ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

How to Use Gratitude Journaling in Your Homeschool (Helps Improve Attitudes)

Updated on March 12, 2018
Joy At Home profile image

Joy was homeschooled K-12 in the days before it was popular, and has homeschooled her 2 children since their infancy. She has no regrets.

Combining Creativity and Wisdom Through Gratitude Journaling

What Gratitude or Thanks Journaling Can Do for Your Children

Kids, as well as adults, can benefit from Thanks Journaling. It is a valuable family activity, promoting togetherness and understanding, as well as mental, emotional, and spiritual growth and balance. For what it is, and how to get started, see What is Gratitude Journaling, and Why Would You Do It?

It is easy to teach children this kind of journaling, and many of them delight in the challenge of coming up with something brand new every day for which to thank God. They have a tendency to forget what they've already said or written, repeating a handful of their favorite types of things, but will usually correct each other's errors, if you journal together.

They may also be inspired to notice things other people do for them, and may choose to do things for others that they wouldn't have, before they experienced the power of gratitude.

Let Your Kids Help Pick Their Journals

Should You Keep One Family-Style Journal, or Should Each Child Keep His Own?

The answer to this question will depend on the dynamics of your family, and on what you hope to accomplish with each child. Age and writing ability is, of course, an influencing factor, dictating how much help each child may need. (For the littlest ones, it is often best to write their entry for them, letting them tell you what they are thankful for, and why.) Know that the time you spend with them is well invested, and urge each child to do all he can to be active in thanksgiving and learning to relate to God's goodness.

Keeping a Thanks Journal with your kids is a profitable and sometimes funny activity, taking only a couple minutes a day, but sowing huge dividends into each of their lives. You can begin with a regular notebook, and give each of your children (and yourself!) a chance to say or write at least one thing for which they are thankful. Train them to be specific, and attentive to new things - not just old favorites. Train them, also, to recognize how certain things that don't seem good can lead to great things - better than any you could have made up on your own. Challenge them with II Thessalonians 5:18: "In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." Demonstrate this for them by giving thanks for things that seem hard or even bad - then noticing what God does with your attitude and maybe even your circumstances. If nothing else, you will gain strength and fortitude and a can-do attitude, as you see what can be done in the midst of adversity and even suffering. Your children will begin to understand that attitude really does trump circumstances, and is always more important than what they are going through.

If you choose to encourage each child to keep his own Thanks Journal, you can more readily encourage his writing habits, as well. Take the opportunity to work on grammar, punctuation, spelling, and other facets of good writing - but don't be so restrictive and demanding that journaling becomes a chore for either of you. That is the last thing you want Thanks Journaling to be!

Getting More Out of the Journaling Process

So have fun with it. Especially for boys - who are naturally more competitive than most girls - see who can come up with the most specific, or the biggest, or the smallest, or the most personal thanksgiving. See who can get the most entries in their journal inside of a week, or a month. See who can come up with the most in a certain category - for instance, food, or friends, music, baseball, or details of nature. Let them use journals decorated with camouflage, or sports, or whatever their favorite activity is.

For girls - who tend to be more "pretty" oriented - provide a variety of colored pens or markers with which to make their entries. Let them use stickers, sequins, or ribbons to decorate their journals, and also express their different moods through doodling. Help them make something of which they'll be proud, and which shows off their personality.

For the artists in your midst, allow them time to decorate their own journals, or the family's Thanks Journal, with illustrations, photographs, or even small objects related to their entries. If you do unit studies, you might have them research calligraphy, or illuminated manuscripts, and decorate accordingly. You might use art styles reflecting whatever history time period you (or they) are studying.

You might include some math (for the less experienced) by having them calculate how many entries they've made over the last month. Have them calculate their average over a month, three months, or a year. Have them see how many entries they make in assorted categories of thought, such as animals, friends, clothes, or sports. Use these figures to help drive home to them exactly how good God is, and how great is His love.

Use these statistics as a jumping off place for a social studies or ministry project involving the less fortunate. Challenge them to do something for someone else which is truly generous (from the heart), and to look out for others. Best of all, do something together, demonstrating for them how to look out for others, joyfully.

Challenge yourselves as a family to memorize Scriptures which speak of giving thanks. (Use a concordance to get started, looking up the words "praise", "thanks", and "thanksgiving".) Thank the Lord for these, and let them do their work in your hearts. See what God says in His Word about unthankful people (there is quite a lot of discussion in the psalms, and in several of the Apostle Paul's letters). Study the lives of people who were thankful in the midst of danger, suffering, and seemingly hopeless circumstances. I suggest some of the famous people of God, such as Amy Carmichael, "Brother Andrew", Richard Wurmbrand, Corrie Ten Boom, Eric Liddel, and, of course, King David and the Apostle Paul. David never left God hanging in even his saddest or angriest songs, always coming around to an ending of praise. I believe this is why he is called a man after God's own heart. Likewise, Paul maintained a heart of joy even while writing from a prison cell running with raw sewage.

Most of all, allow the process of learning to give thanks work joy in your hearts, and reflect God from the midst of your beings. He truly does inhabit the praises of His people (Psalm 22:3 ).

Growing and Developing Through Journaling

Your Journaling

Do you keep any kind of a journal?

See results

© 2012 Joilene Rasmussen

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • Joy At Home profile imageAUTHOR

      Joilene Rasmussen 

      2 years ago from United States

      Enock, thanks for the tip!

    • Joy At Home profile imageAUTHOR

      Joilene Rasmussen 

      2 years ago from United States

      Thank you, Happymommy! This is not one of my more popular articles, so it is nice to have some feedback! I know gratitude journaling made a big difference for my family.

    • Happymommy2520 profile image

      Amy 

      2 years ago from East Coast

      Great Hub. My life has changed in a huge positive way ever since I have been keeping a gratitude journal. I never thought of having my children practice this as well. Thank you for tips. I am going to give it a try. Beautiful Hub!

    • profile image

      Enock 

      3 years ago

      I have used this little book How to jnraoul your Life in my classroom for several years and used it with my own kids to help with creative expression. It has also helped me reach expressive heights and given great examples for me to share with my children and students. It's quick and easy to follow Neat little book ..!! Thanks for sharing!!

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)