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Do Kids Have Too Much Homework? How Can Parents Help?

Updated on September 11, 2014
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Is Your Family Suffering from Homework Overload?

The amount of homework kids are assigned has been increasing dramatically over the last couple of decades.

Do kids have too much homework?

Is homework beneficial? Is it harmful?

How can we, as parents, support our children in the arena of homework?

The Most Helpful Book I've Read About Homework

The Case Against Homework: How Homework Is Hurting Children and What Parents Can Do About It
The Case Against Homework: How Homework Is Hurting Children and What Parents Can Do About It

I will discuss this book in greater detail later in the article, but for now I'd like you to know that I found this book extremely helpful for navigating through the homework issue. It covers both homework theory and practical information for working with teachers to reduce the homework load of your child.

 
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Is Homework Good or Bad?

Benefits vs. Detriments of Homework Assignments

Proponents of homework reason that assignments give students an academic boost, teach kids how to budget their time, and give them responsibility.

Others are alarmed by the amount of time their children are dedicating to homework assignments. They argue that homework interferes with precious family time, creates excess stress and conflict among family members, and doesn't give kids an opportunity to just be kids.

Most of us assume that if a teacher has assigned homework, it is important for our kids' education. Surprisingly, though, research indicates that homework has little or no benefit at the elementary school level and only modest or moderate benefits for older students.

This fact alone should cause us to all stop and reconsider our blind faith in the value of homework. It is ironic that most school teachers, administrators, and parents have not done their homework about homework!

As with most other things, homework is not necessarily "all good" or "all bad."

The pros and cons of homework depend largely upon the quality of homework, the needs of the student, and the needs of the family.

How Much Homework Is Enough?

Current Homework Guidelines

Experts are now saying that an appropriate amount of homework is:

10 minutes per grade level per weeknight.

This means that a first-grader could have 10 minutes of homework Monday through Thursday nights. A sixth-grader could 60 minutes and a senior in high school could have a total of two hours (120 minutes). There should be no homework assigned over weekends or vacations.

Many students and parents report having much more than 10 minutes per grade level per weeknight and may have hours of homework to complete each and every day. But even if assignments do follow these guidelines, many kids and their families struggle to balance the time required to complete homework with family time and other activities and obligations.

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Quality vs. Quantity

Small, quality assignments have more value than "busywork"

It is important to distinguish between homework quantity and homework quality. If it's just "busywork," it does nothing to improve academic competence.

However, if the homework assignment is well-designed and engaging, it may well be a helpful learning tool.

I am much more inclined to have my son do his writing homework than math, since his writing skills could use some improvement.

But I would rather see him playing enthusiastically with his brother than doing homework sheets that simply repeat what he's been doing ALL DAY at school!

The Best Book You Can Read About Homework

The Case Against Homework

There is an excellent resource available to help parents understand the numerous issues around homework and how to navigate through the confusion and frustration in order to support our kids' academic and life needs. It is an eye-opening book called The Case Against Homework by Sara Bennett and Nancy Kalish.

In The Case Against Homework, the authors detail what is known about both the benefits and detriments of homework, how to identify quality homework assignments, and -- most importantly -- how to work with teachers, school administrators, and other families to create homework options that are sensible and helpful.

I especially appreciate that the advice is to truly collaborate with teachers and administrators and not be adversarial. It is usually not the teacher's fault that there is so much homework, since the teacher is generally following instructions set forth by the school, district, and/or curriculum package and doing what they assume to be helpful by assigning homework.

The Case Against Homework - A critical resource for any family struggling with homework issues

The Case Against Homework: How Homework Is Hurting Children and What Parents Can Do About It
The Case Against Homework: How Homework Is Hurting Children and What Parents Can Do About It

This is an amazing book! It is full of information about the few pros and numerous cons of homework.

It describes, in detail, specific actions YOU can take in order to control the amount of homework your child does.

There is lots of advice for working respectfully and effectively with teachers and school administrators to help your child, your family, and other families navigate homework issues.

 
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My Opinion Regarding Homework

My personal conviction is that individual families must decide for themselves which homework assignments are sensible and beneficial and how much homework is too much. There are many factors to consider, and the specific needs of each family and the students in that family are paramount.

In my own family, we do only some of the homework assignments. I know that my sons get much more out of playing together, resolving conflicts resulting from "cooperative" play, building with Legos, using their imaginations, running around, doing a couple of extra-curricular activities, and enjoying family reading time. But I do make sure that the homework assignments that meet my son's particular needs are completed.

Many experts assert that reading, reading, reading is the single best thing parents can do with their kids to engage them in active learning. We do a lot of reading here!

