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What was the most important lesson you learned in your life?

Updated on March 24, 2012
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Beata works as a qualified primary school teacher, a councillor for drug and alcohol addiction and a farm caretaker for organic olive grow.

Not all silence is golden

There are silences we live with and wish we didn't
There are silences we live with and wish we didn't
You don't realize it until you get to situation and sense you have just stepped into the cressfire of duelling silences...
You don't realize it until you get to situation and sense you have just stepped into the cressfire of duelling silences...
You are struck by just how horrible the things people don't say to each other can be...
You are struck by just how horrible the things people don't say to each other can be...
until they say it....until it is too late and saying it doesn't change anything anymore....
until they say it....until it is too late and saying it doesn't change anything anymore....
The following part is of an advertisement for the Swan River Settlement, London, December 1828:"Settlers will have no purchase money to pay for their lands, not will they be chargeable for any rent whatsoever...
The following part is of an advertisement for the Swan River Settlement, London, December 1828:"Settlers will have no purchase money to pay for their lands, not will they be chargeable for any rent whatsoever...
"...their grants will be conveyed to them in fee simple and will descend to their assignees or heirs for ever."
"...their grants will be conveyed to them in fee simple and will descend to their assignees or heirs for ever."
The English simply ignored the Aboriginal Noongars were here and it was their land they were taking up and giving away to Englishmen for free.
The English simply ignored the Aboriginal Noongars were here and it was their land they were taking up and giving away to Englishmen for free.
The capital city of Western Australia, Perth, where I live was founded next to the main camp of the Mooro Noongars as if they didn't even exist.
The capital city of Western Australia, Perth, where I live was founded next to the main camp of the Mooro Noongars as if they didn't even exist.
It is now 2012 and what we are seeing is this unfortunate and unresolved legacy still being played out, mostly in silence, until six weeks ago...
It is now 2012 and what we are seeing is this unfortunate and unresolved legacy still being played out, mostly in silence, until six weeks ago...
The descendants of the Mooro Noongars set up the Aboriginal tent embassy on the place of the previous main camp in Perth. It had been a peaceful protest until yesterday about 70 police descended on camping men, women and children.
The descendants of the Mooro Noongars set up the Aboriginal tent embassy on the place of the previous main camp in Perth. It had been a peaceful protest until yesterday about 70 police descended on camping men, women and children.
"We tried to avoid confrontation so we went to the other side of the park but they came after us and made the trouble. The police always intended to arrest someone and they did," said one of the Aboriginal activists.
"We tried to avoid confrontation so we went to the other side of the park but they came after us and made the trouble. The police always intended to arrest someone and they did," said one of the Aboriginal activists.
The arrest of their four leaders sparked furious outburst from protesters and one of the police horses bumped 28-year old pregnant woman, who had a baby in her arms.
The arrest of their four leaders sparked furious outburst from protesters and one of the police horses bumped 28-year old pregnant woman, who had a baby in her arms.
She received a cut above her left eye and almost dropped the 13-week-old girl as she stumbled. Police ended 6-week Aboriginal stand off but protesters vow to return to voice their grievances again and again...
She received a cut above her left eye and almost dropped the 13-week-old girl as she stumbled. Police ended 6-week Aboriginal stand off but protesters vow to return to voice their grievances again and again...
After the sad event, one of our well respected politician made his appearance and talked of Australia dividing against itself. He blamed a few super rich for this growing discontentment.
After the sad event, one of our well respected politician made his appearance and talked of Australia dividing against itself. He blamed a few super rich for this growing discontentment.
A miner from Kalgoorlie who came to spend money to Perth shouted from a small group of white Australians: "You are wrong, the super rich are just circus, the sickening political correctness and multiculturalism is to blame..."
A miner from Kalgoorlie who came to spend money to Perth shouted from a small group of white Australians: "You are wrong, the super rich are just circus, the sickening political correctness and multiculturalism is to blame..."
"We have been dividing against ourselves for more than 40 years," called another one: "a good-fellow feeling among us original white Australians is being destroyed by the inflow of non-Anglo-Celtic migrants and illegal entrants to our cities..."
"We have been dividing against ourselves for more than 40 years," called another one: "a good-fellow feeling among us original white Australians is being destroyed by the inflow of non-Anglo-Celtic migrants and illegal entrants to our cities..."
"...Thus weakening that good-fellow feeling." Finished the sentence another of his mates and then they just turned around and followed the road to the closest pub.
"...Thus weakening that good-fellow feeling." Finished the sentence another of his mates and then they just turned around and followed the road to the closest pub.
I can only assume that they continued in their monolouges over few and few more beers, no one  would challenge them although 40 per cent of Australians come from other than English background and 10 per cent are of Aboriginal descend.
I can only assume that they continued in their monolouges over few and few more beers, no one would challenge them although 40 per cent of Australians come from other than English background and 10 per cent are of Aboriginal descend.
Another day will come and go in silence...we are all happy here in our big multicultural Australia, aren't we?
Another day will come and go in silence...we are all happy here in our big multicultural Australia, aren't we?

Living in silence's absence




Half the fun

of the travel

is the feeling

of lostness,

and while

you look

for your way

around,

you learn

a new

life lesson,

every time.



What I do now

is tell my story

and talk about

silence,

an unwanted gift,

a precious gift

we are bound

to take

home

from our

Bali

holiday.



Mist swirls between lofty peaks

as we walk

through the narrow streets,

dark houses

welcome us

in every twists and turns.

Foliage,

dripping with recent rain,

clings tenaciously to craggy roofs.

Ephemeral waterfalls

tumble

gently

down

manmade

rocky

crevices.

The faint sound

of water

fades

away

as we pass

through

the majestic door

and enter

our hotel room.

We open

the window

and silence

envelope us all.




The whole island

of 4 million people

is silent,

inside their huts

with the light off

and their mouths closed.

The airport shuts

the harbours are empty

everything is quiet

lost in meditation,

fasting

and reflection.


We are confused

stumbling into silence

shocked

all of sudden

what that strange feeling is...




A Balinese woman

in a small window

opposite,

waves at us

gently

with an open invitation

to join

her quest

for a sense

of inner peace.




But my friends

demand

their money back

they feel cheated,

never loosing

their noise

before,

the background grind of traffic,

the loud music in a bar

and endless phone ringing

while news bulletins

from TV

chasing them loudly

down

their hotel corridors

to their noisy cars.




" Remember,

back home,

last year,

in Kimberley,

when we got lost

in a huge northern stretch of WA?"

I try to reason with my friends,

"It is one of the most remote

places on Earth,

that desert silence..."




"I had music in my earphones

and an Ipod in my car,"

says one of my friends,

" Remember those fertile waters,

catching cod, mangrove jack

and barramundi,

drinking and singing

and making all that noise

to scare off large crocodiles."




"Back in Australia,"

other friend shouts at me:

"You supposed to be silent

for two minutes

on Anzac Day

and for a full one minute

on Remembrance Day,

not that really people are,

but could you

actually

be quiet

for a full day?"




We live in a noisy time,

so noisy

in fact

that soon,

by its very rarity,

silence

must

surely

become

extremely

valuable...

It will be time

for our Balinese

neighbours

to charge us

double

for this precious

commodity

and teach us

on the way

lesson

on tranquillity.


Meanwhile,

my Aussie mates,

will practise their will

and their right,

to show the world,

how the loudest shouters

claim

to be part of a silent majority...


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