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50 Best Country Songs About Using People

Updated on September 8, 2025
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Carson suffers from a serious case of melophilia. Geeking out on her favorite music artists is her guilty pleasure.

Country Songs That Explore Using Others

There’s a certain sting in songs where someone ends up feeling like a placeholder. It’s not the dramatic heartbreak you see in big breakup anthems, more like that quiet realization that you were convenient for a moment and nothing deeper. Country music leans into that kind of raw space, sometimes with sharp storytelling and sometimes with a bitter laugh. Even tracks from pop, rock, country, and R&B songs have circled this theme in their own way, so the lines get blurry. Some of these tunes don’t spell it out literally, but they carry the same undercurrent of taking what you need from someone and walking away.

The sound shifts depending on who’s telling the story. A smooth acoustic ballad can make it feel tender, like someone looking back with a soft kind of regret. Then there are rowdy barroom stompers where the mood is closer to revenge, loud and unapologetic. In between, you get these quieter cuts that sit heavy, where the person singing doesn’t seem sure if they’re the one doing the using or the one being used. That messy middle space is where a lot of the best songs live, the ones that don’t flinch or clean things up for a neat ending.

No one really wants to admit they’ve been on either side of this dynamic, but these tracks tap into it anyway. They hit that nerve in a way that feels uncomfortably familiar, like overhearing a conversation you weren’t meant to catch. Some might not literally deal with manipulation or one-sided relationships, but they fit the mood all the same. Here are the best country songs that capture the feeling of using people.

Top 10 Country Songs About Being Used

1. 'Before He Cheats' by Carrie Underwood

2. 'Goodbye Earl' by The Chicks

3. 'Gunpowder & Lead' by Miranda Lambert

4. 'Jolene' by Dolly Parton

5. 'I Hope' by Gabby Barrett

6. 'Blame It on Your Heart' by Patty Loveless

7. 'Mama's Broken Heart' by Miranda Lambert

8. 'White Liar' by Miranda Lambert

9. 'You Ain't Woman Enough' by Loretta Lynn

10. 'Whose Bed Have Your Boots Been Under?' by Shania Twain

Country Songs About Deception #11 to 20

11. 'She's Actin' Single (I'm Drinkin' Doubles)' by Gary Stewart

12. 'Whoever's in New England' by Reba McEntire

13. 'Here's a Quarter (Call Someone Who Cares)' by Travis Tritt

14. 'Stay' by Sugarland

15. 'The Thunder Rolls' by Garth Brooks

16. 'Does My Ring Hurt Your Finger' by Charley Pride

17. 'You'll Think of Me' by Keith Urban

18. 'I Just Started Hatin' Cheatin' Songs Today' by Moe Bandy

19. 'Trailer for Rent' by Pistol Annies

20. 'Wasted' by Carrie Underwood

Infidelity and Betrayal in Country Music #21 to 30

21. 'Gaslighter' by The Chicks

22. 'Better Man' by Little Big Town

23. 'Kerosene' by Miranda Lambert

24. 'I Walk the Line' by Johnny Cash

25. 'Picture to Burn' by Taylor Swift

26. 'I'm Gonna Sleep with One Eye Open' by Dolly Parton

27. 'Dirty Laundry' by Carrie Underwood

28. 'Whispering Waltz' by Sierra Ferrell

29. 'When I Was His Wife' by Pistol Annies

30. 'Your Cheatin' Heart' by Hank Williams

Songs About Being Cheated On #31 to 40

31. 'Tornado' by Little Big Town

32. 'Two Black Cadillacs' by Carrie Underwood

33. 'I Let Her Lie' by Daryle Singletary

34. 'Wish I Didn't Know Now' by Toby Keith

35. 'Consider Me Gone' by Reba McEntire

36. 'What I Almost Was' by Eric Church

37. 'Just a Girl' by The Chicks

38. 'Gin, Smoke, Lies' by Turnpike Troubadours

39. 'Who's Cheatin' Who' by Alan Jackson

40. 'I'm Over You' by Keith Whitley

Country Songs About Breakup and Heartbreak #41 to 50

41. 'Crazy' by Patsy Cline

42. 'Blue Eyes Crying in the Rain' by Willie Nelson

43. 'Don't Take the Girl' by Tim McGraw

44. 'Whiskey Lullaby' by Brad Paisley and Alison Krauss

45. 'A Little Bit Stronger' by Sara Evans

46. 'I'm Gonna Miss Her (The Fishin' Song)' by Brad Paisley

47. 'Over You' by Miranda Lambert

48. 'Fire Away' by Chris Stapleton

49. 'Starting Over' by Chris Stapleton

50. 'I'll Go Stepping Too' by Emmylou Harris

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