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Free yourself from Self Sabotage, Inner Fears and other hurdles to personal growth.
build a new you
My love for self improvement and personal growth has been with me almost as far back as I can remember. Standing naked (not nude) in front of yourself, looking at all characteristics you have both good and obstructive characteristics. Standing naked means looking DEEP within, at all you are, without judgement. Standing naked before yourself you see yourself completely... You see ALL you are. Whole and complete.
I have been working with Branka Babic and Rubic Cube Mode as a new science for growth unfolds. The success I have had using some techniques for self growth that she shared has been far superior to any I used to date. The main thing about this method is, it is all about truly loving yourself as you are, Plus working with your characteristics as if they are real and have a life of their own. In fact, because the way they influence our actions so much, they really do “live” in us.
Using Branka's system, you make friends and allies out of your faults and either make agreements with them, or send them off to retirement, both done “with love”. Learning to LOVE all you are, is the fastest way to growth. I'll share now two personal examples for better illustration as to how I spoke to these characters in me and then, with immense love and appreciation for them, either sent it them away to retirement, or made agreements with them.
Standing naked - I found this power.... it has been an amazing friend. This power has been instrumental in my personal development, pushing me to become stronger and all the while this power was getting stronger itself. This power has been with me for as long as I can remember.
This power has caused me to learn so SO SO much..... it led me to read tons on personal growth..... it has led me to meet and shake hands with three influential and famous motivational speakers.... and to study their material. The more I learned - the more powerful this power became...
Really - this POWER I HAVE ...............IS HUGE HUGE HUGE HUGE!
(The three speakers I met are Tony Robbins, Denis Waitley and Brian Tracy..... and Tracy I met and shook hands two times and even had a 15 minute conversation with him one on one)
I am writing you about it, as I want to share with someone just how much appreciation I have for this HUGE power. Without it I know, I would not have spent as much time developing me. It helped me learn so much about personal growth, sales and closing sales, PLUS to expand my knowledge into marketing as well.
This power brought me so much knowledge, that I became a good personal coach to others and have helped others a lot.... all of this because of of this amazing power, which has been my loyal friend. It pushed me to forever be working to become stronger, and smarter.... it is a HUGE POWER.... AMAZING HUGE!
The crazy thing is, this power I am talking about, even got stronger and more powerful the more I learned.... how could I not appreciate for all it has done for me?
This HUGE power I have is "the power to sabotage my every success" ... I simply have to love it... it has made me so much more, than I would have been without it.
Now I am going to tenderly, lovingly and with a HUGE amount of respect and appreciation..... I'm sending it off to retirement .... it deserves the rest... it was my loyal and faithful friend. Sending it off to retirement to Rubik Cube to be defragmented with appreciation and love. It has earned retirement.
Notice the emphasis on appreciation, love and respect. How can you love yourself, if you do not first love ALL OF YOUR PARTS?
The next friend I found standing naked before myself was the fear and or the distaste for harvest. This friend in me, I at first thought, was the power to self sabotage, but as I looked at it deeper it was a totally different character. When I looked at my life, I found I have amazing pioneer spirit! I love the adrenalin rush for change and beginning something new, but when it gets close to harvest, I would loose interest and become totally bored.
Looking deep at myself naked, I saw that this friend was also with me a long time. At every harvest time on any project I would lose interest and it 9the project) would die and thus I would not harvest. While talking to this friend in me, it reminded me that my dad had died when I was 11, just before harvest time. (we lived on a farm) Naturally, this friend in me wanted me to avoid that sense of loss. Also, the work at harvest time on the farm, I found boring, demanding and dirty. Therefore this friend in me had helped me avoid harvests of all kinds.
This friend I developed the same love, appreciation and respect for as the self saboteur above. This friend helped me develop an amazing ability to see the potential in projects or ventures. The roll of pioneer became strong and my visionary skills grew.
I chatted with this friend for some time. Learning more ways to love and appreciate it. When I finally saw the huge value it has been in my life, I sat down with it and lovingly made an agreement with it. I appreciate my pioneer spirit and did not want to retire it so I struck up an agreement. I helped it realize that the more bountiful the harvest, the extra rewards from harvests would enable us (me) more opportunities and exciting projects to work on. Without harvests, there would naturally be less money and freedom to add new projects. So this agreement was set up where I would be in control, but would always value, love and respect that part of me.
"WHEN YOU HAVE AN OBSTACLE, GENTLY TALK TO THAT PART OF YOU WHICH DOES NOT PERMIT THE FULFILLMENT OF YOUR DESIRE. FIND OUT WHY, AND THEN DIS-EMPOWER IT. NEXT, EMPOWER THAT PART OF YOU WHICH IS SKILLED OR ABLE TO SUCCEED." ..... Branka Babic
IT IS SIMPLE AND EASY.
"On the journey to awaken the true God Self 'we all are', tidbits of experiences become HUGE keys. Seek to see yourself naked (without judgement) and learn to love those pesky characteristics you wish to change and lovingly send them to retirement to be defragmented in the universe.
Do that (send to retire with love) to all you are in process to change - "Do it with love for self and gratitude" ... for what each trait you retire has been a tool to help you grow in some way." ....... Neil Sperling
BE "THE ONE" WHO RULES OVER YOURSELF..... WITH LOVE.
You see, this way of dealing with personal growth is all SELF LOVE AND SELF RESPECT. Notice again, the emphasis on appreciation, love and respect. How can you love yourself if you do not first love ALL OF YOUR PARTS?