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Please, Don't Do This Things

Updated on February 26, 2010

I like something about psychology, motivation and talking about social problem. Maybe this is my soul as a teacher. And like give suggestion or advice. Actually this life a complicated, There are so many problem in life. Such as relationship, financial, spiritual, and so on. Sometimes it connected with happiness. Try to ask your self, are you happy? I think we have so many different answer with a lot of reason. But actually the answer is between yes I am happy and No, I am not happy. And I get input from my spiritual teacher. if you felt not happy right now, maybe we were doing one of these things. He told to me about 10 things which taboo to be practiced. And if think it back, it makes sense. and perhaps there are still many things that influence and it depends on ourselves.

Bad spiritual life

If we don;t have spiritual life or the quality of our spiritual life was bad, we feel empty. Because the spiritual life is the basis in dealing with all kinds of problems. Maybe our lives smoothly and safely, all the things running well. But once we get a problem. We will confused and possible stress may come.

Many people are suffering because they were not able to overcome the temptation or the problems. With all the problem we felt our life was broken. Consequently the pleasures of life diminished. Quality of spiritual life is absolutely necessary and it can't negotiable, if we want enjoy this life and get the happiness. Many people felt empty, because they don't have a good spiritual life. They don't have a handle on life.

Never Grateful

One of the ugly nature of man is not grateful for what you've acquired during life. They never satisfied. Every time one desire is fulfilled, they will came back with other desires. these are  makes people greedy doing the bad way to get all desires. The pattern like this makes people never felt the happiness. We will be enslaved by the material and power forever. If we are always grateful for everything that we receive in this life (including the sad things ) we will always be the object of our own lives, not suffer objects. Trust me!

Never appreciate life

Most of people thought, why we life when we felt sad and sorrow? start from economic crisis, leaved boyfriend or girlfriend, loss the job, and so on. We have to aware when in our mind there is a sense of regret about why we have been born in this life. Never and never thought about this. Especially a desire to end life, like suicide. That means we do not understand that life is a gift. Just for information, the difficulties of this life will never end if we just regret it. Instead we must fight, so that all the difficulties will be over soon. We must have a principle that whatever in this life, even if good or bad is a "gift" that we should not waste it.

No purpose in life

When someone ask you, What is your goal? or what is the purpose in your life? when we can't answer that question, it means we don't the true purpose of life. Anything we had done before, never felt as a satisfaction. When we spend our life "for nothing", please do your life without purpose. But if we want to live and enjoyed as much as possible, make sure the clear the purpose of our lives. Find out what do we want. But never thought you search this life just for "money". We can remember that "money" not ever lasting, and could disappear at any time. So, make sure your life more spiritual, and we can hold this spirit all the time.

Narrow in society (there is no interaction with other people)

The more we interaction with other people, it can lead us into the wider world. The more we hang out, means more opportunities to connect with other people. With having many friends, we can more understand that every person is unique, when we judge others, we don't see it just in our view but also the view of others. That makes us grow is our ability to interact with others. this makes our minds open and expand our horizons

Lack of social awareness

People who do not have a social life is not sensitive. those person never appreciate life and     unhappy in life. Whereas, there are many people who have a greater burden.Life more meaningful if we are willing to help other people. If we have excess money, food, clothes or even if our mind we can share with others. We don't always help others with kind of material.

Why we often feel lonely, because we are not part of the community. Let's make our lives more useful by giving some to others. God will repay with the things that we do not expect...amen

Running away from problems

Life can't be separated from the problem. If we feel life is not happy, we must have a problem. And we don't know how to handle it. Once we run away from problems, our problems become more and more.

Problems will be over if confronted. If we brave to solve the problem, we are able to enjoy real life. Every problem must have a solution. If deep in our heart there is motivation to solve that problem. God gives us problem there's must be a purpose. We have to aware, more careful and grateful with anything we have.


Anything we have today should be able to accept.This is reality of life. It means we are aware, understand and know how our situation. If we only live with regret, disappointed with what we get, how we can be happy Accept doesn't mean we are passive, silent, waiting and not doing anything. But have to hard work and struggle in life. We have to brave change our life.

Less attention to small things

Most of people are too busy, so they don't have time to notice small things around them. Instead, through a small thing, we can learn to appreciate life better. Such as, we are watching how the flowers can bloom, the beautiful stars, the ugly caterpillar become a butterfly. The point is to observe the small things that usually missing from our observations and our vision. By seeing the detail of life, we will realize that life is full of color.

Negative thinking

Never thought that our life is full of trouble. Even the trouble comes our life is still beautiful. And the trouble has the solution. Try to think positively, this can make the mind and heart be light. Big problem seem small. and the complex life become smooth and enjoyable. Be careful because negative thoughts can cause disease, both mentally and physically.

I hope with this hub we all become a wise person, can determine the attitude, more respect for life, meet new friends, always think positive, always helping others, realisitis in life, always grateful, can organize our spiritual lives. My pray to all of you. Thanks


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    • prasetio30 profile image

      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Good morning, Uncle Micky. I am glad to hear this from you. I hope we can practice a little about this hub. My pray always for you.

