cutbacks and Money Maximization

Read about these tips and suggestions that you may not have considered at:

Chasing Away Money Horrors


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    • Patty Inglish, MS profile imageAUTHOR

      Patty Inglish MS 

      9 years ago from USA. Member of Asgardia, the first space nation, since October 2016

      LondonGirl - I think you are correct about the money training at a very early age. I didn't used to, but I ave changed by mind in the last 10 years. The earlier the better.

      ahpoetic - Thanks for reading and be prosperous in the future! 

    • Patty Inglish, MS profile imageAUTHOR

      Patty Inglish MS 

      9 years ago from USA. Member of Asgardia, the first space nation, since October 2016

      Scotty - Your parents really do need to enjoy some of their money and you are a good son to want them to do that instead of leave it all to you. This Hub may horrify them.

    • Patty Inglish, MS profile imageAUTHOR

      Patty Inglish MS 

      9 years ago from USA. Member of Asgardia, the first space nation, since October 2016

      Bohica! - Thanks so much for your comments, which we need to hear.

      While in college, an uncle advised me to stop studying a double major, skip grad school, and just get one occupation fit for a woman and make an appropriate level of money. Nutz to that then and now! I would never have made it.

      I learned later that one parent dropped out of the 6th grade, the other was hired before college grauation so left school, and my uncle was helping them try to convince me not to pass them up in education. How abusive.

    • Patty Inglish, MS profile imageAUTHOR

      Patty Inglish MS 

      9 years ago from USA. Member of Asgardia, the first space nation, since October 2016

      pgrundy! - Horrible isn't it? Thanks for sharing your information, because the publlic needs to be much more aware of such transactions. I am impressed that you kept reporting the fishy activity, even though no actions were taken agasint these people - I would have done the same reporting myself nd I hope others would as well. 20 checking accounts is certainly not the norm.  

      The inaction of authorities must be at least partially like child abuse reporting - some few law enforcment departments don't want to be bothered with the paperwork and investigation. This was true of one local suburb in which 3 officers were doing the abusing. However, there were actually removed from the force.  

      I agree with you that financial abuse is not well-known (about) amomng Americans and they need to be aware.

      Thanks so much for reading and commenting.

    • profile image


      9 years ago

      Holy cow. What came through for me was the issue of abuse. We don't really think of abuse as financial--usually we think it is physical or emotional, but financial abuse is rampant and as you point out, there are situations where the powerless are exploited by those closest to them and it takes a long time to break free.

      When I was at the bank I got calls from people who had 20 checking accounts, all with their names as second signer, and all with small amounts of money and no activity. I always wondered what this was about and it never felt right. I asked on several occasionas what that was all about (not outright--just, like, "You sure have a lot of accounts here...) and I asked my supervisors what it was about but never got an answer. The people who would call to check on the accounts never were pleasant and they always had questions that no one ever called the bank about--they called regularly to ask the same weird questions about each account.

      We took training once year that required us to report suspicious activity and advised us that if we had any contact at all with anyone involved in an illegal activity we could go to prison for 10 years and be fined up to $100,000. This was part of the Patriot Act. Never did any of my concerns get addressed and never to my knowledge did anyone ever file any report on anything. My supervisors were always annoyed and were totally focused on sales and their 'stats' which was what their raises were based on.

      Once a guy called wanting to move $1 million from Iraq to our bank--there were notes all over his account about it. He was mad, he wanted to know why it wasn't happening, I told him that Iraq was on a list of prohibited countries and he got into an abusive argument with me, and still, when I reported it to a supervisor, that supervisor did nothing.

      I think the system sets a bad example, and some people figure, if they do it at the top, I'm gonna do it at the bottom. They work the system. And as you point out here, often there are no negatives consequences. Great hub, thank you for bringing this issue forward.

    • LondonGirl profile image


      9 years ago from London

      great hub, and I agree with you that you have to learn early to manage money. I think that's why giving quite small children a small amount of pocket money is a good idea - they learn that once it's gone, that's it until next week.

    • scotty smith profile image

      scotty smith 

      9 years ago from Worldwide

      Great hub Patty, I have been trying to convince my parents to retire for years, as they have more than enough money to do so...but unfortunately they will probably die rich and working, and not enjoy their money...i might just show them your hub!!

      cheers, nice hub


    • ahpoetic profile image


      9 years ago

      Great ideas. I'm trying to maximize my money also. You're very busy.

    • bohica profile image


      9 years ago

      Being a child of the depression, my father instructed me that I would need

      three trades in order for my family to survive.

      I learned four; electronics technician, diesel mechanic, electrician, computer

      programming all courtesy of the US Navy. In the course of my working career, I have

      had to use all four. 

      Now in the sunset of our years, Our home has decreased in value by 25%. My wife and

      I have lost 45% of our investment (which was in real cash) due to Wall Street.

      We have had to heavily tap into our 401K to help our children over the rough patches

      that they have encountered. Since we have seven, we kinda feel like Gregory Hines.

      When our sons were teenagers I hired them out to auto repair shops and air condition

      and refrigeration shops to learn a trade. In the spring and fall, I hired them out

      to local farmers. They earned reputations for being hard workers and quick to learn.

      When payday came around they brought their earnings to their mother and she gave

      them an allowance. When they went to college, earnings paid their way for the first two years and we paid for last two. One went on to become attorney; and we paid all of that.

      My father also warned me about Wall Street; he said that it was based on greed against

      the working man. I wish that I had paid more attention to that lesson. 

    • Patty Inglish, MS profile imageAUTHOR

      Patty Inglish MS 

      9 years ago from USA. Member of Asgardia, the first space nation, since October 2016

      Hi Bruce! Yes, extremely sad and I hope they benefit readers by providing perspective. Thanks for reading!

    • Bruce Elkin profile image

      Bruce Elkin 

      9 years ago from Victoria, BC Canada

      Sad stories, excellent advice, great hub. Thanks, Patty!


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