Are You Still Being the Overly Strict Parent?
Are you still the Overly Strict Parents?
Are you the one sitting at home and not going out with friends?
Are your parents or parent getting on your nerves?
Are you the child who is often left out from your friend's parties?
Trusting your child is difficult.
Every child is different and should be treated with love, care and respect.
Any teenager requires the honest attitude from their parents. Be to the point and open up easily.
There is never a right or wrong time for any conversation with your child.
''Not now, I don't have the time.''
Often the line heard from many parents.
When you use such words your child is pushed to another level, and can feel as an outsider.
If not now then when?
Parenting is tough if the parent sees it in that way.
The sense of direction is important.
A woman married at a very young age and had three daughters and two sons.
The daughters did not make her the happiest. The sons were her priority.
Having three daughters made the woman feel disappointed.
The overly strict parenting ideas did not work out for her, or for the daughters.
This woman had planned the lives of her daughters the moment they reached their teen years.
A sad situation!
Unfortunately, none of these girls followed their mother's plan.
In turn the mother lost interest in her daughters.
The mother wanted for her girls the life that she never had.
Planning another person’s life is not a good idea.
Individuals are capable of thinking for themselves. No matter what one plans nothing can be changed as you wish for it to be.
I won't allow any one to think for me, or do for me, as long as I am able to do, I have to follow through my goals.
Taking away privileges from teens don't make the parenting any easier.
Communication is key.
Too many restrictions spoils the relationships between child and parent.
Allowing your child freedom at a very young age is not the answer to a well-disciplined individual.
A child needs freedom but only when there is a fair amount of understanding between the parent and child.
Don’t lose interest in your child after their first mistake.
One learns from all mistakes.
It is easy to yell at your child.
Think twice before you get into that mood.
You were once in that situation so now try to change that old traits.
If you have trust issues from your past don't bring that on in your weak parenting.
Start all new and don’t make the same mistakes your parents made with you.
Change is good for you!
Most people don't like change but try go with the flow.
Modern times have given children more leash and you are still living in the time that suits you best.
Old-fashioned parents want to stay in their own worlds and that makes parent even harder to cope with.
When you don't understand the modern times parenting can be tough.
Whether you have a four year old son or daughter treat your child alike.
No child in any family can be the same. You as the parent should love your children no matter what.
Too many rules can ruin family relationships.
Even to this day parenting feels a nightmare for many overly strict parents.
Sometimes the threats you make can make your child hate you.
Think about your threats before making any.
Overly protective parents can be annoying.
Repeating themselves over and over to their child about going out, when to get back home, and dos and don’t 's.
A young woman in her twenties shouldn't be treated like a five year old.
It may sound weird if a twenty something year old is still living with their parents.
It could be for the following reasons:
Being the youngest child can be another reason.
A woman living on her own in some violent places is not a good choice.
Parents are mostly overly strict with their daughters.
Going out is like a crime.
Why overly strict parenting can cause bad behaviors in children?
You may think the stricter you are the more disciplined your child will be, you are wrong!
When parents are showing rules and a stricter attitude they are pushing their child away.
The too many restrictions are depriving your child of life itself.
It shows too much of control.
A child who is often yelled at sees life differently from the child who has not been yelled at.
The more you choose to yell at your child that child would become aggressive, and yell at others in public places.
They eventually become bullies.
Showing authority in raising your child is not how you should go about parenting.
Teenagers become lonely and feel left out from reality.
Any child would feel driven over the edge with such overly strict parents.
Children raised with overly strict parents don't take on responsibility very well.
A strictly parented child shows resentment and anger.
An individual who does not follow through their chosen diet would instead eat when they are not supposed to.
This allows for obesity.
Do you think your overly strict tips would allow for your child to be the most disciplined?
The overly strict parents don't see how wrong they are in their own steps.
Raising a child in a strict way allows for telling lies. Your child will get up to mischief when you are not around.
They wait for you to be out of sight before getting into trouble. In the presence of you they will be such angels.
All will seem good on the surface.
Most overly strict parents want the best for their children but, with such authority they are doing is ruining the parent and child relationships.
The fact that strict parenting causes hard managements, and dissatisfied relationships with child and parent, it is far more difficult to cope with in many families.
You want to raise your child the way you were raised.
Get over it times have changed!
The constant arguing and trying to see right from wrong can make both child and parent most unhappy.
In such cases when the child gets older they find love in the troubled places, and with troubled individuals.
Why does this happen?
The child feels restricted all the time, and wants to get out of that circle.
The only way out is to find someone to feel loved and that can be anyone the parent disapproves of.
Most parents don' t understand the reasons for why all of this happens and continues to blame their child for their wrong doing.
The overly strict parenting doesn't show the best behaved children.
What happens to children when raised with overly strict parents?
Everything a child thinks and feels leads to a negative mental block.
The child feels down and depressed.
The child fails in achieving goals.
When the parent constantly tells you what to do rather than guide you that is not good parenting.
There comes a time when you have to let go and let be!
A child has to take responsibility of their own actions at some point in their lives.
No parent can be there for their child at all times.
Mistakes are meant to be made and learned from through out your lives.
If you are looking for perfect forget it!
Sometimes one of the parent has a better understanding than the other.
Where you the overly strict Parent?
Overly Strict Parenting
© 2015 Devika Primić