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The Importance of the Little Things: Bigger Isn't Always Better

Updated on October 13, 2012

Is Bigger Better?

In today’s world of bigger is better I want to offer you a perspective upon which to build a pattern of thinking, and thus a pattern for living. Though my target for this article is primarily young men of high school and college age, it does of course, apply to all interested in evaluating another viewpoint than one they may already possess. This evaluation process requires an open mind but, I believe it is worth the effort. My purpose here is simply to encourage you to think about the subject matter and decide for yourself whether or not it has as much value for you as it has had for me.

Many men are sold on a given ruler of success, the means of measurement of their worth or value. We, as an American society, have often stressed education leading to possessions, financial gain, personal and political prowess, social status, physique and the like as outward symbols of inner strength and intrinsic worth. While there is a discipline required to reach this level of living, and there certainly is value in responsible growth, I would encourage those who teach and mentor our young men to go beyond this viewpoint to include some of the following in that training and conditioning as it will impact them and us for the rest of time.

A Little Difference in People

Businessman, philanthropist and self-help book author W. Clement Stone said, “There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.”

It is no secret the impact positive thinking has had on the topic of success. W. Clement Stone and so many others not only believed it, they proved it by living it. They demonstrated that how you think and feel about what you do and how you do it is tantamount to success, however you might define it, but especially if you define it as Earl Nightingale did as “progressively realizing a worthy ideal.” The little things were proven to be a big deal and your attitude toward yourself and others is only one facet of your character but it can make or break you! Of course, it is always your choice as to how to perceive, think, do and live! Just remember, sometimes paying a small price in terms of habit formation and conditioning up front pays off hugely in the end.

A Little Difference in Knowing

One of the elements of growth that I stress to my clients is knowing who they are and what they want to do with their lives. There are a myriad different ways we can discover this knowing. One such way is as result of the loss of someone important to us. This was the case for Marian Wright Edelman, civil rights activist, attorney and founder of the Children Defense Fund. According to her biography in Wikipedia, in 1953, her father died when she was 14, urging in his last words, "Don't let anything get in the way of your education." She apparently listened! She attended Marlboro Training High School there, and went on to Spelman College and traveled the world on a Merrill Scholarship and studied in the Soviet Union as a Lisle fellow. She became involved in the Civil Rights Movement, and after being arrested for her activism, she decided to study law and enrolled at Yale Law School J.D. 1963.

This is not, however, so much about what she did as it is about what she said. She is quoted as saying, We must not, in trying to think about how we can make a big difference, ignore the small daily differences we can make which, over time, add up to big differences that we often cannot foresee.” I encourage you to research, even if only superficially, Mrs. Edelman’s biography and you will see how, she too, lived a life believing that great causes can be achieved with a faith that understands the significance of doing the little things well that have to be done to achieve the big results, even if those results cannot be foreseen.

A Little Difference in Doing

If business or social causes aren’t what drives you to pursue excellence and if nothing else in your life is presently meaningful enough to cause you to embrace the idea that little things can amount to awfully big things, how about just being kind. Simple acts of kindness are sometimes disregarded, overlooked or taken for granted. They are, however, actions where discovery occurs and the value of steadily plodding along in life, paying attention to even the most insignificant details is a way of making something big out of something small. And maybe, just maybe, something very big in the life of another will surface as evidenced by this short quip by William Wordsworth. He said:

“The best portion of a good man's life,
His little, nameless, unremembered acts,
of kindness and of love.”

Pumpkin Seed to Pumpkin
Pumpkin Seed to Pumpkin | Source

Equals a Big Difference in Being

In every human being lies the seed of greatness. How that seed grows and expresses itself is a matter for each of us to realize. The significance may be apparent to no one else but us. In the end, though, I believe we should acknowledge that it is entirely possible that the one small seemingly insignificant idea, trait, quality, thought or action, can, at some future time grow into a pearl of great price. How we live each year, each month, each day or each moment is worthy of our conscious recognition.

I hope this tiny piece of information will blossom into inspiration that propels you on a journey so fulfilling that you could only say big things do come in small packages! And lastly, I hope that you will also remember the words of Robert Louis Stevenson who said, “Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant,” because I believe the seeds you sow, into yourself and into the people you know or influence, no matter how small, will grow into a harvest that all mankind can feast on for generations to come.

In gratitude, peace be with you!

Changing Course

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    • Born2care2001 profile imageAUTHOR

      Rev Bruce S Noll HMN 

      6 years ago from Asheville NC

      Hi ElleBee!

      I really like the moniker! By itself, it's uplifting! Thanks for reading and for commenting on this hub! I know, by reading your profile, that we have a demographic in and career! I created a coaching practice called "Building a Life That Matters" that encourages young men to evaluate the life views offered to them by others and to learn how to learn and think for themselves!

      I think we have much to least I would be open to that at some point.

      In any event I'm grateful for your time here and I look forward to reading some of your hubs, especially the spiritual and college and career hubs!

      Dive right in here the water is fine! This is a fabulous group of people to write with, as you probably have already discovered!



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      6 years ago

      Great hub, it is so true that little things can make a big difference. We can make little changes in how we do things, that result in big changes in how we live our lives and the way others percieve us.

    • Natashalh profile image


      6 years ago from Hawaii

      I chuckled when I voted "all of the above" and saw the other respondents all chose that answer! Voted up and useful.

    • Born2care2001 profile imageAUTHOR

      Rev Bruce S Noll HMN 

      6 years ago from Asheville NC

      Hi Aley & thank you for the read and the comment. Somehow I suspect your flanerie is a ruse leading to intellectual stimulation, like meditating on your feet while your brain feeds the world.

      I like it!



    • Aley Martin profile image

      Alice Lee Martin 

      6 years ago from Sumner, Washington,USA

      I too, homeschooled my son and he is an amazing young man! I am continually telling my own students to "think for themselves" and their opinion is not EVER "Wrong, it is their opinion. "Minds are like parachutes, they only function when open" is my favorite saying! Thanks for this grand Hub!

    • Born2care2001 profile imageAUTHOR

      Rev Bruce S Noll HMN 

      7 years ago from Asheville NC

      Dear Umakeit,

      I feel privileged that for whatever reason you chose to read this hub. It has been my experience that those with the greatest wisdom are those who still seek to learn, at any age. The enthusiasm for living precedes the zest for knowledge. And in my humble opinion the zest for knowledge is the character of both the greatest students and the greatest teachers. Thank you for your kind words and comments. I too, seek to learn from the writings of others who, like me, feel connected and desire to offer whatever gifts they may possess without expectation of return. Welcome to Hubpages! Happy you are here!


    • Born2care2001 profile imageAUTHOR

      Rev Bruce S Noll HMN 

      7 years ago from Asheville NC

      Dear leshey,

      Monty is such a lucky pup! and beautiful as well. Beautiful just because he is...and lucky because his owner, his friend, has two qualities that will serve you both for a very, very long time...understanding and love! What a great combination you both are! Thanks for reading and commenting on this hub. I am truly grateful! I know your business will thrive, because you do!

    • umakeit profile image


      7 years ago

      Glad to read this even I am not young anymore. A small, little and insignificant thing in fact can make a big difference in our life. Sometimes, a simple statement made by our teachers, mentors without any specific intention might leave a big mark in our value toward life. Thanks for sharing.

    • leshey profile image


      7 years ago from England

      Great hub and I love the W. Clement Stone quote about attitude. It hits the nail on the head. Attitude makes a huge difference.


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