ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

The Guidelines To Get Rid of Bullying For Good

Updated on June 27, 2020
Source

It is chronic!

Though the trend now across the entire globe addresses the phenomenon of Bullying, I would like to say it is not a new issue, rather it is chronic since mankind has been created, and history lists many of its accidents. Unfortunately, all the world has paid attention to it in such a condensed campaign just recently. If only its catastrophic consequences had been realized earlier, we would have saved ourselves much pain.


In my opinion, bullying is the root of most evil on earth. For instance, racism is an aspect of bullying behavior. Many crimes are the result of minor situations of bullying. Grudge and hate feelings can grow crazy from very minor situations of bullying. Even suicide accidents, not all but a big share of them are referred to bullying.


Currently, we see posts on social media, schools awareness announcements and press articles. No doubt that these are good steps but are not considered enough to put an end to it. we need to always remember as parents that our own words to our kids can count as bullying if we don’t watch them properly.

Early Life Bullying

Parents could be a source of bullying unconsciously, while they raise their children. It starts from the very early years of the child when, for instance, parents try to urge them to improve their skills. In addition, friends‘ words or other people’s said out of jealousy can affect them tremendously For the rest of their life. E.g “she has small eyes whereas her brother or sister has bigger ones”, He is really a bloody boy”, her hair is loofah(very frizzy)” why are you not beautiful like your mother” and many words that remain deep inside the child forever.


The child can spend all their life trying to prove the opposite of a negative word said by someone one day, especially within the family, so they can feel they are accepted and no longer have the bad image. Such a suffering can easily lead to committing suicide.

How To Get Over It?

The only way to erase this impact is to fortify your child’s self-esteem. Your words have the permanent effect. Your words are the shield that protects them from falling in the hole of the negative thoughts, then loss of self-confidence and hence, the inability to live properly in the society.


Fortunately, the human memory adapts itself once the person succeeds in something or when receives a positive thought about themselves. The confidence and self-esteem are enhanced gradually till all the bad memories fade away or till lose its negative impact.


Thank God that change is the main theme of our life.

The School’s Role

Schools play a significant role in facing this issue. They are not only required to give advice or instructions, but also there is a practical method to stop it. They should give significance to the bullied child and assign him important tasks, so they feel their self-esteem and their colleagues know how they are mistaken and try to be like them.

Source

The Bully’s Family

On the other side, let’s see the side of the bully’s family. Unfortunately, most not all families don’t care if their child is a bully, rather some families feel content that their child is so, believing that it is a positive point or that they have a strong personality!!!!!


The solution here lies in the parents’ conscience and principles.


The religious awareness is as significant as the humane causes since bullying is a refused behavior and prohibited in all religions.

What If The Child’s Grown Up With This Issue?

The same solution tactic applies on adults. They can resist it by persisting in ignoring it, and moving on to be better persons with more self-confidence. Success in their life would be the greatest punishment to the bully as well.


In addition, seeking a psychiatrist’s help is not shameful. On the contrary, it is very recommended for healing rapidly and maintaining psychological health.

In conclusion, all the society’s parties are required to collaborate their efforts and fight together, hand in hand, in order to defeat this destructive phenomenon.

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    No comments yet.

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://corp.maven.io/privacy-policy

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
    ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)