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102 Reasons to get Married

Updated on April 7, 2011

1. DATING IS DONE!!! (whoo hoo)

2. You always have some one to talk to. (It may be about the kids or the trash, but there it is.)

3. You'll never laugh so much.

4. You'll always have some one to share your day with.

5. There's something very sexy about kissing the same person, it's nice to know what to expect.

6. You don't really have to worry about STD's.

7. You gain an entire branch to your family tree.

8. Mothers-in-law aren't as awful as they seem, mine is like the other side of my mother I never got to know.


10. You have some one to tuck your cold toes against in the middle of the night and eventually they become resigned.

11. You share dreams, hopes, ambition and sorrows.

12. There will be someone to pick you up at the airport after a trip . . .

13. and some one to miss you while you're gone.

14. You don't have to worry about what you look like when you go to bed

15. or when you wake up ;)

16. No one knows you as well as your spouse.

17. You'll always have a date on Saturday night.

18. Seeing your spouse smile just because you walked into the room.

19. Not having to shower alone, when you don't want to.

20. Having some one else to wake up with the kids on Saturday morning.

21. Getting your favorite flowers on Valentine's Day.

22. Having your husband buy you the flowers that were in your wedding bouquet, because he remembers what they were.

23. Having someone to help you raise your children.

24. Watching your husband dance in the middle of the living room with your daughter or play baseball in the yard with your son. Seeing your wife kiss your son's boo boo or watching her take the box full of garden snakes without screaming.

25. Slow dancing together in the kitchen to your favorite song.

26. Familiarity.

27. Knowing each other's bodies.

28. Having someone to smash the bugs, and kill the rodents for you.

29. Looking forward to seeing him or her walk through the door at the end of the day.

30. Catching a glimpse of your wedding ring and remembering the day it was put on your finger.

31. Feeling your love grow, year by year, moment by moment.

32. Planting roots together.

33. Moving isn't as scary when you're doing it together.

34. Learning the intimacies of another human being.

35. Having someone to confide in that already knows all your fears and foibles and loves you despite of them.

36. Holding hands.

37. Having some one to bring you soup and take care of you when you're sick.

38. Knowing you don't ever have to rely on yourself alone.

39. Having a help mate and partner.

40. You never have to worry about where you'll spend a holiday.

41. Having someone to care that you're sick.

42. Leaving steam "shower notes" for each other to find.

43. Understanding that sometimes the vows are more important than the moment.

44. Realizing that even bad years are better together than apart.

45. Getting a back rub from someone who knows exactly how you like to be touched.

46. Hearing your children giggle (or gag), when you're kissing on the couch.

47. Having children that know they're parents are bound together by more than just mutual affection.

48. Not having to use Pornography, which is humiliating and debassing.

49. Feeling your breath catch when you see someone that just looks like your spouse.

50. Getting scared and leaving the theatre while at a movie and having your honey be the only one who comes out and says "it's okay honey, we can go."

51. Standing together and preparing your fields for rain.

52. Having another person to : carpool

53. take the kids to the doctor

54. take the dog or cat to the vet.

55. wash the dishes.

56. fold the laundry.

57. put gas in your car.

58. pay the electricity bill when you forget.

59. buy groceries and buy your favorites.

60. pick up diapers.

61. and mow the lawn

62. Being able to watch someone else's hair turn gray.

63. Realizing that time and wrinkles don't matter.

64. Anniversaries are celebrations!!

65. Fulfilling your part of the covenant.

66. Having someone to call when your car breaks down on the highway.

67. Having his mom teach you how to sew and her mom give you the money to buy a house.

68. Going away for a long weekend together and basking in each other.

69. Having someone to love you even when you're difficult.

70. Making up.

71. Learning the fine art of compromise.

72. Having intelligent discussions at 3 in the morning, because the baby's teething. (ok, semi intelligent, because you're both exhausted.)

73. Having someone to make you laugh when you're depressed.

74. Having someone to go to the doctor with you when he says you have cancer.

75. Knowing that when you're fifty someone will give a darn whether or not you eat the whole wheat toast or the donut.

76. Having your wife or husband as an excuse to stay out of trouble. "Gee guys, I can't eat that. The wife'll kill me." Whether it's true or not.

77. Knowing that when you come home at night, someone will be there.

78. The security of knowing that it's a lot harder to leave a marriage than a "relationship".

79. Not having to file child support papers.

80. Not having to go to court to see your kids.

81. Not having to explain to your parents, kids, siblings and friends why you're still just "living together".

82. Married, you can both claim the kids.

83. Not having to pay child support.

84. Waking up with your spouse, the kids, and the dog.

85. Going on dates and falling in love with him over and over again.

86. Who says you only have to have one wedding just because you're married? Have as many as you want, the plus is it will always be to the same person.

