Men And Women Who Are GoldDiggers

There are tell-tale signs of a golddigger. They have a certain look and demure about themselves that many cannot see. Both men and women will spend hours tanning, primping and shopping for that particular look that attracts the lost souls who are looking for love. The golddiggers are smartly dressed, beautiful or handsome , young and sexy.

Women tend to dress a little more risque' to grab their Daddy Warbucks attention and the Gentleman tend to work on that body even harder, to give that older woman some eye candy to look at.

Women tend to chose the older man with a little paunch or balding head who is a bit older then they are , normally 10 years or more. The older man tends to want an arm trophy for his friends to google and awe over.

Men tend to chose the older woman with the hard body and sassy chic look. It provides status to them and it also makes the older woman much more attractive having a young one on her arm. Women do not tend to want them on their arm as a trophy, but a companion in the bedroom that can keep up with the sex drive.

Both male and female choose to tell you what you are looking to hear, not what you honestly should be hearing. They will place you on a pedestal and make you believe that you are the Queen of Sheba or the King of England for that matter. They will stimulate your mind and ask questions that would make your toes tingle and your heart race. They will prey upon your weakness and not your strengths in order to have their needs fulfilled.

The golddigger will have their nails and heels dug into you so deep, you will not know if you are coming or going, you will think that you are in love by the words and actions that they use, not realizing that they are looking for a sugar daddy or mama to satisfy there every need. I have seen this happen to a handful of friends and I have seen the choices that they make, both male and female as they have never gone in with their eyes wide open, but they certainly have gone in blinded by the light. In the end the relationships either fail as there really wasn't anything in common and she takes him for all he has or he the young stud that was laying next you finds that he wants to have a child you cannot bear or choose not to, and so he packs his things and runs, and leaves you speechless believing that all of it was love and it was just a mere act of gold digging.

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 Goldiggers, they are out there men and women who prey day after day upon helpless vicitms who are merely looking for a solid relationship, someone who can make them laugh, make them cry and feel emotion. They don't care what you look like , just so long as you can fulfill their needs and line their pockets with gold. Many of us knows someone male or female who is exactly like that, at least I do. I have a couple of friends who wil not be with a man unless he has a six figure income or higher. Both of course are married to their men, but the stories are just the same. "I am not in love with X , however he does provide for me and the kids." Money is quite important to them, as they feel it is a man's job to take care of them and allocate them an allowance. They have housekeepers and cooks and their day is spent giving orders, going to get their hair and nails done, and making certain that Suzy and Johnny are picked up after school.

On the flip side here is a young MR. Z who sees that Jill has a nice little nest egg put away for a rainy day. Jill is looking for someone to keep up with her libido and bumps into Mr. Z who is like the energizer rabbit, he can keep on going. She brags about Mr. Z and what he can do for her in the bedroom. He can lick you up and down blah, blah, blah so can someone else your age. While Mr. Z Is busy scamming Jill , she believes he loves her. Golddiggers do not know what love truly is, the simply enjoy basking in the glory of the fat bank account and they will tell anybody what they want to hear for an almighty buck!

Tell them the bank is closed and see what happens, they are the first to file for a divorce and take you for every last penny. If you are dating they want to blast your name to the entire world about what a horrible and inhumane person you really are. I have seen many of my friends go through this male and female and it certainly is not a pretty sight. I couldn't imagine living my life as they do, but to be able to step back and look inside their world , I find it interesting but chaotic and would not wish that upon anyone.