Please, Don't Do This Things
I like something about psychology, motivation and talking about social problem. Maybe this is my soul as a teacher. And like give suggestion or advice. Actually this life a complicated, There are so many problem in life. Such as relationship, financial, spiritual, and so on. Sometimes it connected with happiness. Try to ask your self, are you happy? I think we have so many different answer with a lot of reason. But actually the answer is between yes I am happy and No, I am not happy. And I get input from my spiritual teacher. if you felt not happy right now, maybe we were doing one of these things. He told to me about 10 things which taboo to be practiced. And if think it back, it makes sense. and perhaps there are still many things that influence and it depends on ourselves.
Bad spiritual life
If we don;t have spiritual life or the quality of our spiritual life was bad, we feel empty. Because the spiritual life is the basis in dealing with all kinds of problems. Maybe our lives smoothly and safely, all the things running well. But once we get a problem. We will confused and possible stress may come.
Many people are suffering because they were not able to overcome the temptation or the problems. With all the problem we felt our life was broken. Consequently the pleasures of life diminished. Quality of spiritual life is absolutely necessary and it can't negotiable, if we want enjoy this life and get the happiness. Many people felt empty, because they don't have a good spiritual life. They don't have a handle on life.
One of the ugly nature of man is not grateful for what you've acquired during life. They never satisfied. Every time one desire is fulfilled, they will came back with other desires. these are makes people greedy doing the bad way to get all desires. The pattern like this makes people never felt the happiness. We will be enslaved by the material and power forever. If we are always grateful for everything that we receive in this life (including the sad things ) we will always be the object of our own lives, not suffer objects. Trust me!
Never appreciate life
Most of people thought, why we life when we felt sad and sorrow? start from economic crisis, leaved boyfriend or girlfriend, loss the job, and so on. We have to aware when in our mind there is a sense of regret about why we have been born in this life. Never and never thought about this. Especially a desire to end life, like suicide. That means we do not understand that life is a gift. Just for information, the difficulties of this life will never end if we just regret it. Instead we must fight, so that all the difficulties will be over soon. We must have a principle that whatever in this life, even if good or bad is a "gift" that we should not waste it.
No purpose in life
When someone ask you, What is your goal? or what is the purpose in your life? when we can't answer that question, it means we don't the true purpose of life. Anything we had done before, never felt as a satisfaction. When we spend our life "for nothing", please do your life without purpose. But if we want to live and enjoyed as much as possible, make sure the clear the purpose of our lives. Find out what do we want. But never thought you search this life just for "money". We can remember that "money" not ever lasting, and could disappear at any time. So, make sure your life more spiritual, and we can hold this spirit all the time.
Narrow in society (there is no interaction with other people)
The more we interaction with other people, it can lead us into the wider world. The more we hang out, means more opportunities to connect with other people. With having many friends, we can more understand that every person is unique, when we judge others, we don't see it just in our view but also the view of others. That makes us grow is our ability to interact with others. this makes our minds open and expand our horizons
Lack of social awareness
People who do not have a social life is not sensitive. those person never appreciate life and unhappy in life. Whereas, there are many people who have a greater burden.Life more meaningful if we are willing to help other people. If we have excess money, food, clothes or even if our mind we can share with others. We don't always help others with kind of material.
Why we often feel lonely, because we are not part of the community. Let's make our lives more useful by giving some to others. God will repay with the things that we do not expect...amen
Running away from problems
Life can't be separated from the problem. If we feel life is not happy, we must have a problem. And we don't know how to handle it. Once we run away from problems, our problems become more and more.
Problems will be over if confronted. If we brave to solve the problem, we are able to enjoy real life. Every problem must have a solution. If deep in our heart there is motivation to solve that problem. God gives us problem there's must be a purpose. We have to aware, more careful and grateful with anything we have.
Anything we have today should be able to accept.This is reality of life. It means we are aware, understand and know how our situation. If we only live with regret, disappointed with what we get, how we can be happy Accept doesn't mean we are passive, silent, waiting and not doing anything. But have to hard work and struggle in life. We have to brave change our life.
Less attention to small things
Most of people are too busy, so they don't have time to notice small things around them. Instead, through a small thing, we can learn to appreciate life better. Such as, we are watching how the flowers can bloom, the beautiful stars, the ugly caterpillar become a butterfly. The point is to observe the small things that usually missing from our observations and our vision. By seeing the detail of life, we will realize that life is full of color.
Never thought that our life is full of trouble. Even the trouble comes our life is still beautiful. And the trouble has the solution. Try to think positively, this can make the mind and heart be light. Big problem seem small. and the complex life become smooth and enjoyable. Be careful because negative thoughts can cause disease, both mentally and physically.
hope with this hub we all become a wise person, can determine
the attitude, more respect for life, meet new friends, always think
positive, always helping others, realisitis in life, always grateful,
can organize our spiritual lives. My pray to all of you. Thanks