87. Having someone on your side even when you're wrong.

88. Having someone who knows your story.

89. Being able to laugh at your own inside jokes.

90. Being over sixty and still buying lingerie because you're the only naked thing he gets to see in his own bedroom.

91. Having someone to support you, in those grieving hours after a parent dies.

92. Giving and receiving comfort.

93 Foot rubs.

94. Not having to dress up for a bar-b-que.

95. No longer having to go to clubs, or bars to find someone.

96. Dancing with someone who already knows the steps.

97. Laughing at even his corniest jokes, because he's just so cute.

98. Going on dates and not having to worry about saying the wrong thing.

99. Farting in bed loses it's "I'm so embarrassed" factor. (IT'S STILL GROSS, but he's your husband and well buy a can of oust for the bed table.)

100. Having someone who thinks you're beautiful, or handsome and tells you so.

101. Children are a blessing instead of an accident.

102. Growing old together, the good Lord willing and the creek don't rise.


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    • Leah Wingert profile imageAUTHOR

      Leah Wingert 

      5 years ago from Texas

      I disagree.

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      6 years ago

      These are good things that can come with marriage, but these are not reasons to get married...

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      8 years ago

      This was simply beautiful!

      And it makes me want even more, the closesness that people have with spouses..........with the simple things like watching a hubby dance with your daughter....

      but I'm still young, and have plenty of time to find HIM.... :D thanks for this!

    • noor tony profile image

      noor tony 

      9 years ago

      All above are completelly right,beautiful,interesting.Respect ,trust are main base for successful marriage.Great hub.

    • Xim profile image


      9 years ago

      Great Hub!

      I always thought the whole "there's a perfect person for you" thing was a bunch of crap. Until I found her. :)

    • Leah Wingert profile imageAUTHOR

      Leah Wingert 

      9 years ago from Texas

      Wait. Wait! The wedding!! Come that has to help, tell him that you do all the married stuff any way, you adore each other, you have kids maybe but you haven't been able to have the wedding yet! Why not just get that piece of paper, plus there's a really cool party, you get gifts and you get to eat cake in the middle of the afternoon and no one will look at you funny.

    • Leah Wingert profile imageAUTHOR

      Leah Wingert 

      9 years ago from Texas


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      9 years ago

      You can do ALL of that without being married. I do all that and I live with my partner, but we are not married. I was looking for a good reason to marry him, because we already live together and do all the things married couples do, so this didn't help me at all.

    • JPSO138 profile image


      9 years ago from Cebu, Philippines, International

      Very interesting. Surely this is something that everyone should read!

    • Eldritch Elegy profile image

      Eldritch Elegy 

      9 years ago

      Well, it IS a lovely Hub, and I'm glad you found happiness, but...

      Would you mind if a write a Hub in the opposite direction? Having some frustration and some writer's block, and maybe it's just the topic to get it all to go away.

    • Leah Wingert profile imageAUTHOR

      Leah Wingert 

      9 years ago from Texas

      Love is not love that alters when alteration finds.  Oh no! Love is an ever fixed mark.  Wm Shakespeare.

      There's so much I seem to have forgotten on this list of reasons as well, one of which is the wedding! When else will ladies be able to wear a "Cinderella" ball gown and have EVERY one's attention entirely on her? **sigh** weddings are wonderful things, so worth the marriage that comes afterward!

    • katyzzz profile image


      9 years ago from Sydney, Australia

      I'm just so pleased to see someone promoting the idea of marriage. Well done. I'm really fed up with all the others (full time losers, I call them)

    • Ivorwen profile image


      9 years ago from Hither and Yonder

      Love numbers 69 and 71! It is wonderful to have a friend who is there no matter what.

    • Christa Dovel profile image

      Christa Dovel 

      9 years ago from The Rocky Mountains, North America

      Good list. There are so many benefits to being married. You have inspired me to make one of my own!

    • Mr Nice profile image

      Mr Nice 

      9 years ago from North America

      Hi Leah Wingert!

      Very interesting experiences you had during your marriage. Marriage has many benefits.

      The biggest & only benefit of marriage is free sex on demand if she has no headache. Here are some funny make your day.

      ~By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. ~funny Socrates

      ~Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway. ~funny Joey Adams

      ~A man doesn't know what hapiness is until he's married. By then it's too late. ~Frank Sinatra

    • raymondphilippe profile image

      Raymond Philippe 

      9 years ago from The Netherlands

      indeed, it is very nice to get married and have someone to spend the rest of your days with.

    • Gin Delloway profile image

      Gin Delloway 

      9 years ago

      great hub!! I'm impressed... very-very interesting!

    • Leah Wingert profile imageAUTHOR

      Leah Wingert 

      9 years ago from Texas

      Indeed, I've been married for ten years and if I knew then what I know now, I may have gone running for the hills, but I wouldn't change a moment of the "good times or the bad".

    • Nayberry profile image


      9 years ago from

      It is a true labor of love.


    • Leah Wingert profile imageAUTHOR

      Leah Wingert 

      9 years ago from Texas

      Thank you, there seems to be such cynicism about marriage these days. It may be hard work, but it's good work.

    • Nayberry profile image


      9 years ago from

      I can't wait to find all this in another. I thought I'd be married by now, but I'm not worried. I will have my someone to share life's little moments with and when I do, I am going to post this list where he can see it often just to remind him how good he has it. :)


    • Allen_BOY profile image


      9 years ago from Michigan

      That's nice you have a loving marriage. Not everyone experiences all of those listed, but I'm a believer thanks for the input.


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