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Updated on June 18, 2011

sense the enemy

enemy in me

Enemy is a state of mind. Meaning of enemy "a person who hostile to you ". Basically it's start with ourselves. If you need you can be enemy for others, at the sametime , you may create number of enemies yourselves also. How we are creating enemies for ourselves.

May be some of the people has the tendencies to hostile others. But how best we are accepting him and regarding his negaive activities, based on that we are boosting or encouraging enemies activities. The person is the same.Any person has two faces. One with good ness and another with badness. Depends on some situation he will act. But who receives the good ness from that person, call him as friend. When somebody receives bad things from the same person, he becomes enemy for that person.

Here the word receiving goodness or badness is important to concentrate. Because you are receiving badness from that person , you consider or tell him as enemy. Not only receiving , we also depositing the same in our mind. So, the thought what we are sowing about a particular person ,whether it is good or bad, it grows like a tree in our mind. This becomes belief in us that , he is enemy for me. In reality the thinking about enemy grows in me. In other words enemy in me starts , before we create real enemy. Here also I stress the word we create , not created on it's own.

Each and everybody in this world has enemies as well as friends. In the whole history of this world even great leaders of all religion and politics has considered as enemies and friend aswell. It depends on proportion, they projected as heros or villains. Because you may doing good for particular person. But for the otherman , it may  result in bad thing. This is reality. You cannot be good to all.But understanding the facts not receiving the bad things into our mind is important to eliminate the enemy in me. Because you are also not apart.

Let us see how to eliminate enemy in me.

1. When you get affected by badthings of partcular person, you must start thinking in broader way. or just ignore those bad things.

2.  Try to be in middle of any thoughts by analysing instead of getting confused with bad and good things.

3. Try to avoid accepting unwanted thoughts and growing the same.In other words you try to give positive approach to those thoughts.

4. If you don't want to be enemy for others , try to implement anything by considering major as well as minor things , even it is small thing also.

5. Read as much as possible sacred books and thinkers autobiography. Don't restrick with particular religion or particular region thinkers.This helps us to validate as well as deliver the good thinking for one and all.

6. Avoid decision taking in emotional way.


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      sarovai 7 years ago

      Thank u paradigmsearch for stopping by and commenting on this hub. Always there is no alternative to positive approach.

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      Person of Interest 7 years ago from SoCal, USA

      I particularly agree with your following statement: "Try to avoid accepting unwanted thoughts and growing the same.In other words you try to give positive approach to those thoughts."

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      sarovai 7 years ago

      Thank u travel_man1971 for stopping by and commenting. It is true "you reap what you sowed". whether it is negative or positive you will get the same back.There is no second thought for that. It may be delayed action or immediate, but the result as you said.

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      sarovai 7 years ago

      Thank u Kaie Arwen for commenting. How we direct our anger, hositility, negativity based on that our character defined. whether we like or not it is the base.

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      Ireno Alcala 7 years ago from Bicol, Philippines

      Just look at the brighter side of our lives. Negative thoughts and attitude will give more harm than good. There's a saying, "You reap what you sowed."

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      Kaie Arwen 7 years ago

      I think that in a certain way your feelings are accurate, but not in all ways. In this life I have what by your description would be one enemy. Hostility, anger, negativity; yes, it grew just like a tree........... and the branches were at their worst suffocating. It wasn't what I made it, and it wasn't created or sowed in my own mind; it just was...........