      Your nephew, Prasetio

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      Micky Dee 7 years ago

      You are so wise. I have so much to learn from my wise young nephew.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Rose Kolowinski for visiting this hub and open your mind about this topic.

      I am glad to read your comment. Very thoughtful indeed, when when we always think positive and practice the positive attitude. I agree with you that sometimes we need to take a time to smell the roses, to appreciate the God creation. Thank you very much

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      Rose Kolowinski 8 years ago

      Good thought-provoking hub, Prasetio. Everyone needs to take time to smell the roses. Living life with a positive attitude will greatly increase your happiness. Thank you for your thoughts.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks hypnodude for your kindness to rated up this hub. I hope this hub useful for you.

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      Andrew 8 years ago from Italy

      Another great hit prasetio. Rated up and stumbled. Well done.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Cathi Sutton and Angela for supporting this hub.

      For Cathi, I hope so like that. It would brought happiness when everybody care with others, always help and support each other. I hope your wish will come true...amen.

      Your welcome Angela. You always in my heart. God bless you!

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      Angela Blair 8 years ago from Central Texas

      Right on target, Prasetio30 -- thank you. Best, Sis

    • Cathi Sutton profile image

      Cathi Sutton 8 years ago

      Very, very nice Hub! If more people would apply the wisdom of what you wrote, the world would have happier, more grateful, and kinder people! Thank you so much for writting this thought prevoking piece!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks shazwellyn for dropping by and give good comment. I think it show your real personality. Don't ever pretend, if you always think positively. keep it up my friend.

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      shazwellyn 8 years ago from Great Britain

      I always attempt to be positive about people. x

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Savorai for stopping by. I know life is complicated but how to made it simple. The way is try to solve all the problem as soon as possible. Of course when the problem is over we can't neglect others. I get good input from you. I really understand. Nice comment.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Madison and Janny for coming to this hub. I am glad read your comment and I appreciate for your support. Of course, gratitude is important for us. I hope we can pass this life with happy.

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      sarovai 8 years ago

      Be yourselves. Try to go deep in your mind to search the solutions of any type of life's problems. Definitely you will be going ahead. While life's problems getting solved or overcoming the problems, do not neglect others as well. This is the simple think I know about the life,as your telling complicated one.

      Very good, essential thinking shared by you.

      Thank u for sharing.

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      JannyC 8 years ago

      Very touching prasetio. I truly felt your feelings in this piece.

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      Madison 8 years ago from NYC

      Very good hub, gratitude so important for peace and purpose can give a sense of direction for many. I love this hub all tips are so important:-)

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Mr.Roychoudhury . We have to fight to the last for better result in the future. We should not repeat the bad things in the past. Let's bring the happiness. Don't forget that spirituality is number one.

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      H P Roychoudhury 8 years ago from Guwahati, India

      Excellent hub. You are right fight to the last.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Darlene and Nancy for give your time to visit this hub.

      I hope we all become wise person who have purpose in life. And don't underestimate all the problems but find the solution. And the best part from this hub is we have to appreciate everything.

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      nancy_30 8 years ago from Georgia

      Thank you for this really great advice. It has really made me think about life.

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      Darlene Sabella 8 years ago from Hello, my name is Toast and Jam, I live in the forest with my dog named Sam ...

      Really a great hub Prasetio, this is a great reminder to apprecate everything we have and to understand who we are. Thanks for sharing.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      I give many thanks to Roffi, DeBorra, Hello, Ten Blogger, HappyHer, Pamela, Grant's World, Veronica Allen , Freya Cesare who come to this hub and give special comment.

      For remind us again, I think you all have good spirituality side. Just keep it up, my friends. We need this in facing a lot of problem. I believe as a religious person we could avoid those things....amen.

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      Freya Cesare 8 years ago from Borneo Island, Indonesia

      Nice Hub, friend. Veronica was right, we need this as reminder . Thank you.

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      Veronica Allen 8 years ago from Georgia

      Good suggestions. We all need reminders such as these every once and a while.

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      Grant Handford 8 years ago from Canada

      Excellent hub thanks for writing it.


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      Pamela Oglesby 8 years ago from United States

      Great advise and hub. All your suggestions are perfect.

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      Tracy Morrow 8 years ago from Cleveland, OH

      Wonderful suggestions and so true. Living a spiritual life will help you with all the other points you brought up.

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      Ten Blogger 8 years ago

      We thought out.. and very spiritual. Thanks for keeping is grounded.

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      Hello, hello, 8 years ago from London, UK

      This is great hub with a lot of thoughts and also thought provoking. Thank you so much.

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      DeBorrah K Ogans 8 years ago

      Prasetio30, Very Good! Thank you for sharing, Blessings!

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      Roffi Grandiosa 8 years ago from Bandung, Indonesia

      great hub


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