Play is also considered to be a critical form of learning, though modern society leaves very little time and space for free play. Too much homework means kids don't have sufficient time to play independently and with peers, engage in imaginative play, exercise during active play, daydream, and explore their world.

These activities are NOT a waste of time. They are important learning experiences that help kids develop skills in a number of areas, some of which are academic in nature, since writing, drawing, reading, math and other skills may easily be found in various forms of "play."

I realize my stance may seem radical, but I don't think it is. If doing a lot of homework actually improved academics, I would consider it more worthwhile. As it is, it seems that it takes away from true learning experiences while increasing pressure on the students and their families.

We have all been trained to believe in the inherent value of homework -- I am no exception. It is difficult to re-evaluate such long-held beliefs and try to discover what really works in the areas of academic success, childhood development, and family life.

Take Action!

Control how much and what kind of homework to do!

Our goal as a team of parents, students, teachers, and administrators should be to develop guidelines that truly promote the overall health and education of our families and communities.

Follow your instincts and decide what is best for your family,

then TAKE THE STEPS necessary to achieve a healthy balance!

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      112093 3 years ago

      Kids in middle school who have 60-70 minutes of homework every day actually score worse on standardized tests. Homework does not help if you don't under stand the subject that the homework is on. If you don't understand a topic, well, teachers give you homework so that you can make sure you've got it down. But if you don't have it down in the first place, then homework is just making it worse, because then you can't complete it and you lose points, but it wouldn't be your fault, and you wouldn't be able to help it. It wouldn't be fair. Another thing, in lower grades like elementary schools, they give you recess so that you can take a break or be active. But if you don't do your homework, they make you stay inside and do it, which defeats the entire purpose of recess.

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      ismeedee 4 years ago

      I agree with you so much and thanks for this lens. It's nice to have a reference to use to state my case if ever they get pushy at my son's school about the homework. It's the secondary level when it gets scary. In England they push the kids nonstop about 'revising' for exams and I'm so against the emphasis on it. I told my daughter not to worry about it and refused to get into the 'spirit' of it (they even hold regular meetings for parents to give them advice on how to push the kids!!) and guess what? She's excelling at college now.

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      Nancy Tate Hellams 4 years ago from Pendleton, SC

      I think it can be overdone but I also think it is good for parents to be involved and know what their children are learning. You have some good thoughts here about Homework and I enjoyed my visit.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      Homework is good because that's a way kids can learn but sometimes there tends to be too much of it that both parents and kids get information overload and kids have less time to relax and do anything else. It always helps that parents are hands-on in helping their children and making homework time fun and a great learning experience.

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      @BuckHawkcenter: No no no no no no no no no no no no no homework is USLESS ALL IT DOSE IS BORENYOU AND MAKE YOU SICK FROM STRESS

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      Celticep 5 years ago

      Great lens, thought provoking points to debate! :)

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      Valerie Bloom 5 years ago from Pennsylvania, USA

      @Elyn MacInnis: I'm glad you were able to help them find the fun in homework -- Just a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down! It definitely makes a difference when the kids aren't made to feel like they're doing homework as a punishment!

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      Elyn MacInnis 5 years ago from Shanghai, China

      Ah yes - I LOVED your old photos. What a kick!

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      Elyn MacInnis 5 years ago from Shanghai, China

      I enjoyed this debate. I would sometimes help my girls when they were small. It actually made the homework more fun, and I could encourage them. I didn't do it for them. I just sat by them and we made some fun out of it. Worked well.

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      kab 5 years ago from Upstate, NY

      Homework is a good thing. The education system has so many problems with it from kindergarten on and I think forcing technology where it is not helpful is one of them. For example, kids should not have calculators in kindergarten. They also don't need ipad curriculum. When they are 5 years old, they need interaction and good old reading, writing (including handwriting!), and arithmetic.

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      Beverly Rodriguez 5 years ago from Albany New York

      I like a reasonable amount of homework. The kids get the feel of meeting a requirement and have the responsibility of making time for it.

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      Auntie-M LM 5 years ago

      Good topic. I wish more people would listen to its ramifications.

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      Valerie Bloom 5 years ago from Pennsylvania, USA

      @BuckHawkcenter: Working WITH the teachers is key. In some cases, students' grades are penalized as a result of not completing homework assignments. A difficult decision must then be made by the family: Is the time spent doing homework worth a higher grade or not? That can be an excruciating choice!

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      BuckHawkcenter 5 years ago

      Homework can be a valuable tool to help children improve. But, I don't know how you get away with not doing all the homework assigned by your sons' teachers. When my children were in school, they would have been penalized by their teachers. Although, this was a debate that was going on 20 years ago as well!

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      BuckHawkcenter 5 years ago

      Good topic to cover in a debate. Nice information as well.